advice

  1. J

    Friends at the gym?

    I’m a mostly straight presenting male and I recently joined the gym. I’m not in the best of shape. There’s a man that I always see there who I’m thinking is about around my age and is in good shape. I would love to strike up a conversation in a platonic way and maybe talk about exercise or get...
  2. J

    Making friends at the gym?

    I’m a mostly straight presenting male and I recently joined the gym. I’m not in the best of shape. There’s a man that I always see there who I’m thinking is about around my age and is in good shape. I would love to strike up a conversation in a platonic way and maybe talk about exercise or get...
  3. Hung_in_DC

    Starting to pump - tips and encouragement?

    Hey gents - I just got the Bathmate HydroXtreme. I’m hung and happy, but who doesn’t wonder about more? Anyone have tips for first-time pumper? Or encouraging words for a hung guy who wants to grow?
  4. T

    My roommate

    I need advice with the next situation: So me and my roommate have been staying together at the dorm for the last 2 years and this is gonna be our 3rd year together. We don't really talk (very minimal stuff like hello, or goodbye, only things like that). The thing is, I've started really liking...
  5. G

    19 year old having my first 4some tonight im nervous

    Anyone got some good advice? I’m so nervous lol 2 of them are strangers and ones not particularly my type but he has a nice dick lol
  6. L

    just had my first grindr hookup today, curious.

    so, like the title. i looked for hung daddy and i got what i wanted. oral was kinda fun, but when it comes to anal... i just don't know how people do it. 😭 it's really painful, we tried 3 positions. i can't get it in, so he just gave up and left. 💀 he literally made a remark that i should try...
  7. I

    Serious

    I’m 24yo still somehow virgin, white blonde uncut I need advice and help: I’m scared that on first time having sex either with boys or girls the foreskin breaks or start bleeding, mine does completely come down exposing the full head but still I’m scared, should I get the circumcision or not...
  8. L

    Advice needed, in love with my (absolutely) straight friend. Nothing works.

    TLDR; I’m in love with my very much straight best friend and tonight he made a comment that kinds pulled me all the way back in. I’m sure this has been discussed a million times but I’ve read and watched everything I can and nothings helped. I’ve known him for about 4-5 years and we’re...
  9. B

    Buy dad a sex toy?

    For context I’m 32 gay, my dad is 66 straight. He is recently retiring after a long career as a physician. I live in a different state than him, he is living alone for the first time in decades after my sibling moved out recently. As he has slowed down he is a lot more talkative and open when...
  10. A

    In love with Straight Friend (and also accepting the fact)

    First of all, sorry if this is badly written, English isn't my first lenguage, I'm from Bolivia, so figures I guess. I don't think I've had fallen in love with a man until he and I became friends (of course I'm not going to use our real names, let's call him Mateo and me Felix), I mean I've felt...
  11. S

    Bumps around anus area and perineum

    Was rewatching a video of my boyfriend and I on FaceTime today and noticed I have these bumps around my anus and perinuem area. Just wanted to see if that’s normal . I haven’t had anal sex in months and rarely ever play in it. However I did use nair but I’ve used it for awhile now and it’s never...
  12. X

    Arkadaşımın Fansly’a Başlamasına Yardım Ediyorum

    Selam arkadaşlar, Yakın bir arkadaşım ciddi ciddi Fansly açmayı düşünüyor ve içerik fikirleri konusunda benden yardım istedi. Kendisi erkek, 20’lerinin başında, fiziği düzgün, kız arkadaşı var ve şimdilik önce solo başlayıp ortamı test etmek istiyor. Eğer işler iyi gider ve bir kitle...
  13. X

    Helping my friend start on Fansly

    A close friend of mine is seriously thinking about starting a Fansly and asked me for help with content ideas. He’s a male, early 20s, in good shape, has a girlfriend, and right now he wants to start solo first just to test the waters. If things go well and he builds an audience, his girlfriend...
  14. D

    should I lose my virginity this way?

    hi everyone. im writing this bc I want to ask for advice from my fellow men. I am in my late 20s now and I’m still very much a virgin. I live in a conservative Arab country where being anything other than masculine and straight is illegal, and so it’s hard to find other guys that are into guys...
  15. A

    Sending My Straight Friend Porn (+ Homoerotic Venting)

    For reference, I’m 22 and so is he, we went to high school together and were very close but now we’re separated (he moved away and now is in a different state, I went to college out of state and recently came back home ). He’s always known I was gay and has teased me about it and has always...
  16. E

    Advice for someone getting back in gym?

