Accepting phimosis, general talking about foreskin, experiences

[PineappleOatmeal]

Okay, so I saw the other thread and decided to make one since the OP is gone and I like talking about foreskin anyway.

So earlier this year, I woke up one day and noticed my foreskin (which was already kinda tight) had gotten a bit tighter. I saw the urologist and I had so many different questions. Like;

"Can foreskin get tighter if you're not regularly retracting?"

That question was partially because due to a mix of me being super busy, depressed, etc, sometimes I wouldn't be masturbating like I should be. Also, I think it's because of how I masturbate most days too, I'll get to that in a second. But he did say that yes, you can have a tighter foreskin if you're not stretching it out regularly. I got some steroid cream and did get some decent results but it was hard to consistently apply it, sometimes I would unintentionally go a week or so without applying.

For context, typically I can pull it all the way back when soft, but when hard I can't pull it all the way back like I've seen in porn videos. Once warmed up, I can go about half-way to about 3/4 down my head when hard, but I must be warmed up! And no fast foreskin pulling either, that'd hurt! But to see it get even tighter was scary but the usual reasons for this weren't there.

At this point, I'll say I'm not giving up but I have accepted that my foreskin is on the tighter side but that doesn't mean I can't have fun. It just means that I'm yet another person who can't just copy what they see in porn and I should be creative. I want to not focus on what I can't do (which isn't a lot, honestly) and focus on what I can do.

I do kinda get nervous at the idea of penetrative sex, that's gonna have to be with a long term partner, point blank. Since my foreskin makes me be more gentler, I think I'm going to embrace that a lot more, some of my best orgasms have been from gentle movements/slow teasing because I think I cum too fast if I'm rough, so roughness means I never get that serious build up.

Part of my phimosis is because I often focus on my head and rarely attempt to retract my foreskin. So more or less, I'm mostly touching my head through my long foreskin. And recently, I've started masturbating by tugging on my foreskin and pulling it away from my body, stretching my frenulum and ridged band without touching anything else. It takes a long time but it feels nice!

It also makes me interested in outercourse, so like sticking it between someone's thighs, frotting, etc. I get the feeling a lot of dudes might find these ideas hot, not sure about a lot of women but I can't worry about that, currently not social enough right now to worry about reactions. I have been dildo shopping lately for a frotting dildo, actually.

I'm open to questions, comments, your own experiences. I just don't really care for posting pictures, but I got a lot to say to make up for it!

 

[hiroshi88]

Hello, thanks for sharing your experience. I'm Peruvian and I had an encounter with a guy whose penis was almost completely covered by his foreskin. I tried oral. Due to my lack of knowledge, I wanted to retract it, but he felt uncomfortable and told me that he doesn't enjoy it when someone tries to retract their foreskin. I didn't understand much. We masturbated and did other things until we finished. Then, I searched for his case on the internet and found that he had PHIMOSIS. I would have liked to talk about it with him when I see him, but I also felt a great morbid desire to be able to peel his banana. I know it's just a fantasy since it may be impossible, and that's why I needed to write it on the forum. It's like a feeling of curiosity about something that is difficult to access. That's why I wanted to ask you if it is possible with stimulation to retract that penis at least partially or minimally, or what would be the ideal way to stimulate it and get it to ejaculation? I'm afraid to propose it without sounding like a pervert, it's just a morbid desire.

 

[ukboy]

I had similar issues and ended up having a circumcision. I have never looked back.

