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Frustration and confusion...

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First time writing a blog... I dont really know what to write.. just feel like it might be a good place to get my head sorted out.
a little something about me...I'm a virgin. I was lead here by a member I met on another forum. and weirdly enough, he never did contacted me again :confused: Well, I have never really cared much about hung men before.. I mean, I dont really give much thought about it although when I watched porn before, I am always more interested and always in awe when I saw that the man have a big cock. so, when I came here, i was really amazed that so many men are so well-endowed and that they're so open in showing off in front of cams, like in the chat room. I have never been very confident of my body before, so I'm always so nervous and shy when I do show myself on the chat room. but sometimes it gets me excited. and sometimes it annoys me. :rolleyes:
i have met a few sweet and nice people here. both men and women. straight and non-straight ones. sometimes I get annoying messages. and maybe sometimes i give annoying messages.
I have wanted to quit this site several times now.. took several photos off the gallery in fact. i keep thinking of taking them all off the gallery and albums. and maybe just leave this site. i feel like i make some people uncomfortable and I hate that, coz it makes me uncomfortable. but then, i remember about the other friends i make here and I dont feel like leaving. i hate this.
sometimes I like the men here too much, hoping for more. but then, I know this is just a site. I am a thousand miles away and I might not be able to meet any of you. and that is so annoying :mad:
frustrated and confused. thats me
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love_agusta
Hey take it easy dear..your blog is touching..and you are a very good friend to me so far! So dun leave... Be yourself and enjoy the moment...ignore the idiots that come across... i think most people here are beautiful in their own way...and the thing that makes us all beautiful is, we are being ourselves here... So dun worry, be happy!!!
 
D
i lost two friends i met here so far. i think there's something wrong with me. i need a better communication skills...
 
HiddenLacey
Why do you feel like you lost those friends? I've been here almost a year, I've taken pictures down, put them up and made them all private. Don't get taken in by the things people say to you on the site. It's still just a website to many people and a place to play with no strings or emotions. If you're an emotional person I would suggest guarding your heart a little more against the people who talk to you until you really get to know them. There are few people that I have actually talked to the entire time I've been here and I've come to call them "friends." Many whom I thought were "friends," I learned were not within a rather short period of time. I went through something similar with a few people I considered friends here and thought about leaving the site before as well.

Keep your head up :)
 
MsThang
Hey teasing temptress, I have seen you around on mutual friend pages and just wanted to say that I love your profile pic, always reminds me of flashdance, lol.

As to your frustration to the website, I guess you just have to always remember that it is all in fun so don't take it too seriously. If you find yourself getting upset or frustrated then take a break and hopefully when you come back you will feel better about lpsg.
 
SwedishSizeQueen
Hi teasing temptress! Just as MsThang said, don't take lpsg too seriously... It's just for fun. And don't take everything men says too serious..

Show just as much of yourself as you feel comfortable with... I would never show myself all naked.. Or my face.. But that's me. :) Everyone is different.
 
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Awww thank you girls. you're all such sweethearts. I am being too much of a girl, i think. thats my problem.. putting too much pressure on myself, thinking too much, over analyzing stuffs.
but yea, I guess thats what i gotta do. take it light. think more about myself instead. make myself happy before i make others happy :) thank you.

and Fun23, lol cute. giving u a chance :) write to me ;)
 
D_Winthrop Woodcock
I can really relate to what you are saying... I've been annoyed too... and just like you removed all my albums! but then, thats just because one or two people were annoyed... now i realize, what about the others who were fine with it?? dont forget them!

Furthermore, as a lot of people are saying here... its just a website! that means its under total control.. so you can keep the good parts and leave the rest

Hope this helped
 
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thanks Deejay. yea, what i do is delete a few photos, to make me feel better :)
 
D_Giggleswick_Broadwood
hi honey.. just wanted to echo the comments above - this is YOUR site, so take from it what makes you feel good and forget the rest... just like the real world, there will be people on here you "click" with and those that you don't - just try not to worry about those you don't get along with and focus on the ones you do! hope you stay on this site and enjoy it for what it is... xx
 
nicenycdick
TT..this, or anyplace on the net, is the last place you want to take too seriously. All this is for fun...and if you enjoy yourself, you might actually laugh and learn more then expected. As for meeting people here...ya never know.

