Animosity against fems in the community.

[Blessed Gold Star Gay]

I am bi but lean mostly straight. While I love dick, the only guys that tern me on are femms. If I ever dated a guy, it would have to be a femme.

I myself only like fems too. I like the guy to play the fem role but I have no interest in women, who mostly are after your money. Also only a boy knows how to suck cock.

 

[933295]

I started another thread here about affectation among gay guys. I think this might be related to that discussion. Ultimately it's about gender identity. Feminine or feminine-acting men are like women, and women are not valued the same way as men are culturally. So if a gay guy is feminine then he's not a "true" man. There are still plenty of hetero guys who are intimidated by feminine or affected gay guys.

 

[Exbiker]

All forms of animosity or group hatred, without exception, are an effort to maintain personal identity, and promote the interests of "us" over "them".

And yet, to hate others only diminishes yourself.

We need love, kindness, and relaxed acceptance of each other in all our diversities. Whyever not?