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

Hello, thanks for sharing your experience. I'm Peruvian and I had an encounter with a guy whose penis was almost completely covered by his foreskin. I tried oral. Due to my lack of knowledge, I wanted to retract it, but he felt uncomfortable and told me that he doesn't enjoy it when someone tries to retract their foreskin. I didn't understand much. We masturbated and did other things until we finished. Then, I searched for his case on the internet and found that he had PHIMOSIS. I would have liked to talk about it with him when I see him, but I also felt a great morbid desire to be able to peel his banana. I know it's just a fantasy since it may be impossible, and that's why I needed to write it on the forum. It's like a feeling of curiosity about something that is difficult to access. That's why I wanted to ask you if it is possible with stimulation to retract that penis at least partially or minimally, or what would be the ideal way to stimulate it and get it to ejaculation? I'm afraid to propose it without sounding like a pervert, it's just a morbid desire.View attachment 185926291

I would say that I have very mild phimosis. I can pull it back when soft but if I'm rock hard? I'd need to be wet and it wouldn't go all the way but I can pull it down like 3/4 of the way. Like was this guy so tight the opening was a small hole? I'd imagine he'd be uncomfy with being forcefully retracted because even with how mild my phimosis is, if I'm not properly prepared and my foreskin's opening isn't lined up right, that's painful. I can only imagine how scary it might be for him, especially since so many people seem to be really attached to seeing the head or you have tropes like in hentai where having your skin retracted means "you're an adult, now" (kinda weird, imo).

But yea, I do get pleasure from attempting to pull back my skin, having my ridge band stretched is amazing! And when I'm able to make longer, strokes by using my foreskin it's really nice! Having my foreskin cover my head is still amazing and I think I like having my foreskin up the whole time, I like looking at the veins of my foreskin and texture of the folds too! But having my head exposed enough for me to shoot cum instead of instead of adorably dibbling it out is a fun change of pace.

As far as making someone like me cum? I still prefer slow, short strokes with minimal retraction. I don't know about your buddy though, lol.

I had similar issues and ended up having a circumcision. I have never looked back.

My urologist did point out that circumcision is an option, but I'd rather keep my foreskin as long as I can and he wasn't very interested in pushing it on me. I think it's especially cute when flaccid. When in a non-sexual context, I just think soft intact cocks are cute as hell and it fits my overall aesthetic as a person. Kinda shy at first but quick to rise and shine for the day, quirks and all, lol.

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

So, I'm busy with different tasks, but decided to take a jack off break.

Someone DM'd me and after talking, I decided to double check something. I think despite the mild phimosis, I can make full length strokes when I masturbate because of how long my foreskin is. I just have enough room to grow into with my foreskin + I've stretched my foreskin enough now.

I'm still basically using my foreskin like a little sleeve so to speak but I will say, I think I've been a little too focused on trying to earn an income + feeling a little sad, it's kinda like I have to really work myself to get an erection. Once I get into a fantasy, it's easy though, but it's a bit of a struggle if I can't get into the mindset. That sucks but it'll pass.

 

[skinny_indo]

I'm cut btw
But i do love to have foreskin, just saying

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

I'm cut btw
But i do love to have foreskin, just saying

Are you considering restoring your foreskin? I think it's cool when people do that!

 

[skinny_indo]

Are you considering restoring your foreskin? I think it's cool when people do that!

I think I can't do that
My foreskin is tightly sew, and I was circumcised when I was born
I try to pull the foreskin but it so hard, even my stomach skin is retracted or pulled with some uncomfortable feelings

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

I think I can't do that
My foreskin is tightly sew, and I was circumcised when I was born
I try to pull the foreskin but it so hard, even my stomach skin is retracted or pulled with some uncomfortable feelings

Oh, I saw another post of yours, yea, I'm no restoring expert but a circumcision that tight would be quite a lot more effort compared to looser circumcisions. So it sounds like without lube, you'd also have that discomfort when you're on the upstroke?

 

[skinny_indo]

Oh, I saw another post of yours, yea, I'm no restoring expert but a circumcision that tight would be quite a lot more effort compared to looser circumcisions. So it sounds like without lube, you'd also have that discomfort when you're on the upstroke?