Just keep it simple.
 
D
This is what I'm aiming for. but some people are taking it too seriously sometimes and when they do, it makes me feel bad. Its like I'm the one at fault :/
 
shyhotgurl
Hey Hun, The advice given was good....JUST HAVE FUN!! That's all!! It's easy to take rude comments or criticism the wrong way... but I hope you try to just let it roll off. You are beautiful inside and out!!
 
cqguy
Hi Temptress, I keep a very low profile and am not often in the chats, but it would be a shame for you to leave. Your body is amazing and I hope none of my comments offend you - I was aiming for the opposite :)

I hope you find more reasons to stay on LPSG than you do reasons to go - let the flamers burn in the fury of the mods ;)


Cqguy
 
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Hi TT..what is it that you feel you need and you are not getting...that you even considered quitting?

First of all..you are not going to quit..why? Because you are too addicted just like the rest of us..accept it..dont fight it :) LOL..

Next..yes, this is a bit of a fantasyland..you can feel so close to people and still are so far away, because in essence many are hiding behind their pictures and laptop and never make a move to do shit. So all we do is fantasize about stuff most of us will never even experience.

You act like Indonesia or wherever you are from is at the end of the world. I know that you are not able to come to Europe or the US every other month..but working towards once per year..isnt that an option?. Don't be scared to couchsurf..My guess is that there are many here of your friends willing to set you up for a few weeks of vacation. So you wouldnt have to save for more than travelling and cost of food and drinks.
 
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shy, thank you for that sweet comment. really made me smile :)

cqguy, awhh.. none from you.. mostly its from the ones I met in the chatroom. its just that being the few girls on the site, we tend to get a lot of messages when we are on the chatroom. and its hard to please everyone. well, I guess I'm just too nice coz I feel bad when someone said I'm mean for not being nice to them when I am really trying to please everyone.

EmJay, hi.. thanks for dropping a comment on my blog. ahh well, being the few females here, you must know how crazy some men can be. it can really get to me sometimes. when they say I'm being selfish or mean.. Sometimes I let that gets to me, which i know is wrong of me. I shouldnt let it get to me, but I do...
but its true, I am an addict.lol. i cant get enough of this site. sometimes i even feel bad for the men who asked about the pics I deleted off my gallery. :rolleyes:
and haha i know its not impossible at all for me to travel out of my place. But I have no idea when I will be able to do that.. and I might not even be on this site anymore when I can afford to travel :(
 
H
Dear teasing do not think of leaving this site other wise I will die. I am always waiting for ur sweet pairs.
 
B_Anita Dick
It's been said here in your blog before and at the risk of being repititious, only you can decide what is best for you. This is true on this site as with all things in life. You seem like a very nice person with a good head on her shoulders. (and quite stunning looking to boot) Don't let the naysayers and idiots get you down and annoyed. There is this wonderful device called the delete key. Just flush the annoying ones down and keep enjoying the great folks that are on this site. Take care darling.
 
MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK
I wouldn't give much thought about leaving until you've really had a lot of chances to feel out a lot of people there, TT .
If it makes any dif, your blogs at least to me resonate confidence and style. Sometimes online jitters can get the better of the most experienced chatters, not just the ones who are just starting out.
 
FunGuy13
I can also understand your frustration sometimes. There are some real jerks out there in the world so we just ignore them and accept the appreciation from our true friends. Whether they be on-line friends or real life friends. Your blog above is very inciteful and really hits home. I hope yo decide to stay and accept me as a friend. We will chat more.
Love, FunGuy13
 

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