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Yeah. Done it many times. I don't play without buttsex.
I’m a vers top, mostly top. I’ve hooked up innumerable times over the decades. Anal sex was part of it 95% of the time.
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Absolutely I'd fuck with a stranger/hookup/one night stand, and I have on numerous occasions.
My question then is "Why would you not?!?" I mean, if you're having a hookup or one-night stand as opposed to someone you're aiming to woo as potential BF, what else are you expected to do? Unless time and/or location constraints indicate it should just be a quick blow job or jack off. But if you've planned this in the least or just picked up a guy in a bar or something, the idea is kinda in place that there will most probably be fucking.
And of course condoms would be involved.
My question then is "Why would you not?!?" I mean, if you're having a hookup or one-night stand as opposed to someone you're aiming to woo as potential BF, what else are you expected to do? Unless time and/or location constraints indicate it should just be a quick blow job or jack off. But if you've planned this in the least or just picked up a guy in a bar or something, the idea is kinda in place that there will most probably be fucking.
And of course condoms would be involved.
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I'm not sure if this was a rhetorical question or if you're actually wondering, but I'm leaning towards the latter. My answer is threefold:
1) I just don't do hookups generally speaking. I don't enjoy the extensive calculation of risk that one has to do with a hookup. The one time I had a proper hookup (had sex on first meeting from a hookup app) I failed to properly calculate and picked up something. And this was after being sexually active for nearly a decade, so it's not like I was totally green and naive. It also doesn't satisfy my preference for intimacy and I find it difficult to process emotionally. To top it off it's pretty awkward; I'm not one who's generally able to have comfortable interactions with new people.
2) I ascribe a very high degree of intimacy and "soul connection" to sexual intercourse. That doesn't mean that I refrain from engaging with it save for marriage, but it does mean that I shy away from it unless I know and trust someone and feel we have that connection.
3) Over 95% of my experiences of intercourse have been without a condom. That's because they've all been with my ex. We used them a few times starting out the relationship and then discarded them once trust was developed. I haven't had to use them hardly at all (there was one time after we broke up) in the past several years. And I remember them being pretty unpleasant, so I'm not eager to jump back into a situation where I have to. Not to say I wouldn't if it came to that, but it is another factor that's leading me to shy away from more casual anal sex opportunities.
So, with respect to #'s 2 and 3, even when I do occasionally fool around with a friend, so far I've avoided having it escalate to engaging in intercourse.
My husband and I keep anal for ourselves, at least until we know someone for a while. I can only think of once each have we been fucked on a hook up.
It’s 50/50 for me.
I always get my cock sucked. But I don’t always fuck arse (ass)...
It depends mainly on my mood, I think.
It’s better than 50/50 when it’s a repeat meet with a guy I’ve used* before...
But the whole thing is about enjoyment, the meeting, “being with” the other man. Not so much a list of specific activities...
* I say “used” because I’m into bdsm, and am a dominant leather top, most of my meets. That’s just a language/style thing though - it’s really all consensual, and mutual despite the different perspectives.
I always get my cock sucked. But I don’t always fuck arse (ass)...
It depends mainly on my mood, I think.
It’s better than 50/50 when it’s a repeat meet with a guy I’ve used* before...
But the whole thing is about enjoyment, the meeting, “being with” the other man. Not so much a list of specific activities...
* I say “used” because I’m into bdsm, and am a dominant leather top, most of my meets. That’s just a language/style thing though - it’s really all consensual, and mutual despite the different perspectives.
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You didn’t ask permission to be excited, boy...
My mistake, Sir. May I please be excited by you?
Every hook-up I've had results in me being fucked.
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Yes, I have had random hookups, mostly from CL or sites like that. I like sex with women, but only Bottom with guys. So my hookups have always been me as the Bottom. I only play safe, so always with a Condom. Some of my random hookups have turned into regular things though.
In recently I discovered a woman with a pegging fetish on CL. She has more sex toys than anyone I have ever seen. And likes to use them on me. That random thing that turned into an Awesome regular thing now.
In recently I discovered a woman with a pegging fetish on CL. She has more sex toys than anyone I have ever seen. And likes to use them on me. That random thing that turned into an Awesome regular thing now.
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