Advice

[jjwells11]

One of my friends really comes off as gay to everyone, but i have never gotten that feeling from him.
Hes pretty cute and i wouldn't mind hookin up with him, but im not sure.
Are there any ways you suggest to find out.

 

[cocktoberfest]

Ask him.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

Are you sure you want to risk losing a friend over it?

 

[jjwells11]

Are you sure you want to risk losing a friend over it?

Thats my problem.

 

[davidjh7]

Well, drop some "gay" hints, like, names of gay bars, events, stuff like that
see if he knows immediately what they are, and how he reacts to those names. That's one way of getting some clue, so you know if you can proceed further in inquiring. always leave both of you a safe out in the conversation.

 

[tbnd_95678]

The question is: what kind of friend? Good friend? Great friend? I say start with some harmless flirting and see where that gets you. If he reciprocates, maybe take the next step.