Yeah mine is super tight, since it was cut when I was baby since I was born, so they do it tight, and when puberty starts, it getting tighter, even my skin from the base or my stomach is kinda bit pullled to my shaft
When I masturbate it, stroke it, I'm comfortable enough doing it, even it's dry, without any lube at all
But if my partner doing some hand job, usually they kinda awkwardly doing it, yeah there's slightly discomfort, but not much issue

 

[skinny_indo]

I do sometimes thinking how uncut make them hard or masturbate from flaccid state
LOL just called me stupid but I was just so curious

 

[Liege]

Wasn’t phimosis highly venerated in Ancient Rome?

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

I do sometimes thinking how uncut make them hard or masturbate from flaccid state
LOL just called me stupid but I was just so curious

Sometimes, it's nice to just gently tug on the overhang and that can get me hard, if I'm in the right mind.

Wasn’t phimosis highly venerated in Ancient Rome?

I think Rome specifically seemed to be highly attached the ideal of the "acroposthion" which refers to the overhang or "pucker" of longer foreskins. I have a small acroposthion when soft, so it has the cute look of an elephant trunk plus my mild phimosis, even when my phimosis is no longer a problem, I'd still have that overhang/pucker.

Here's a really cool website about it!

Acroposthion.com

 

[Squared2]

Long/tight foreskins are so hot, I'd love playing with yours I wish I wasn't cut

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

Long/tight foreskins are so hot, I'd love playing with yours I wish I wasn't cut

Awww, thanks! As long as you're gentle ~

But have you considered restoring? Or is it one of those things that you've accepted? Or maybe I should ask, what's your story? You're from France or at least your current location is France. What happened?

 

[Squared2]

Awww, thanks! As long as you're gentle ~

But have you considered restoring? Or is it one of those things that you've accepted? Or maybe I should ask, what's your story? You're from France or at least your current location is France. What happened?

I did consider restoration but honestly, it takes ages and it's not like the real thing so I gave up lol

I come from a Muslim family so I didn't escape the snip unfortunately :/

 

[skinny_indo]

I did consider restoration but honestly, it takes ages and it's not like the real thing so I gave up lol

I come from a Muslim family so I didn't escape the snip unfortunately :/

Ya me too
I born in muslim family, so right after I was born, got circumcised

 

[Flotiz]

In my humble opinion, I believe that after adolescence, any uncircumcised boy should be able to completely retract his foreskin, both flaccid and erect, to fully expose the glans. It doesn't matter whether this is done manually or not, it depends on the length of the skin, but it is essential to be able to do so without difficulty or discomfort. Only this is normal, understood as the correct "functioning" of the penis, for both hygienic and sexual reasons. Otherwise, if the glans cannot be uncovered due to a tight and phimotic foreskin, or if prescribed creams to loosen the skin don't work, the solution is circumcision. Obviously, in this regard, there are different styles, techniques etc.

 

[PineappleOatmeal]

In my humble opinion, I believe that after adolescence, any uncircumcised boy should be able to completely retract his foreskin, both flaccid and erect, to fully expose the glans. It doesn't matter whether this is done manually or not, it depends on the length of the skin, but it is essential to be able to do so without difficulty or discomfort. Only this is normal, understood as the correct "functioning" of the penis, for both hygienic and sexual reasons. Otherwise, if the glans cannot be uncovered due to a tight and phimotic foreskin, or if prescribed creams to loosen the skin don't work, the solution is circumcision. Obviously, in this regard, there are different styles, techniques etc.

Strong disagree with you. First off, there is no such thing as "normal". Typical, yes. Normal, not so much.

If the foreskin is simply tighter than typical yet that person can still enjoy sex, how they want to enjoy it, then that is fine. Sexually speaking, as I said in the OP, there's more to enjoying sex than strict penetrative sex. A penis doesn't have to simulated with the back and forth motions typical of intercourse with a vagina or anus. You can for example tug or twist on someone's foreskin or you can use vibrators, lick them, have them rub their cocks on you. And even with the back and forth motion, you can just focus shorter strokes on the shaft or even on the head. Or you could have that person thrust into a fist, you can open a fist so there's less tension on the foreskin that you'd expect from penetrating from the tip to base.

