Do you know how when you look for a recipe online and the person just rambles on about their trip to Tuscany, and what their partner likes about the recipe and blah, blah, blah, and you’re like, “Just tell me how to make the damn cake, Emily!” Well… this is going to be kind of like that. The thing is, this could be really helpful for putting handsfree cumming into perspective, so I encourage you to read it.
And, like it has been said already, every body is different, as in your body might react differently than my body. How I got there might not be the path you need to take to get there. Keep that in mind. Ok, so…
A long time ago I went to a mentalist show. He had everyone in the audience bring a piece of string and told them he was going to teach them how to move the string with their minds. This is how it worked:
He told us to hold the string between our thumb and forefinger. We did and the string hung down normally. He then said he wanted us to look at the string and concentrate on moving the string in tiny circles, but don't move our fingers– just think about the string moving in tiny circles. We did, and to everyone's amazement, the strings started moving in circles (Feel free to try it for yourself).
We all thought we now had unlocked some dormant part of our brains that gave us telekinetic powers or something, but he explained that because your mind is telling the string to move, tiny muscles in your fingers comply and are actually working to make the string move without you physically moving your fingers consciously (as opposed to the joints in your thumb and finger doing the work).
This is how I look at Handsfree cumming. If you think to yourself that you need to thrust or make sexual moves, you will be successful, but similarly to the string analogy where you're moving your fingers consciously, you consciously direct your dick and muscles that are used in ejaculation to forcibly work. It is still effective. It still gets the job done. It's still better (or more intense) than if you did it the traditional way. It’s still very pleasurable. I’m not knocking that method at all. I use those methods sometimes too because the orgasm is still fucking amazing.
The thing is, when you're not focused on moving the string and you're just focused on seeing the string move, it is super intense and effective. It’s the Holy Grail of handsfree. I feel totally spent and satisfied after.
I want to give you the keys to “moving the string with your mind.” If you're willing to put in the work and effort, it is very rewarding. I will give you different tools that have worked for me and suggestions, but it’s in your hands…or, not in your hands if you’re successful!
Good luck, and more to cum soon! Maybe in a few days I’ll post again with steps or resources.