advice

  1. S

    Bumps around anus area and perineum

    Was rewatching a video of my boyfriend and I on FaceTime today and noticed I have these bumps around my anus and perinuem area. Just wanted to see if that’s normal . I haven’t had anal sex in months and rarely ever play in it. However I did use nair but I’ve used it for awhile now and it’s never...
  2. X

    Arkadaşımın Fansly’a Başlamasına Yardım Ediyorum

    Selam arkadaşlar, Yakın bir arkadaşım ciddi ciddi Fansly açmayı düşünüyor ve içerik fikirleri konusunda benden yardım istedi. Kendisi erkek, 20’lerinin başında, fiziği düzgün, kız arkadaşı var ve şimdilik önce solo başlayıp ortamı test etmek istiyor. Eğer işler iyi gider ve bir kitle...
  3. X

    Helping my friend start on Fansly

    A close friend of mine is seriously thinking about starting a Fansly and asked me for help with content ideas. He’s a male, early 20s, in good shape, has a girlfriend, and right now he wants to start solo first just to test the waters. If things go well and he builds an audience, his girlfriend...
  4. D

    should I lose my virginity this way?

    hi everyone. im writing this bc I want to ask for advice from my fellow men. I am in my late 20s now and I’m still very much a virgin. I live in a conservative Arab country where being anything other than masculine and straight is illegal, and so it’s hard to find other guys that are into guys...
  5. A

    Sending My Straight Friend Porn (+ Homoerotic Venting)

    For reference, I’m 22 and so is he, we went to high school together and were very close but now we’re separated (he moved away and now is in a different state, I went to college out of state and recently came back home ). He’s always known I was gay and has teased me about it and has always...
  6. E

    Advice for someone getting back in gym?

    I decided to go back to the gym this past week after doing an 8-month work assignment. I had been going to the gym and lifting regularly before that, and I wanted to continue my routine, and I think I overexerted myself on my first couple of days. I did 30 lb dumbbell presses (only because the...
  7. InkedJock

    Give me some content ideas

    I need some content ideas, i don’t wanna just post wank and dick pics and vids all advice/help appreciated!
  8. C

    Hung guys, what do you do to make others who are average or on the smaller side feel better about their own bodies?

    This is a thread where hung guys give each other advice on how to console or make their smaller peers feel better. Like i feel like a lot of hung guys also have this sense of pity and guilt that they have something most people don't, And its not something they've earned either. But they don't...
  9. C

    Hung guys, what do you do to make others who are average or on the smaller side feel better about their own bodies?

    This is a thread where hung guys give each other advice on how to console or make their smaller peers feel better. Like i feel like a lot of hung guys also have this sense of pity and guilt that they have something most people don't, And its not something they've earned either. But they don't...
  10. O

    I need to rant about an experience that just happened and I would like any advice as well

    So a few days ago I joined a discord server for gay guys (specifically those who goon) which is extremely embarrassing and thats why im asking for advice here and not from a close friend. This all happened over 3 days too so its even more embarrassing for me DAY 1 Anyways in this server i met a...
  11. David D McDavidson

    Need advice on a friendship spoiled by addiction

    Last year I started following a guy on instagram, he was into literally all the same hobbies, music, movies and video games as me, and because I don’t have many friends, I really wanted to connect with him. Plus he was quite attractive. After many awkward attempts to chat throughout the year...
  12. G

    Too girthy for foreskin 18 yo HELP

    Bit embarrassing but idk who else to ask lol. So basically I can pull my foreskin back all the way soft no problems at all, it’s when I’m hard that’s the problem my dick is too thick for my foreskin to retract which means blowjobs doesn’t really do anything for me. I don’t wanna go to doctors so...
  13. G

    Twink wanting to become a twunk lol

    Need some advice, so I’m 18 5,9” 55kg I went to the gym last year for about 6 months straight…nothing changed I was going 4x a week eating as much protein as possible yet nothing. How can I fix this I’m too broke for a personal trainer lol
  14. T

    Struggling to Be More Vocal With My Partner During Sex?

    I feel a little awkward typing this lol, but I’m looking to get some advice as it relates to being more verbal with my boyfriend while we’re being sexual. (I’m a bottom, he’s a vers top.) I find myself repeating the same lines: “You feel so good.” “You like that?” “I love having this <-> in my...
  15. C

    what do i do?

    hello, i hope someone can help. for the past year or so, a dl boy has been snapping me wanting to see each others bodies then goes off the radar. i’ve gotten to suck his dick once but he’s too scared to fuck. he’s really hot & admittedly i like the attention but i know it’s toxic. what should i do?
  16. oriwa

    Why’d you and your bf break up?? (mlm)

    the title is self explanatory lol it’s just that i was curious to hear from long-term bfs and what happened between y’all that ended the relationship. I love love, but i also know that both ppl have to be compatible, so pls share your story whether you’re gay, bi, dl, or wtv. Just as long as...
  17. E

    gape on command?

