Who else has to tense their legs to orgasm?

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It seems in order for me to orgasm i have to really tense up my hips legs, and rest of my lower body in addition to stimulation. Does anyone else have this or have any advice on how i can come iwthout doin this as it takes a LOT of energy.
 

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They actually did a study on the benefits of sex for men. Men get an increase of self confidence and esteam when they have intercourse. The interesting thing was that it was only during intercourse that involved a lot of thrusting (not oral). So moving your hips and legs is important and can increase pleasure and satisfaction.

That type of movement (using legs and hips) is the natural way humans have mated for years so I'd assume it's burried in our instinct to do it that way.

I know what you mean though, it's very normal. Really, it's the way orgasms shoulds be. Complete muscular relaxation after extreme muscle tention. An orgasm is a whole body experience not just your genitals.
 
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I think that's one of the reasons losing control to the involuntary is so hot, you give in to your animal instinct by relaxing. Your body knows what to do.
 
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Fucking and thrusting is as natural for me breathing. It’s likr I need to fuck to be happy! I tell my wife all the time I just need to fuck meaning I just need to thrust when I’m inside her pussy. It really does make me so very happy.

I am quite the fan of deeply engrained behaviors of the human/sex instinct. We were designed to fuck and thrusting is an imperative. I thrust my self blind. :joy:
 
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Something I wanted to say but forgot. Sometimes when I fuck her it is so delicious I don’t care wether I cum or not. I fuck for a good hour each time. By then I’m exhausted. If I don’t cum I’m not disappointed. Usually I do but if I don’t it’s no big deal. Her pussy satisfies my cock either way.
 
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Well, I don't know as it takes a lot of energy, and mostly I think you're talking about certain times when you're jerking off, but yes.

Nah, it doesn't have to take a lot of energy unless you're using it to try to cum when you don't really want to or need to...I think I'm getting where you're, u-hem, cumming from. It can enhance the feeling when you're into it, or encourage the feeling when you're not, right?
 

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Well, I don't know as it takes a lot of energy, and mostly I think you're talking about certain times when you're jerking off, but yes.

Nah, it doesn't have to take a lot of energy unless you're using it to try to cum when you don't really want to or need to...I think I'm getting where you're, u-hem, cumming from. It can enhance the feeling when you're into it, or encourage the feeling when you're not, right?
 

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It seems in order for me to orgasm i have to really tense up my hips legs, and rest of my lower body in addition to stimulation. Does anyone else have this or have any advice on how i can come iwthout doin this as it takes a LOT of energy.

Yes if I get into a long groove and need to finish that's the trick I use too. Tension brings on the orgasm.
 

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Yeah, my feet and legs tense when I'm jerking, and then when I start to cum, I tense my legs. I think most guys do that, but maybe not to the extent you do. I would say, just stop doing it and jerk long enough to cum, while making an effort to not tense, at least until you cum.