Your Girl Cheats On You With Your Best Friend...

[MilfBanger78]

I can put it this way...theres a reason why married women flock to the Magic Mike movies. They could have rich hubbies that buy them everything but if given a choice they'd fuck those guys.

I used to work security at a strip club. Once a week they had male dancers for ladies night, bachelorette parties etc, I literally watched married women suck them off with their other married lady friends and go off to rent motel rooms lol. Just the way of the world.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

Have you ever had a situation where your girl/wife cheated on you with your best friend? How did you handle it? If this has not happened to you, how would you handle this situation? Could you forgive her? Forgive him? Who stays n who goes?

She would eventually leave the best friend too after all the sex is over.

Once their relationship ends I wouldn’t deal with him because he’s a traitor.

But The girl can come back anytime she wants but I’d use her ONLY for sex and money …. Hahahaha.

 

[Gj816]

They've both gotta go. Once a cheater always a cheater. You could never trust either one of them ever again, because there'd always be that question of not would they, but when?

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Once a cheater always a cheater.

While I will always call out cheating as a shitty, horrible thing to do I can't agree with this.

My love cheated on me years. He no longer does. Hasn't in about 8 years of monogamy. Realistically I know I might be wrong, but I'm confident that I'm not. He's brutally honest with me, and I with him. The story is much, MUCH longer than that, but details are irrelevant.

And, after that I fucked a married man. Not something I'll ever do again. Learned the hard way, but how I came to that conclusion doesn't matter.

People rarely change. Not often enough, but sweeping descriptions and generalizations can be (and often are) harmful.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I can forgive even if I don't forget. This applies to friends and partners.. but I won't deny that friends are more sternly 'judged' in this context.

I hate cheating. I have plenty of experience being cheated on. A lil experience being the cheater (had sex with someone who was married). So I speak from experience. I'm not on the outside looking in. I have several perspectives from which to speak on this topic.

 

[MilfBanger78]

While I will always call out cheating as a shitty, horrible thing to do I can't agree with this.

My love cheated on me years. He no longer does. Hasn't in about 8 years of monogamy. Realistically I know I might be wrong, but I'm confident that I'm not. He's brutally honest with me, and I with him. The story is much, MUCH longer than that, but details are irrelevant.

And, after that I fucked a married man. Not something I'll ever do again. Learned the hard way, but how I came to that conclusion doesn't matter.

People rarely change. Not often enough, but sweeping descriptions and generalizations can be (and often are) harmful.

To me, the change is dependent on good will. Like can you look for the best in ppl

 

[Sagittarius84]

And, after that I fucked a married man. Not something I'll ever do again. Learned the hard way, but how I came to that conclusion doesn't matter.

Was this dalliance with the married man an infidelity against your partner at the time?

 

[deleted5199391]

Impossible, lol. I proposed them to fuck but my GF doesn't feel to do that irl.
He was ok with that.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Have you ever had a situation where your girl/wife cheated on you with your best friend? How did you handle it? If this has not happened to you, how would you handle this situation? Could you forgive her? Forgive him? Who stays n who goes?

We can theorize for years, but until it happens you cannot know for sure how you will respond.
Acquaintance 1 was in an open marriage, but there was a veto power for the other partner. He decided to go fuck behind her back anyway. And it was a “friend” of hers. Quite rightly, neither has contact with him now.
He had support payments until she finished college.

Acquaintance 2 met his soulmate on a generalized hall pass ( he traveled a lot for work; she signed on). They are married and happy. His ex also met someone.
this could be chalked up to fate.

I had a few dates with a separated guy. He neglected to mention that his wife did not consider them separated, just that it was a commuter marriage while she cared for her aging parents (cancer and Alzheimer’s).
I find his lack of honestly and
awareness distasteful.

I have a phrase, from Mr HallPass, that everyone has the right to be an ass ONCE. After that, well….

Knowing what I know, having been cheated on long ago, I have a bullshit I’d forgive plan.

 

[oldguyontinder]

I’m polyamorous and have to issue with my partners sleeping with my friends. However, my best friend is in a monogamous relationship of over 15 years with his wife, and I would be extremely disappointed in him if he cheated on her.