Abstaining

[kelvinc]

This is a new thing for me as I’m a horny bastard and quite a wanker!
Im often away for work for about 2 weeks at a time. The longest I can remember I’ve gone is 6 days when I tried a few months ago.
Currently on 6 days now and going to try and make it to 13 days when I’m back and to hopefully give her a huge load.
I work long hours, im ok during the day but when I get in late at night can’t help looking at porn and stopping before that moment of no return, sort of edging I suppose!
Anything else I can do to help with a huge load? Will it get a bit easier after a week?

 

[Don Logan]

I'm not sure 13 gives you more than 6. You reach a limit. So, jerk off now and then build up for the remaining 6-7 days.

 

[halcyondays]

Sperm cells can live about 75 days in your testicles before they die and are reabsorbed by the epididymis which is the coiled tube where live sperm is stored. Unless ejaculated sperm never leave your nutsack.

Ejaculate (semen) is only 2-5% sperm. The rest are fluids secreted by seminal vesicles, prostate and bulbourethral glands. So the SIZE of your load depends on how much fluid these glands produce when you become sexually excited not how long you abstain.

In my experience the longer my load builds during sexual excitement--foreplay--the more fluid I ejaculate.

Precum is the pre-ejaculate fluid created by the bulbourethral gland. Its primary function is to neutralize uric acid left over from urine in the urethra. It also lubes the urethra so ejaculation is stronger. It also lubes your partner a little during penetrative sex.

When I was a young man I didn't make much precum. I wasn't aware of this until a coach suggested I hydrate better for muscle building and athletic performance. I did and my volume of precum and semen increased dramatically. I hadn't realized I was going through life slightly dehydrated.

So stay hydrated and extend foreplay/edging to make bigger loads.

 

[kelvinc]

Sperm cells can live about 75 days in your testicles before they die and are reabsorbed by the epididymis which is the coiled tube where live sperm is stored. Unless ejaculated sperm never leave your nutsack.

Ejaculate (semen) is only 2-5% sperm. The rest are fluids secreted by seminal vesicles, prostate and bulbourethral glands. So the SIZE of your load depends on how much fluid these glands produce when you become sexually excited not how long you abstain.

In my experience the longer my load builds during sexual excitement--foreplay--the more fluid I ejaculate.

Precum is the pre-ejaculate fluid created by the bulbourethral gland. Its primary function is to neutralize uric acid left over from urine in the urethra. It also lubes the urethra so ejaculation is stronger. It also lubes your partner a little during penetrative sex.

When I was a young man I didn't make much precum. I wasn't aware of this until a coach suggested I hydrate better for muscle building and athletic performance. I did and my volume of precum and semen increased dramatically. I hadn't realized I was going through life slightly dehydrated.

So stay hydrated and extend foreplay/edging to make bigger loads.

Well I’m on day 8 now and have been edging every day. Mentally it feels pretty intense! Hopefully on Saturday there will be plenty of foreplay. She won’t let me cum on her face unfortunately so over her body I think. I’ll make sure I drink plenty of water also!