Question, have any guys here had a 3 some, (2 guys one girl) banged the girl, and then sat back just to watch the other guy in the 3some totally drive her wild compared to you? I'm thinking it must make the guy feel bad, but had anyone been put in either on of those positions?
3some embarassment
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I've been in quite a few 3somes and when I sat back to watch, I loved the fact that my buddy was able to fuck the girl hard, fast, good enough, to make her crazy. I would just sit back and jerk off to it. 
The one male friend that I did 3somes with was always a jack rabbit. He could last a while fuck hard. Some chicks like that. Me, I'm the "slow and steady" kind of guy. I love to feel every inch of the girl on my dick.
Either way, you're doing something thats hot and exciting. Don't let anything bring you down. 3somes are FUN, no matter what anyone says.
The one male friend that I did 3somes with was always a jack rabbit. He could last a while fuck hard. Some chicks like that. Me, I'm the "slow and steady" kind of guy. I love to feel every inch of the girl on my dick.
Either way, you're doing something thats hot and exciting. Don't let anything bring you down. 3somes are FUN, no matter what anyone says.
Why be embarassed about taking a break while your friend takes care of business for a while. After all, you are going back in when he is done. don't you want to keep her full of cock....and the way to do so is resting and taking a breather once in while isn't it. I really do find dvp's especially exciting, and fun...
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Nothing is hotter than sliding into a girl after another dude has dumped a load of cum in there...then adding mine.
I've been in many 3-some situations where one person was much less active than the other two. Sometimes it was me, sometimes the less active one was one of my partners.
It's no big deal to me. When one person in the 3-some just wants a little sex, or just wants to make out while the others go at it, that's okay.
I don't find it all awkward if I want just a little sex, and I get what I want, and then my two partners or a partner and a friend can enjoy each other as much as they want. It all works out the best for everyone that way since everyone gets as much sex as they want.
What's far more awkward is two-person sex where one wants a lot and the other just wants a little - or only wants to cuddle or make out but no sex.
It's no big deal to me. When one person in the 3-some just wants a little sex, or just wants to make out while the others go at it, that's okay.
I don't find it all awkward if I want just a little sex, and I get what I want, and then my two partners or a partner and a friend can enjoy each other as much as they want. It all works out the best for everyone that way since everyone gets as much sex as they want.
What's far more awkward is two-person sex where one wants a lot and the other just wants a little - or only wants to cuddle or make out but no sex.
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I did a 3some with some girl my buddy and I met in a bar about 10 years ago. He went first and I worked on her huge boobs and when it came time for sloppy seconds I couldn't do it. Nasty. And no, we didn't use condoms, which is a big part of why I didn't put it in. He actually pulled out and came on her stomach but still, sloppy seconds. Nasty.
My other friend did a 3some with his friend and a girl they both knew well. They did a DP and my friend literally fucked the shit out of her. The next morning there was shit all over the sheets and the girl couldn't recall what happened. They were really wasted...... good times, eh?
I would say just go with the flow and don't worry about performing. It was the farthest thing from my mind, trying to compete or worrying about whether the other guy is 'better'. Just fuck and have a good time and if you like sloppy seconds, all the better.
My other friend did a 3some with his friend and a girl they both knew well. They did a DP and my friend literally fucked the shit out of her. The next morning there was shit all over the sheets and the girl couldn't recall what happened. They were really wasted...... good times, eh?
I would say just go with the flow and don't worry about performing. It was the farthest thing from my mind, trying to compete or worrying about whether the other guy is 'better'. Just fuck and have a good time and if you like sloppy seconds, all the better.
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I had a MMF threesome where the guy turned out to be much bigger than me. It kinda embarrassed me at first but seeing her fucking and sucking him started to really turn me on and the embarrassment passed. No doubt one of the reasons I visit this site.
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Are you embarrassed when a friend makes more money, is stronger than you are, smarter than you are?
It's not a problem to me.
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I think what the op is trying to get at.....I have thought of this often. Never been in a 3some but....I think if it was with a girl that you cared for....and she enjoyed the other dude more than you!! Maybe that is what he is getting at???
That's a common worry among people before they enjoy regular 3-somes. Will she like him more than me? Will she like his dick more than mine? What if his cock is bigger or he lasts longer?