In terms of hygiene, I do agree that if the foreskin is way too tight, that would be a problem, but in that case there might be more going on than just a super tight foreskin. If we're talking about for example diabetes and they have a tight foreskin now then that person got more to worry about. Personally, I wonder how many people with phimosis are actually more mild cases like mine that are honestly not that big of a deal and not caused by serious medical issues. Since I don't think your opinion could ever apply in my case.

Since you're saying "normal" well, I am quite abnormal. But despite my mildly tight foreskin, I am able to have a nice, clean penis. Certain sex acts I'm a little wary of but I think I got enough of an imagination to make sex work. I think (harmless) phimosis is only a problem in a world that centers penetrative sex over other sex acts. I say even if the creams don't work, unless there's a severe hygiene problem or the person simply doesn't like their foreskin, then just keep it.

 

[Flotiz]

Strong disagree with you. First off, there is no such thing as "normal". Typical, yes. Normal, not so much.

If the foreskin is simply tighter than typical yet that person can still enjoy sex, how they want to enjoy it, then that is fine. Sexually speaking, as I said in the OP, there's more to enjoying sex than strict penetrative sex. A penis doesn't have to simulated with the back and forth motions typical of intercourse with a vagina or anus. You can for example tug or twist on someone's foreskin or you can use vibrators, lick them, have them rub their cocks on you. And even with the back and forth motion, you can just focus shorter strokes on the shaft or even on the head. Or you could have that person thrust into a fist, you can open a fist so there's less tension on the foreskin that you'd expect from penetrating from the tip to base.

In terms of hygiene, I do agree that if the foreskin is way too tight, that would be a problem, but in that case there might be more going on than just a super tight foreskin. If we're talking about for example diabetes and they have a tight foreskin now then that person got more to worry about. Personally, I wonder how many people with phimosis are actually more mild cases like mine that are honestly not that big of a deal and not caused by serious medical issues. Since I don't think your opinion could ever apply in my case.

Since you're saying "normal" well, I am quite abnormal. But despite my mildly tight foreskin, I am able to have a nice, clean penis. Certain sex acts I'm a little wary of but I think I got enough of an imagination to make sex work. I think (harmless) phimosis is only a problem in a world that centers penetrative sex over other sex acts. I say even if the creams don't work, unless there's a severe hygiene problem or the person simply doesn't like their foreskin, then just keep it.

Let me be clearer, even though we may not agree. First, we need to distinguish between long, tight, and phimotic foreskin. Long means it covers the entire glans, both when the penis is flaccid, often extending beyond it, and during erection. Tight means it isn't very elastic, but the glans can be exposed manually. Phimosis, which is the "worst" situation, means the skin is so tight and rigid that it can't be retracted. Of course, this is a very general description, as phimosis also comes in various types and degrees of severity.

It is a problem, as I said before, applies to both sex and hygiene. I'm not interested in dwelling on sexual stimulation; everyone enjoys it in their own way, and even with phimosis, one can, of course, reach orgasm and ejaculate. Regarding hygiene, a glans that can't be exposed is difficult to clean properly.

Returning to the concept of "normality", I believe I'm not mistaken, especially because otherwise it would mean that having a glans that you can never expose is healthy and not pathological. I'm not saying this as an "offense", but simply appealing to medical science. Any doctor would say that a normal, perfectly functioning penis in adulthood should have a retractable foreskin and a glans that can be exposed without pain or discomfort. You can have a long foreskin or a slightly tight one, but the important thing is that there is no phimosis. In that case, an andrologist would recommend steroid creams and, if they didn't work, some form of circumcision. Then again, there are men who, for various reasons, have lived with phimosis for years without worrying: everyone does what they want with their own body.