I must be a glutton for punishment. The vast majority of the guys I end up being attracted to are straight. I think that is the plight of most "straight acting" gay men. I spent so much time being "straight" that I'm only really used to straight guys and how they behave.
I hang around on www.straightacting.com. This already makes me kinda biased towards a "typical" gay man. That sounds so bad. There are plenty of gay guys that aren't "typical", but they seldom have interest in black guys. I guess that's another problem of mine being predominantly interested in white guys. Boy, can I dig myself into a dating hole or what?
I suppose you date within the realm which you feel most comfortable. I played Lacrosse and joined a fraternity. I was surrounded by white guys all the time. I imagine that it would be expected to some degree that I'd be interested in white guys.
My bf is the furthest person from the type of person I'd want to be with. I got into this relationship for the wrong reason and now I'm a little stuck. I'm working on that though.
But, I digress. Straight boys. If I've learned anything from hanging out here on LPSG, it's that straight comes in varying degrees. As does gay. I had a lot of success meeting guys in "straight" places. I never got into hairy situations because I'm a big guy. I can't help but wonder about what went thru the other guy's minds when I approached them? I wasn't brutish in my attempts. I was very simple and played it cool. I never made the guy feel uncomfortable. I just worked it into the conversation and never directly suggested sex. When we were done, I never just tossed the guy out. I always talked with him so he wouldn't freak out after he left. I suppose if I'd never had any success with meeting straight guys, I'd not be "obsessed" with them.
See what happens when a gay guy plays a sport and joins a regular fraternity?
I hang around on www.straightacting.com. This already makes me kinda biased towards a "typical" gay man. That sounds so bad. There are plenty of gay guys that aren't "typical", but they seldom have interest in black guys. I guess that's another problem of mine being predominantly interested in white guys. Boy, can I dig myself into a dating hole or what?
I suppose you date within the realm which you feel most comfortable. I played Lacrosse and joined a fraternity. I was surrounded by white guys all the time. I imagine that it would be expected to some degree that I'd be interested in white guys.
My bf is the furthest person from the type of person I'd want to be with. I got into this relationship for the wrong reason and now I'm a little stuck. I'm working on that though.
But, I digress. Straight boys. If I've learned anything from hanging out here on LPSG, it's that straight comes in varying degrees. As does gay. I had a lot of success meeting guys in "straight" places. I never got into hairy situations because I'm a big guy. I can't help but wonder about what went thru the other guy's minds when I approached them? I wasn't brutish in my attempts. I was very simple and played it cool. I never made the guy feel uncomfortable. I just worked it into the conversation and never directly suggested sex. When we were done, I never just tossed the guy out. I always talked with him so he wouldn't freak out after he left. I suppose if I'd never had any success with meeting straight guys, I'd not be "obsessed" with them.
See what happens when a gay guy plays a sport and joins a regular fraternity?
