And I'm shocked/amused. I've been doing the dating website thing on and off for two years with minimal success. I think it's because there are gems like this out there. I submit for your approval a conversation I had with someone about being "sexual" on a first date. Now, I don't think I'm crazy, but this guy's attitude really scares me. And if there are girls who are susceptible to it - I'm worried for the human race.
DoucheBag: I would like to take you out... but you know I wanna be honest. I'm very sexuual. Are you OK with being sexual?
SerialKisser: No. It takes me a little while to get comfortable with someone.
DB: baby I'm not talking about full out sex but I want you to know I am a very good guy, I won't ever fuck you over, I at least wanna get some sort of sexual on our date, you won't regret it babe.
SK: something sexual like what?
DB: Anything, kissing oral touching anything. You have to be open in life babe.
SK: LOL There is a difference between being open in life and being promiscuous.
DB: Well mean we'll be dating, you won't regret it.
SK: If we meet, we might not even get along.
DB: We will babe trust me, you're just my type, you seem cool, and you're sexy.
SK: I'm flattered, really, but you don't me.
DB: but i can tell, look I feel like we're beating around the bush. Yes or no baby, my word is you won't regret it.
SK: No, I don't want to go out with someone and feel pressured the whole date bc he expects something sexual, and to be honst, i wouldn't date someone who likes to fool around on a first date, who knows how many other dates you're going on?
DB: None at all, and that kinda hurts that you would say that, I'm not a bad guy at all, I'm not even asking for sex, come on now.
SK: I don't know you. You can say you're a good guy. Why does it hurt you?
DB: Cuz you're calling me a player I'm not, I'm just talking to you, all I ask is be open to sex, that's it.
SK:I've gotta get going to work.
DB: Well??
SK: Well what? I'd have to meet you to see how I felt about you.
DB: At least kiss
SK:No.
DB: Wow, you're that prude huh, ok NVM, we're not on the same page, you're too uptight.
SK: It's not about being a prude at all. It's about meeting someone for the first time and not having any expectations. I rarely kiss on a first date. I don't force my feelings. Maybe it's your age.
DB: Maybe you're just acting too old.
SK: You're right.
DB: You have to learn to have fun.
SK: Having respect for myself and expecting that from someone I date is way too mature of a concept for you and I'm OK with that.
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Like, really? Guys like this are out there?? He's 23. It just blows my mind.
DoucheBag: I would like to take you out... but you know I wanna be honest. I'm very sexuual. Are you OK with being sexual?
SerialKisser: No. It takes me a little while to get comfortable with someone.
DB: baby I'm not talking about full out sex but I want you to know I am a very good guy, I won't ever fuck you over, I at least wanna get some sort of sexual on our date, you won't regret it babe.
SK: something sexual like what?
DB: Anything, kissing oral touching anything. You have to be open in life babe.
SK: LOL There is a difference between being open in life and being promiscuous.
DB: Well mean we'll be dating, you won't regret it.
SK: If we meet, we might not even get along.
DB: We will babe trust me, you're just my type, you seem cool, and you're sexy.
SK: I'm flattered, really, but you don't me.
DB: but i can tell, look I feel like we're beating around the bush. Yes or no baby, my word is you won't regret it.
SK: No, I don't want to go out with someone and feel pressured the whole date bc he expects something sexual, and to be honst, i wouldn't date someone who likes to fool around on a first date, who knows how many other dates you're going on?
DB: None at all, and that kinda hurts that you would say that, I'm not a bad guy at all, I'm not even asking for sex, come on now.
SK: I don't know you. You can say you're a good guy. Why does it hurt you?
DB: Cuz you're calling me a player I'm not, I'm just talking to you, all I ask is be open to sex, that's it.
SK:I've gotta get going to work.
DB: Well??
SK: Well what? I'd have to meet you to see how I felt about you.
DB: At least kiss
SK:No.
DB: Wow, you're that prude huh, ok NVM, we're not on the same page, you're too uptight.
SK: It's not about being a prude at all. It's about meeting someone for the first time and not having any expectations. I rarely kiss on a first date. I don't force my feelings. Maybe it's your age.
DB: Maybe you're just acting too old.
SK: You're right.
DB: You have to learn to have fun.
SK: Having respect for myself and expecting that from someone I date is way too mature of a concept for you and I'm OK with that.
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Like, really? Guys like this are out there?? He's 23. It just blows my mind.
