Is it bad to be a slut?

While having a very indepth disscussion with a guy friend, I made the comment that not all sluts are easy after he tells me he percieves me as being slutty to an extent.

Here's a Question...Can a woman can be easy and slutty...and still be respectable?

The answer is yes. Its called being a freak. I believe that "slut" can be used in many different ways and every woman is capable of being a slut. Sometimes a woman wants to be treated like a nasty little slut while with her husband, boyfriend, or friend...I see nothing wrong with it. Sometimes a woman wants to be free to do what she wants. Are you being a slut? Why call it being a slut...perhaps assertive.

I can get what I want when I want. I know how to play to the male audience without using them persay...just wanting to have a good time.

So does being a "slut" put you in a different category-because most males see it as being easy? Can you still be a respectable lady?

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With the way sex is percieved... You're (when i say you, i mean all females alike) still going to be labeled a slut if you have multiple partners.

I have plenty of female friends that take what they want (safely) and then move right on to the next victim. All of them are respectable girls with bright futures... but the boys (as they do talk JUST as bad as females) will always refer to them as being 'easy'.

I my personal opinion... men/women alike... if you're as safe as you can be, and smart about what you're doing (though with sex it's so hard to be 'smart' and 'safe' nowadays) no one has any right to label you as anything.
 
Didn't you know from the dawn of man, women weren't supposed to enjoy sex!?!?!?!

If you enjoy sex, that makes you a slut. I know a few guys don't want to think that way. They are surprisingly ahead of the game. I think it is so ingrained as a society, as humans, it's hard to get away from.
 
Hmm, well as you know I am the resident prude. So my answer should be no surprise, "Yes, it is bad to be a slut. "

Calling it a freak in the bedroom while maintaining normal standards of propriety when at work school etc. doesn't change the slut factor.

Also, by calling you slutty your male friend has just informed you he doesn't respect you. Men do not respect sluts. This is a known fact. They say they do, but they don't. :cool:
 
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Not if you're classy about it.

Think Samantha Jones or Blanche Devereaux.
 
Posted by Jason_els: Not if you're classy about it. Think Samantha Jones or Blanche Devereaux.
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Great advice Jason, I always model my behavior after fictitious sit-com characters . . . NOT. :tongue:
 
Alright...so Classy Broads can get away with it...that's good to know.

Hmmmm....

Of course I'm being sarcastic...lol.
 
Fuck no it isn't. Me and ones of my best guy friends have this conversation every time we talk.

We like to call it being liberated to the fullest extent.

or a hippie. I mean think about it, if you go back to the 50s&60s with Masters and Johnson, as well as the Kinsey reports, women had to fight like hell just to have birth control pills.

So if I want a man, why can't I have him?

or them...

Sluts are easy, nasty and dirty, in the perception of the world. But you can be a slut and remain a lady-like status.

I'm selective with my partners. It feels good, so why the hell not?

Men do it.
All I say is stay strapped, and keep your mouth shut about it.
 
Men don't like sluts purely because they get a feeling of "shit, she's sleeping with everyone but me." It's an insecurity thing. Men get jealous when they think they've missed out on an easy opportunity or that you've rejected them only to sleep with every other guy in the vicinity. That's why we hide behind the whole she's-nasty thing. You have just as much right to like sex as anyone else, male or female. Don't let anyone stop you from doing what you want to do.
 

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