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Yeah can totally do it. Mind over matter!
So I wrote this to someone asking for advice. Maybe it helps someone? Would love to hear if it does. You can see me using this method in the vid. At 44 seconds changes from voluntary tenses to involuntary contractions.
Okay so what you need to do is:
First have time and patience. It can't be rushed, but once you've done it you can lean what it feels like and can get quicker.
Second - no distractions. Do it when you won't be disturbed or in your house alone. Maybe put some good porn on, but a film - somthing long, not somthing you have to interact with, skip or flick through. Put it on and leave it.
Get hard. Get close to cumming. But put your hands away, under your butt or behind your back. Don't go to far to the edge.
Think of your cock. Tense it. Use your muscles to make it stand up. Like you are wanting to stretch that pussy wide or open your guy's ass.
If properly hard you should feel like your cock is as big as it can be with your head swelled. For me I can only tense it like this for a second, then relax.
Do it again. Tense it, then relax.
Take time on the relax. Let your muscles recover. Then tense again. Keep going.
Tense, then relax. Every other second. Tense then relax.
If you mind is in the right place you should stay hard, and it get easier. Extend the times you are tense. When your cock is big.
Start to feel the edge. Feel the waterfall coming. Hold your cock stiff longer.
Eventually it stays hard for you and you feel the cum.
If struggling try a cock ring!