    I decided to go back to the gym this past week after doing an 8-month work assignment. I had been going to the gym and lifting regularly before that, and I wanted to continue my routine, and I think I overexerted myself on my first couple of days. I did 30 lb dumbbell presses (only because the...
  17. InkedJock

    Give me some content ideas

    I need some content ideas, i don’t wanna just post wank and dick pics and vids all advice/help appreciated!
  18. C

    Hung guys, what do you do to make others who are average or on the smaller side feel better about their own bodies?

    This is a thread where hung guys give each other advice on how to console or make their smaller peers feel better. Like i feel like a lot of hung guys also have this sense of pity and guilt that they have something most people don't, And its not something they've earned either. But they don't...
  19. C

    Hung guys, what do you do to make others who are average or on the smaller side feel better about their own bodies?

    This is a thread where hung guys give each other advice on how to console or make their smaller peers feel better. Like i feel like a lot of hung guys also have this sense of pity and guilt that they have something most people don't, And its not something they've earned either. But they don't...
  20. O

    I need to rant about an experience that just happened and I would like any advice as well

    So a few days ago I joined a discord server for gay guys (specifically those who goon) which is extremely embarrassing and thats why im asking for advice here and not from a close friend. This all happened over 3 days too so its even more embarrassing for me DAY 1 Anyways in this server i met a...
  21. David D McDavidson

    Need advice on a friendship spoiled by addiction

    Last year I started following a guy on instagram, he was into literally all the same hobbies, music, movies and video games as me, and because I don’t have many friends, I really wanted to connect with him. Plus he was quite attractive. After many awkward attempts to chat throughout the year...
  22. G

    Twink wanting to become a twunk lol

    Need some advice, so I’m 18 5,9” 55kg I went to the gym last year for about 6 months straight…nothing changed I was going 4x a week eating as much protein as possible yet nothing. How can I fix this I’m too broke for a personal trainer lol
  23. T

    Struggling to Be More Vocal With My Partner During Sex?

    I feel a little awkward typing this lol, but I’m looking to get some advice as it relates to being more verbal with my boyfriend while we’re being sexual. (I’m a bottom, he’s a vers top.) I find myself repeating the same lines: “You feel so good.” “You like that?” “I love having this <-> in my...
  24. C

    what do i do?

    hello, i hope someone can help. for the past year or so, a dl boy has been snapping me wanting to see each others bodies then goes off the radar. i’ve gotten to suck his dick once but he’s too scared to fuck. he’s really hot & admittedly i like the attention but i know it’s toxic. what should i do?
  25. oriwa

    Why’d you and your bf break up?? (mlm)

    the title is self explanatory lol it’s just that i was curious to hear from long-term bfs and what happened between y’all that ended the relationship. I love love, but i also know that both ppl have to be compatible, so pls share your story whether you’re gay, bi, dl, or wtv. Just as long as...
  26. E

    gape on command?

    (@latiinboy on x/twitter) he does this gape trick on command, but he gatekeeps his technique behind a paywall from what i know. ive tried several times over the year ive been following him. no luck in figuring it out. if anybody knows how to do this lmk!!
  27. D

    How would you feel being outsized and your GF found out?

    Hey guys, seriously just looking for opinions on this. I've a GF (30) I was massively outsized by my 19 year old cousin (pic below for reference), and since my GF saw it her reaction is pissing me off cause she said he's huge, but its actually MASSIVE I'm not joking, must be 11-13inches. It's...
  28. D

    Sexual Confusion

    I have always had conflicting thoughts about who I am or what I'm into. I have definitely gotten off more to men. When I think about dating or marriage, it's always women in my mind. I don't see a face or a smile anymore, but, it's always a woman. I have all these ridiculous romantic fantasies...
  29. R

    Sexually confused – should I hire a female escort?

    I'm 28M and a strict 'side' (no anal). I've only ever had sex with men and never actually enjoyed it. Yes, I enjoy seeing naked guys and I've had intense crushes. I've had a brief relationship at uni, hookups, been to a gay sauna, etc – and yet I never orgasmed or felt much pleasure. Frankly, it...
  30. U

    Personal sexual diary : I recently discovered that I was a voyeur

    Hi I’m 18 years old actually a student living in France with my mom all the story is true and I genuinely fell that I need to talk about this to someone,please do not judge me or anything I am only seeking advices.Its my first time telling something personal because I am a very very shy and...