Accepting phimosis, general talking about foreskin, experiences

[PineappleOatmeal]

Okay, so I saw the other thread and decided to make one since the OP is gone and I like talking about foreskin anyway.

So earlier this year, I woke up one day and noticed my foreskin (which was already kinda tight) had gotten a bit tighter. I saw the urologist and I had so many different questions. Like;

"Can foreskin get tighter if you're not regularly retracting?"

That question was partially because due to a mix of me being super busy, depressed, etc, sometimes I wouldn't be masturbating like I should be. Also, I think it's because of how I masturbate most days too, I'll get to that in a second. But he did say that yes, you can have a tighter foreskin if you're not stretching it out regularly. I got some steroid cream and did get some decent results but it was hard to consistently apply it, sometimes I would unintentionally go a week or so without applying.

For context, typically I can pull it all the way back when soft, but when hard I can't pull it all the way back like I've seen in porn videos. Once warmed up, I can go about half-way to about 3/4 down my head when hard, but I must be warmed up! And no fast foreskin pulling either, that'd hurt! But to see it get even tighter was scary but the usual reasons for this weren't there.

At this point, I'll say I'm not giving up but I have accepted that my foreskin is on the tighter side but that doesn't mean I can't have fun. It just means that I'm yet another person who can't just copy what they see in porn and I should be creative. I want to not focus on what I can't do (which isn't a lot, honestly) and focus on what I can do.

I do kinda get nervous at the idea of penetrative sex, that's gonna have to be with a long term partner, point blank. Since my foreskin makes me be more gentler, I think I'm going to embrace that a lot more, some of my best orgasms have been from gentle movements/slow teasing because I think I cum too fast if I'm rough, so roughness means I never get that serious build up.

Part of my phimosis is because I often focus on my head and rarely attempt to retract my foreskin. So more or less, I'm mostly touching my head through my long foreskin. And recently, I've started masturbating by tugging on my foreskin and pulling it away from my body, stretching my frenulum and ridged band without touching anything else. It takes a long time but it feels nice!

It also makes me interested in outercourse, so like sticking it between someone's thighs, frotting, etc. I get the feeling a lot of dudes might find these ideas hot, not sure about a lot of women but I can't worry about that, currently not social enough right now to worry about reactions. I have been dildo shopping lately for a frotting dildo, actually.

I'm open to questions, comments, your own experiences. I just don't really care for posting pictures, but I got a lot to say to make up for it!

 

[hiroshi88]

Hello, thanks for sharing your experience. I'm Peruvian and I had an encounter with a guy whose penis was almost completely covered by his foreskin. I tried oral. Due to my lack of knowledge, I wanted to retract it, but he felt uncomfortable and told me that he doesn't enjoy it when someone tries to retract their foreskin. I didn't understand much. We masturbated and did other things until we finished. Then, I searched for his case on the internet and found that he had PHIMOSIS. I would have liked to talk about it with him when I see him, but I also felt a great morbid desire to be able to peel his banana. I know it's just a fantasy since it may be impossible, and that's why I needed to write it on the forum. It's like a feeling of curiosity about something that is difficult to access. That's why I wanted to ask you if it is possible with stimulation to retract that penis at least partially or minimally, or what would be the ideal way to stimulate it and get it to ejaculation? I'm afraid to propose it without sounding like a pervert, it's just a morbid desire.

 

[ukboy]

I had similar issues and ended up having a circumcision. I have never looked back.

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

Hello, thanks for sharing your experience. I'm Peruvian and I had an encounter with a guy whose penis was almost completely covered by his foreskin. I tried oral. Due to my lack of knowledge, I wanted to retract it, but he felt uncomfortable and told me that he doesn't enjoy it when someone tries to retract their foreskin. I didn't understand much. We masturbated and did other things until we finished. Then, I searched for his case on the internet and found that he had PHIMOSIS. I would have liked to talk about it with him when I see him, but I also felt a great morbid desire to be able to peel his banana. I know it's just a fantasy since it may be impossible, and that's why I needed to write it on the forum. It's like a feeling of curiosity about something that is difficult to access. That's why I wanted to ask you if it is possible with stimulation to retract that penis at least partially or minimally, or what would be the ideal way to stimulate it and get it to ejaculation? I'm afraid to propose it without sounding like a pervert, it's just a morbid desire.View attachment 185926291

I would say that I have very mild phimosis. I can pull it back when soft but if I'm rock hard? I'd need to be wet and it wouldn't go all the way but I can pull it down like 3/4 of the way. Like was this guy so tight the opening was a small hole? I'd imagine he'd be uncomfy with being forcefully retracted because even with how mild my phimosis is, if I'm not properly prepared and my foreskin's opening isn't lined up right, that's painful. I can only imagine how scary it might be for him, especially since so many people seem to be really attached to seeing the head or you have tropes like in hentai where having your skin retracted means "you're an adult, now" (kinda weird, imo).

But yea, I do get pleasure from attempting to pull back my skin, having my ridge band stretched is amazing! And when I'm able to make longer, strokes by using my foreskin it's really nice! Having my foreskin cover my head is still amazing and I think I like having my foreskin up the whole time, I like looking at the veins of my foreskin and texture of the folds too! But having my head exposed enough for me to shoot cum instead of instead of adorably dibbling it out is a fun change of pace.

As far as making someone like me cum? I still prefer slow, short strokes with minimal retraction. I don't know about your buddy though, lol.

I had similar issues and ended up having a circumcision. I have never looked back.

My urologist did point out that circumcision is an option, but I'd rather keep my foreskin as long as I can and he wasn't very interested in pushing it on me. I think it's especially cute when flaccid. When in a non-sexual context, I just think soft intact cocks are cute as hell and it fits my overall aesthetic as a person. Kinda shy at first but quick to rise and shine for the day, quirks and all, lol.

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

So, I'm busy with different tasks, but decided to take a jack off break.

Someone DM'd me and after talking, I decided to double check something. I think despite the mild phimosis, I can make full length strokes when I masturbate because of how long my foreskin is. I just have enough room to grow into with my foreskin + I've stretched my foreskin enough now.

I'm still basically using my foreskin like a little sleeve so to speak but I will say, I think I've been a little too focused on trying to earn an income + feeling a little sad, it's kinda like I have to really work myself to get an erection. Once I get into a fantasy, it's easy though, but it's a bit of a struggle if I can't get into the mindset. That sucks but it'll pass.