Mutual Masturbation

Hey, man. Fellow North Carolinian here. I relocated to Boston. I've hooked up with a lot of married men as well under a lot of different circumstances. I've been in circle jerks with married men where they don't want to touch. Showing off hard cock is all they're interested in. Plenty of other times, though, I've had married buds get into everything else from being open to fucking (even barebacking), sucking, kissing, etc. I even know a married man who has a bf, with whom he has group sex. The simple truth is that many of these guys are really gay or bi and aren't ready to live that truth. In my opinion, there's no such thing as "simply horny and it's easier to pick up a gay guy." I'm gay and no matter how horned up I get, there's absolutely no way I'd consider even letting a woman give me a handjob. Plus, there are plenty of women who'd be happy to sexually connect without having any money spent on them.

Mutual Masturbation by DAVANT123

Howdy, I am a first time blogger and would like to start a discussion on being single but playing around with married guys. I'm confused? Do you single out married men on purpose? Is this a fetish? Or are you just commitment phobic? I am 38 y.o. and live in a cosmopolitan neighborhood in Charlotte. I often meet guys in town on business and go to his hotel. I look down and see that wedding band on thier finger and have to smile. hhmm... is there something i am not getting..?? Yeah! Apparently the sacrament and sanctity of marriage is a foreign concept to you. I am guessing they are simply horny and its easier to pick up a gay guy than to go spend money on getting women?? any thoughts? Are you meeting these married men in gay bars or are you hanging out in hotel bars where you know you will find business men from out of town?


Hey, man. Fellow North Carolinian here. I relocated to Boston. I've hooked up with a lot of married men as well under a lot of different circumstances. I've been in circle jerks with married men where they don't want to touch. Showing off hard cock is all they're interested in. Plenty of other times, though, I've had married buds get into everything else from being open to fucking (even barebacking), sucking, kissing, etc. I even know a married man who has a bf, with whom he has group sex. :aargh4: I'm sorry but my head is about to explode.The simple truth is that many of these guys are really gay or bi and aren't ready to live that truth. :aargh4: So it's your duty to engage them in unsafe sex and push them over the line from bi to gay or straight to bi? In my opinion, there's no such thing as "simply horny and it's easier to pick up a gay guy." I would tend to agree with that. I'm gay and no matter how horned up I get, there's absolutely no way I'd consider even letting a woman give me a handjob. Plus, there are plenty of women who'd be happy to sexually connect without having any money spent on them. There were until men like you 2 became so prevalent. What woman with a brain wants to fuck a man who engages in barebacking with another man?!?!? NOT ME!

NJGT466 I get the feeling your blaming these guys for hooking up with married men. you do realise that the married guy is somewhat responsible for his actions also....right?

I think the big point here is that the current state of society still puts so much pressure on guys to conform to the norm its just too much for some to be "out" and people blame the guy for being who he is, hell they should be blaming them selves for not creating a nurturing environment that he could feel happy to be "out" in.

NJQT466 I get the feeling your blaming these guys for hooking up with married men. I am bothered by gay men who ONLY pursue married men. you do realise that the married guy is somewhat responsible for his actions also....right? Yes, I do realize that which is why I asked where he was meeting them. If he was hooking up with married men in a gay bar then it's not like he had to do much work to seduce them. :tongue:

I think the big point here is that the current state of society still puts so much pressure on guys to conform to the norm its just too much for some to be "out" and people blame the guy for being who he is, hell they should be blaming them selves for not creating a nurturing environment that he could feel happy to be "out" in.

You almost had me agreeing with you. :tongue: Davant123 has no problem other than a predatory tendency towards married men.

The truth is the alleged 'norm' no longer exists. Anything goes! Some of my best friends IRL are gay men. Two were actually married to women and have children by them. But they never cheated on their wives.


I get how difficult it would be for some older gay men to come out of the closet at this point in their lives but for the younger generation. Honesty with themselves and others should be the norm.

Wow nj, I'm surprised how by how vehement you are towards Davant!
He surely cannot push anybody, into being "bi or gay",by his actions.
This can only be blamed on, the men,married men,who engage in this behavior. They choose to be sexual. Devant is there,true
but he can't force them, to act on his wants or desires.
This married men do on their own behalf.
I don't think any guy is going to tell any woman,that he's been "barebacking" with any one,never mind tell some women or man that.
Get serious!
cigarbabe:saevil:

I love str men who like to jo with other men, gay or str.