Your Girl Cheats On You With Your Best Friend...
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My ex girlfriend cheated on me with a good friend of mine (not my best friend). In retaliation, I had sex with his girlfriend, broke up with my girlfriend, and freezed out my friend. Our whole friendship group also turned their back on him.
Some things can’t be forgiven!
Some things can’t be forgiven!
Definitely an unforgivable offense, to be taken as not only a passively selfish act, but as an active assault upon my well being. He's ghosted forever, I keep in contact long enough with her to be aware of every subsequent partner that triggers every one of her sexual insecurities(age, weight, looks)after the fact, especially those she had expressed jealousy about previously. There is no forgiveness offered to a demographic that more often than not demonstrates an incapability to respect someone they cheated upon.
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Let me ask what I think is the general gendered difference that exists in cheating(and thus the societal double standard) Did you sleep with the girl's best friend in a direct response to some failing or offense of hers, or simply because the friend presented herself as an opportunity that wasn't otherwise available? Both are far from examples of admirable behaviors, but think there is a relevant difference in the degree of offense of cheating to capitalize upon an opportunity and cheating to spite your partner.
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Maybe a bit of both. I was getting a bit bored in the relationship, she was super close to her friend, they were like sisters as they known each other all their lives pretty much. I could tell the friend liked me, though she tried to hide it. I created a situation and used it to my advantage.
I feel that is the best way of dealing with it. Retaliation and revenge all in one fell swoop.
I know some men want to beat up the girl's partner, but my point is this - if both were willing parties in this, why waste time beating up the guy? I understand it is a reaction to the frustration, but I would not want the girl to have the pleasure of seeing men fight over her - I would not want to empower her at all. I would much prefer to ditch her, and tell the other guy he can have my cast-offs.
I qualify my words by declaring this had never happened to me before, so all I have - and can present - are theories.
I might well end up a total mess, blubbering pathetically in a corner in front of them when I find myself in this situation, who knows?
My ex had a huge lady boner for one of my good mates. Wasn't hard to spot. I got him over for a threesome and she enjoyed it obviously. Told her she could fuck him any time she wanted as long as I could join in. She still did it behind my back.
He did me a huge favour. That bitch was toxic af anyway. He saved me from a horrible marriage
He did me a huge favour. That bitch was toxic af anyway. He saved me from a horrible marriage
ive never been on either side of that scenario, but if it happened i would cut both of them away. both have betrayed you equally and you are the victim not either of them.
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If your g/f didn't allow it to happen it would not have happened. If your best friend respected you, even if she made advances, he would have thwarted them. Cut them both.
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never has this happened to me but if it did... i would not get mad at all and would do the following:
1. kick my GF to the curb cause she broke my trust. i could care less about the cheating.
2. kick my BF to the curb cause he broke my trust and the bro-code. i could care less about the cheating.
it's not about the sex but the underlying dynamics of the relationship boundaries that both parties broke. i can no longer trust them both anymore so it's easier to just remove both people from my life. if they want to stay then it's gonna take a lot of time and effort on their parts to earn my trust again, if ever.
1. kick my GF to the curb cause she broke my trust. i could care less about the cheating.
2. kick my BF to the curb cause he broke my trust and the bro-code. i could care less about the cheating.
it's not about the sex but the underlying dynamics of the relationship boundaries that both parties broke. i can no longer trust them both anymore so it's easier to just remove both people from my life. if they want to stay then it's gonna take a lot of time and effort on their parts to earn my trust again, if ever.
It’s not your best friend — or any true friend if he does that to you. Bros before hoes ……
As far as her - block her in every way and start fishing again
As far as her - block her in every way and start fishing again
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Never happened to me, but if it did, yeah both would go. I'd find a way to get back at her and God help the dude if he ever crossed my path again. God forbid I walked in on it, would not be a pretty situation for both of em. I've heard of that happening to guys, like walking in on their gf's fucking a friend at a party or when she's supposedly at her friends house for girls night etc. I just couldnt fathom it. My circle of friends is pretty small and I'd never even imagine doing that to one of em and vice versa.
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Never cheated on a girl with her friend, but have had 2 gf's where I fucked their friends after a nasty breakup. lol
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It happened to me, about ayear ago. I couldn't do anything. She stayed with him.
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But sometimes the "sex" thing is the most important thing to wimen. Some are interested in better body and bigger wiener. thats the fact why she went to another man.
It may sound petty but I would dump her. There are so many other fish in the sea and to do that would knowingly cause so much damage that I wouldn’t continue...with either of them.
Mistakes happen and people can get attracted to people they are around a lot but the disregard for the feelings and trust of someone they love is not something I would choose to get past.
Mistakes happen and people can get attracted to people they are around a lot but the disregard for the feelings and trust of someone they love is not something I would choose to get past.
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Facts. If she runs into buff dude with big dick, odds are she will cheat.
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He is that kind of guy. I know him and saw him naked while showering in a sportschool. He is a kind of bodybuilder with a huge cock. I am not, so I have to accept. Its what she wants.
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