I absolutely agree!!! The idea of Bottoming or Submissiveness — which are NOT synonyms btw — and Masculinity being opposites or incompatible with each other is so dumb and simply incorrect. Not to mention that it is actually pretty weird if not problamatic once you start really thinking about it. Plus I feel like the whole notion of corny "alpha behavior" and being "impenetrable" is kinda of a straight people thing and I'm so glad that mature queer people don't think of it in that regressive way.