advice needed

so i’ve been with my partner for almost 5 years now. i’m 25m and before him i had never been with anyone before. never kissed, had sex or even held hands with someone else before him. i’ve been the happiest i’ve been in my life with him. we’ve grown so much together and explored so much and...

Hello, I'm single for the first time in nearly a decade and besides being older myself the dating scene has changed a lot Apps seems to be the standard way to meet now but my experiences are mixed at best I thought I'd ask here since I imagine any women on this site are size queens...

So, this past two days I've been absolutely spiraling 😄 I am currently living in a super nice & vibey city, and I'm seeing a girl (conservative, but amazing). I am technically bi, though I don't have experience with guys, I just know I find some super attractive. But this part I keep on the...

Anyone got some good advice? I’m so nervous lol 2 of them are strangers and ones not particularly my type but he has a nice dick lol

Hi I am 26 years old and A virgin. I need advise on how my penis looks, prefferably from women. Also on how to best use it! It is (18 cm/7 inch) long and (16.5 cm/6.5 inch) girth.

TLDR; I’m in love with my very much straight best friend and tonight he made a comment that kinds pulled me all the way back in. I’m sure this has been discussed a million times but I’ve read and watched everything I can and nothings helped. I’ve known him for about 4-5 years and we’re...

First of all, sorry if this is badly written, English isn't my first lenguage, I'm from Bolivia, so figures I guess. I don't think I've had fallen in love with a man until he and I became friends (of course I'm not going to use our real names, let's call him Mateo and me Felix), I mean I've felt...

I am gay and about to get married to a guy. I have been friends with this straight guy for longer than I've known my fiancé, and I've always thought he was attractive; at some points we were close enough I considered making a move, but didn't want to ruin the genuine friendship. As an aside I...

Hi everyone. I have a bit of a problem with my sex life. First of all, I'm a 30-year-old gay man. In bed with men, I've always identified as versatile. Not only have I called myself versatile, but I've genuinely felt that way. With my FWB, for example, I would very often switch positions. I...

I’ve suffered from body dysmorphia and gyno all my life and it has also meant I’m never ever comfortable taking my shirt off in front of anybody, even during intimacy. I was fat during childhood and then lost some weight growing up but I have the skinny fat body type which means even when I lose...

So with me and my "straight" friend - I get that having drinks could lead somewhere but long story short - that's difficult for us. We've talked a lot about hooking up - sometimes more jokingly than others but always with a sense of just being funny. Thing is I'm pretty convinced he'd be down...

hi everyone. im writing this bc I want to ask for advice from my fellow men. I am in my late 20s now and I’m still very much a virgin. I live in a conservative Arab country where being anything other than masculine and straight is illegal, and so it’s hard to find other guys that are into guys...

Hey guys, After dealing with some serious stalking and death threats from someone, I’ve been out of the dating/casual scene for a while. I’m trying to ease back in, but I catch myself constantly looking over my shoulder and feeling super anxious about meeting new people here. Anyone else been...

Been together 5 years. I do not have many gay friends nor have any social circles with other gay men. I desire an open relationship where there is no connection outside of having sex. This would mean hooking up occasionally with others via the apps or going with my partner to a sex club and...

Hi! Sorry for my grammar. Im not that good hehe. And sorry for the long post. Im 28 and my bf is 29 (both in closet except for very few close friends). We are a gay couple. We met in G dating app. We are in our 3rd year relationship. Everything is good until last year. He shared to me that he...

Hi everyone! I’m making this post because I need some advice — maybe more than one piece of advice. For quite a while now, I’ve been friends with benefits with a guy. Maybe 3 or even 4 years. I'm 30 and he's 26. In the meantime, neither of us has really dated around or gone out with other...

So I’ve been doing OF/Twitter for almost 2 months, I’ve just reached 100 followers on Twitter and have got 2 OF sub. I don’t know if this is a good ratio but I want to increase it or know where I’m going wrong, any advice tips and tricks will be appreciated!

Hello all. I was wondering if any of you had tips or preferences on flirty/dirty conversation. I feel like I don't know what to say or how to respond when someone shows interest and I also don't like to come off as icy or disinterested. As a result I often compensating by rambling. What are...

English is not my first language, so excuse any mistake I make Recently my partner of 9 years and I opened our relationship, even though I said yes, I don't really know how I'm feeling about it. For context, my husband is 27, when we started dating he was really skinny and such an introvert...

So a few days ago I joined a discord server for gay guys (specifically those who goon) which is extremely embarrassing and thats why im asking for advice here and not from a close friend. This all happened over 3 days too so its even more embarrassing for me DAY 1 Anyways in this server i met a...

Last year I started following a guy on instagram, he was into literally all the same hobbies, music, movies and video games as me, and because I don’t have many friends, I really wanted to connect with him. Plus he was quite attractive. After many awkward attempts to chat throughout the year...

Need some advice, so I’m 18 5,9” 55kg I went to the gym last year for about 6 months straight…nothing changed I was going 4x a week eating as much protein as possible yet nothing. How can I fix this I’m too broke for a personal trainer lol

Hey everybody! I'm a 20 year old virgin whose never really been in the sex game, but recently decided to put myself out there. I've made a decent connection with someone and I think he wants to have sex, but I'm genuinely unsure how. I made this account just to ask questions, so please if you...

For all my life I’ve always had this loose hanging foreskin. I’ve never really had a male figure to help guide me through the importance of trying to pull back your foreskin or tell me if something was wrong. My mother would try warning me about it, but whenever I tried it felt like my foreskin...

So we have this gay boy living close by, not particularly attractive but if i see him walking or think about him i can feel my dick burning in my pants. I just know he's a needy greedy bottom. I'm married so i have never acted on this feeling, we don't have an open marriage, but we have talked...

I’m very eager to get precum, but it’s quite the rare thing to happen to me. I’m drinking plenty of liquid per day (over 2l easily) and I usually jerk off once every 2 days or once a day. During my sessions, I sometimes have a drop or a mark of precum, but I wish it were leaking like crazy...

Hi all, if this isn’t an ok thread to post I’ll delete no problem but I thought I’d at least ask for some advice from the people that might understand better than men. So my Gf and I have been together right at a year and a half, and she’s been so good for me. She’s pushed me in taking care of...

Hi all, if this isn’t an ok thread to post I’ll delete no problem but I thought I’d at least ask for some advice from the people that might understand better than men. So my Gf and I have been together right at a year and a half, and she’s been so good for me. She’s pushed me in taking care of...

Any recommendations for a 7 to 9-inch realistic dildo? There are so many on the market, I have no idea where to start! I've been looking at the LoveToy range, but they're not exactly beautiful penises. 😅

Hi I’m 18 years old actually a student living in France with my mom all the story is true and I genuinely fell that I need to talk about this to someone,please do not judge me or anything I am only seeking advices.Its my first time telling something personal because I am a very very shy and...