okay, last night i brought this chick over that i met and everything was going well, i broke out some black label and we were both getting pretty drunk when we started making out and taking our clothes off, then we went to my bedroom and i took off my pants and she just looked shocked and held it and said "there is no way i could take that inside me" wtf im 6" inches girth and i told her i would take it slow but wtf! how can a woman just be so close minded to not even try! anyway mainly venting but also asking have any of you ever turned down sex after seeing your partner?