    (@latiinboy on x/twitter) he does this gape trick on command, but he gatekeeps his technique behind a paywall from what i know. ive tried several times over the year ive been following him. no luck in figuring it out. if anybody knows how to do this lmk!!
  18. D

    How would you feel being outsized and your GF found out?

    Hey guys, seriously just looking for opinions on this. I've a GF (30) I was massively outsized by my 19 year old cousin (pic below for reference), and since my GF saw it her reaction is pissing me off cause she said he's huge, but its actually MASSIVE I'm not joking, must be 11-13inches. It's...
  19. D

    Sexual Confusion

    I have always had conflicting thoughts about who I am or what I'm into. I have definitely gotten off more to men. When I think about dating or marriage, it's always women in my mind. I don't see a face or a smile anymore, but, it's always a woman. I have all these ridiculous romantic fantasies...
  20. R

    Sexually confused – should I hire a female escort?

    I'm 28M and a strict 'side' (no anal). I've only ever had sex with men and never actually enjoyed it. Yes, I enjoy seeing naked guys and I've had intense crushes. I've had a brief relationship at uni, hookups, been to a gay sauna, etc – and yet I never orgasmed or felt much pleasure. Frankly, it...
  21. U

    Personal sexual diary : I recently discovered that I was a voyeur

    Hi I’m 18 years old actually a student living in France with my mom all the story is true and I genuinely fell that I need to talk about this to someone,please do not judge me or anything I am only seeking advices.Its my first time telling something personal because I am a very very shy and...
  22. Abgarrett1207

    You think he knows?

    About four years ago I met a guy who inevitably would become one of the most influential people in my life. He and I became friends through a mutual friend. After a number inappropriate jokes over a table in a public restaurant with a group of friends, he and I started texting and FaceTiming...
  23. C

    How to get away with a Hook up on a Work Trip

    Hi everyone, I’m a guy who’s about to start traveling a lot for work (I’m Italian and will be traveling around Europe). I’m not out at work and don’t plan to be, but I’d like to take advantage of these trips to have some fun and hook up without being noticed by colleagues or travel companions...
  24. W

    Insecure about the way my dick looks

    Over time i've come to accept my appearence as it is and although i've been given compliments about my dick size (it has become a running joke in my friend group), i honestly think, and from what i've seen here and other places on the internet, my dick is not that impressive of a size at all...
  25. K

    The bi closet, so to speak...

    Hi everyone, I don't have a real question, but just wanted to hear if there are other people here in a similar situation like me, and how they navigate life in the closet. The situation I am talking about: I am in a long-term, happy, monogamous relation with a woman. I have known for quite a...
  26. T

    Prince Albert Piercing

    I really wanna get my cock pierced so bad lol. How much did yours cost, and what are some tips for care/cleaning/infection prevention? Does it make masturbation/topping feel good? Does it feel good for the bottom?
  27. T

    How can I be better sexually?

    Hi you guys, I'm sorry in advance for the long post. I just want to be as detailed as can be. There's a summary down below if this is too much to read. I appreciate any advice etc. I can get. Thank you. ---------------------------------------------------------- My boyfriend (25M) and I (25M)...
  28. T

    How can I be better sexually?

    Hi you guys, I'm sorry in advance for the long post. I just want to be as detailed as can be. There's a summary down below if this is too much to read. I appreciate any advice etc. I can get. Thank you. ---------------------------------------------------------- My boyfriend (25M) and I (25M)...
  29. B

    Playing with dildos vs real cock

    Hi all, so bit of an introduction, I'm mostly a bottom and was married some years ago and my (now ex)husband was the only guy I've slept with who made me cum handsfree just from getting fucked. I enjoy playing with dildos and do it often. When I'm hooking up with someone I'm hard pretty much the...
  30. L

    I’m no longer fuckable…

    I’m married and my husband dislikes looking and touching me in private. In public he’ll smack my ass and whatever, but that’s basically it. These past few years I’ve gained over 100 lbs., however since then I’ve lost over 50 lbs. and he still dislike me and my body. I want to continue losing...