I looked at ergo. Looked like it might be comfortable, but seems like it might create more of a bulge than normal underwear. Are there any that provide decent concealment. I know its impossible to have 'no' buldge at my size, but it would be nice to minimize it. Boxer briefs are hit/miss. Regular boxers are nice, very comfortable, but with shorts or slacks i drift to one side or the other, and the resulting buldge is decidely 'more' attention grabbing since you can tell quite easily the shape. especially sitting down. Is there a boxer for large men that keeps everything together, minimizes buldge, and is at least moderately comfortable?