3some with friend and his boyfriend?

[Cant1992]

Need some advice!

One of my very good friends is In LTR. Him and his boyfriend have many threesomes very open couple, play together and seperately... I have previously done stuff with my friend but not his boyfriend.

Question is, they want me to join a threesome with them. I'm not especially close to his boyfriend but we get along well. And I'm not massively attracted to him, hes a good looking guy but idk doesnt really float my boat but the idea of it does sound hot. Other issue is they both have pretty big dicks (they did discuss whether they could try DP I said absolutely no chance, never done it before and they wouldn't fit).

Do I just do it? There's something that's making me question!?

 

[theplayerking]

The key to a successful threeway with a couple is to play equally with both of them, even if you’re more attracted to one over the other. If you don’t think you can do that, I would politely decline.

 

[chrisrobin]

If you think you would spend more time playing with one than the other then that's not fair, a good threesome sees all sides having the same amount of attention.
I shagged a guy at a party and he invited me home. He told me to follow his car, what I didn't know was his partner,also at the party and now in the car was expecting me to shag them both. As it turned out I didn't fancy him but did, as a courtesy let him shag me while I shagged his mate, somehow I couldn't turn over and shag him so it wasn't the best of threesomes.
So, if you don't think you can do everything with them both with the same sexual excitement......

 

[Cant1992]

Thanks for the advice guys! Tis a tricky one I spose as I'm bottom so they'd just be fucking me it's more the everything else haha. I think I might just have to try avoid if it does arise and they do try. Just to be safe

 

[Carter_82]

Agree with others that it's about giving equal attention to both others, but communication is the most important thing here. Talk to them openly about what you all want to get out of the experience. You're worrying that your focus might be biased towards your friend, so explain that to them. They might then agree with you mutually that it's not going to happen, but on the other hand it might be exactly what they want. I know some couples where one guy gets off on watching his partner getting fucked or fucking another person. They get involved but more on the periphery. And that suits them. So talk.

 

[SlarianSari]

Yea keeping the balance between them is key to make it a fun night. I would even go as far as asking the one permission when i was about to lets say suck the other - more as a sexy game but also to include both all the time. I think they loved it, fit with their fantasy somehow

 

[chrisrobin]

Yea keeping the balance between them is key to make it a fun night. I would even go as far as asking the one permission when i was about to lets say suck the other - more as a sexy game but also to include both all the time. I think they loved it, fit with their fantasy somehow

I did have the pleasure, and pleasure it was of a threesome last night. A couple of guys I know on holiday from South Africa invited me for the night. Never one to turn down the chance of a flesh fest I eagerly agreed. Now thing about these guys is they are mates not lovers and apart from the odd kiss don't "do" each other, so for me, I would be the centre of attraction and used. Both very black, very hung and very athletic and both totally, like me, versatile. I arrived at heir hotel for room service dinner and left after room service breakfast, all of us totally cummed out, me filled at both ends and very happy but tired.