ARG!

My girl has been trying to balance a full time job, and part time school. It's starting to take it's toll on our sex life unfortunately. I've been supporting her, and helping her anyway i can, but sadly we aren't having sex as often. It's down to about 1-2 times a week ... and i know for many of you on this site that might be normal, or not that bad at least. But before hand we had been having some sort of sex at least 4 times a week. Now i find myself having trouble even concentrating on every day tasks. I read the craiglist postings of women posting for NSA sex, but i know that would never want to go through with it, and even if i did, i wouldn't enjoy it because of A.) guilt, and B.) Condom.

Being in a relationship really spoils you to no condoms. And i'm pretty sure like most times before when i used a condom, i wouldn't be able to even climax unless the girl was willing and able to take the 30 minute pounding (minimum), which they tend not to be able to take ....

But thats not the point. I just can't wait for the semester to end for her. And for us to have long weekends in the bedroom in winter time.

Tonight she felt bad for being too tired, and she "promised" me that we would get down to "business" tomorrow ... which for the sake of my little guy, i hope is true.

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Agree on the condom situation. One of the great pleasures of long-term monogamous relationships are the options one has to condom usage. As a guy who had a vasectomy years ago, the lack of worry over pregancy has been freeing but there's always STDs. I suse condoms with every new partner and being in a polyamorous relationship with 3 women, I am "fluid bonded" (i.e. no condoms) with one of them and practice safe sex with the others (even when we all get together). I too take forever to cum with a hoodie on and have been practicing Tantric ingasm for the past two plus years. This is amazing in that the male can orgasm without ejaculation numerous times in a short time period and then I can cum later once the condom is off if I am so inclined. But, yeah, condoms suck.
 
Sorry to be unsupportive but she sounds like a stand-up girl. That you have been supportive this long is to be applauded but If you think she's worth it you've got to hang in there and be a man. She won't be going to school forever.
 

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