Are these worries any different than what monogamous people worry about? They often fret over questions like: Will she compare me to her previous lovers? Can I satisfy her as much as her ex? What if she meets somebody else after dating me for a while and gets attracted to him?
If you have such worries, talk to your partner about them before getting into a 3-some. You'll likely get reassurance that whatever pleasure she gets from somebody else, she will still want to give you sexual joy - and receive the joy you can give her. Once you let her know about your worries, you can also ask her to open about her own worries, nervousness, or anxieties. It's very common for a person to feel nervous about their first 3-some so having a trusted caring partner with them may help them feel more comfortable.
For what it is worth, I've noticed that when a person has a new sexual partner, they experience a lot of excitement. The newness makes time shared with the other partner feel special. That's true for monogamous and polyamorous folks. If she's been riding only your cock for years, and now gets to enjoy another man, expect her to be excited about that experience. Her excitement does not mean she loves you any less or wants less sex with you. I've seen lovers get all exuberant or nervous during their first 3-some and then a few hours later, want lots of warm cuddly sex with me.
Four years ago I watched 3 hung teammates tap a 22 year old (she was fresh meat for us but had 2 kids and a husband). The tripods pummeled her for over 2 hours in a tag team gongshow. By the time my turn came she was really tapped out but she stlll wanted one more go with battleship dick and (smaller) me in the ass. She went bezerk with him in her pussy, my dick in her ass didn't do much for her. Just had another go at her last week, but just me and one other buddy.
Not picking on what you said & not voting against 3-somes, but...
If someone is in a committed relationship with a girl that they care for, then it might not be a wise decision to use their powers of persuasion to convince that girl to get into a threesome with a buddy/friend/roaming stranger. It might be the quickest way to change the whole "caring" part of things on either/both party's part.
Just my take.
I think this sums up how I feel about a good MMF. Keeping the girl satisfied is the key. I have always found she likes it to go on and on until she is truly fucked. Also, I love adding to the cum that's already been deposite; I find it rather excitin to see it all flow out at the end!
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I was in a MFM where I got to sit back and watch for a while, and it was clear she was loving it. The difference is that there wasn't any comparing going on - I was happy that she was having a good time.
She was the one who brought up the idea of the threesome, and I was glad that she trusted me that much, and that a long-time fantasy of mine was going to come true.
I mean, I could dwell on the fact he was hung while I am only on the bigger side of average. I could think of all kinds of things that would leave me insecure and not much fun to be around.
Instead, I focused on communication and making sure everyone was having fun. After all, she chose to date me, not him (or anyone else).
It happened to me once so I killed them both and buried the bodies in my backyard.
i personally think that just seeing the action without participate it's part of the fun!
also, when i did it, i was looking at them and the other guy used to push his cock in her very hard and deep, so when it was my turn i did the same for a while commenting "hey, you liked his way, now try mine!"
so, the sex was great, but the talking, the jokes and the fun was just the best part for us. great great night
LOL XD
also, when i did it, i was looking at them and the other guy used to push his cock in her very hard and deep, so when it was my turn i did the same for a while commenting "hey, you liked his way, now try mine!"
so, the sex was great, but the talking, the jokes and the fun was just the best part for us. great great night
LOL XD
I have had a couple of 3sums and I have been the guy who would pound the hell out of the lady while the other guy in both case it was thier husband watched .. and after I had dumped my load, he joined again and since I need a 5 mins rest before I could start again, I focused my attention on to the guys, and ended up fucking them while they fuck their ladies.. and then double in pussy, ass and both.. it was awesome but have never done it with two other guys or my mate and me with another girl..would love to rty. So I have no problems anyone watching me fuck a guy or girl in a 3sum but never want to be in a porno tho..LOL
I've been in quite a few threesomes & the ones I got the biggest thrill from was where the other guy could make her wild with pleasure when I hadn't achieved this. In all these cases he was much bigger than me and could last much longer so this was a huge turn on for me. I found myself rejoicing in the other guy's greater strengths.
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From the other side of the threesome. I love it when a guy watches or strokes himself, it a sign that he is cool with it. I have gotten off many times just being fucked and watching him. It's not the guy doing me its the idea of him watching us and enjoying it.
