Announcing orgasm
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Neither of us need to tell each other. For me its obvious... she is moaning and convulsing when she cums! Its pretty incredible.
With her... she has a sixth sense that amazes me. She can tell the moment I am heading to climax. Sometimes the instant I do. She can sense it. And then she vocally encourages me which makes it so hot!
With her... she has a sixth sense that amazes me. She can tell the moment I am heading to climax. Sometimes the instant I do. She can sense it. And then she vocally encourages me which makes it so hot!
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ya i tell my boyfriend so that he will surrender his ass fully. I am just under 9 inch and its too much for him to handle all the way. but once i inform him that i am going to cum he surrenders his ass totally so i can ram it in as deep as possible.
Also I get pretty rough before i cum and want him to be fully prepared.
Also I get pretty rough before i cum and want him to be fully prepared.
When we get kinky,She usually grabs the mike, at the customer service desk, "Attention K mart shoppers"
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Not that I don't enjoy the input of lovely lpsg men; but I find it funny that this is women's issues and only men have replied :smile:
Here is my input
Do you tell your partner you're cumming? They can usually tell by my moaning and movement etc but usually I announce it
Do you feel compelled to do so, or is it simply part of talking dirty? No, I can be quiet too. Some of my past partners would say several times 'tell me when you cum' etc etc, they did it as part of dirty talk so I'd let them know
Does he/she tell you? Do you dig it, or do you find it off-putting? Depends on who I'm with. Some do, some don't. I don't mind it. It all depends on how they announce it. One guy shouted directly into my ear... once there was a bit of spit. Not nice
Here is my input
Do you tell your partner you're cumming? They can usually tell by my moaning and movement etc but usually I announce it
Do you feel compelled to do so, or is it simply part of talking dirty? No, I can be quiet too. Some of my past partners would say several times 'tell me when you cum' etc etc, they did it as part of dirty talk so I'd let them know
Does he/she tell you? Do you dig it, or do you find it off-putting? Depends on who I'm with. Some do, some don't. I don't mind it. It all depends on how they announce it. One guy shouted directly into my ear... once there was a bit of spit. Not nice
I have to agree, not so important during sex but if i am giving a blow job then i like to be warned just beforehand. And in the case of my orgasm rather than "Im cumming" i usually do the lead up of "thats it, keep going" or something along those lines just so he knows i am close and not to slow down or stop.
I'm glad this topic was resurrected. I have seen this bandied about before on lpsg. I always do; I always have. For me, it's more of the dirty talk aspect that keeps me announcing. I just always got a kick out of the 70's pornos I grew up watching. And for that matter, the cumshot announcement seems to be a mainstay of porn even in the modern day. But my main exposure was 70's adult cinema. Anyhow, even before I was sexual I saw multiple scenes where the guy says something like , "Ugggghh, I'm gonna' cum," "I'm gonna shoot," of "Here it comes, baby." So when I started getting lucky enough to get the occasional hand job, blow job, or even fuck - I would always announce, "I'm gonna cum," or some such statement.
By and large, females were pleased that I do - especially, not surprisingly, when I have gotten head. Just that 5 second warning gave them the right to decide whether to spit or swallow. In that regard, if I had a feeling I was going to shoot a particularly huge cumshot especially if it's the first time being with a woman, I'll be even more explicit. I've said, "Oh, you're gonna make me cum. You may not want me to do it in your mouth." Most of them essentially ignored my warning and swallowed as much of my load as they could, but I do remember one gal in college back in the dorms freshmen year. She gave me an awesome blow job (although I had very few bad ones in college), and I said, "I gotta' warn you, I'm gonna cum." She giggled and wisely took my advice removing my cock from her mouth and jerking me to completion. The first three jet of cum shot a foot in the air. Her giggling turned to outright laughter and she said, "Oh my G-d, I'm glad I listened to you!" I thought it was because she was glad not to have all that semen launched down her throat, but she told me it would have been a shame not to have seen that cumshot. Who knows if she was being sincere - I still think she was thinking, "Thank G-d, I would have gagged." But I like to think she was telling the truth. We hooked up several more times after that, but she swallowed only once - and the third ejaculation I had that night.
By and large, females were pleased that I do - especially, not surprisingly, when I have gotten head. Just that 5 second warning gave them the right to decide whether to spit or swallow. In that regard, if I had a feeling I was going to shoot a particularly huge cumshot especially if it's the first time being with a woman, I'll be even more explicit. I've said, "Oh, you're gonna make me cum. You may not want me to do it in your mouth." Most of them essentially ignored my warning and swallowed as much of my load as they could, but I do remember one gal in college back in the dorms freshmen year. She gave me an awesome blow job (although I had very few bad ones in college), and I said, "I gotta' warn you, I'm gonna cum." She giggled and wisely took my advice removing my cock from her mouth and jerking me to completion. The first three jet of cum shot a foot in the air. Her giggling turned to outright laughter and she said, "Oh my G-d, I'm glad I listened to you!" I thought it was because she was glad not to have all that semen launched down her throat, but she told me it would have been a shame not to have seen that cumshot. Who knows if she was being sincere - I still think she was thinking, "Thank G-d, I would have gagged." But I like to think she was telling the truth. We hooked up several more times after that, but she swallowed only once - and the third ejaculation I had that night.
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What can I say? Guys love announcing when they are going to cum during sexual activity and telling everyone who is not witnessing them cumming that that is what they do.
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I'm just glad it was posted somewhere. I've often wondered if I was alone in my steadfast rule of always announcing. It would be interesting to hear some females' opinions on whether they like the announcement - especially during non-oral ejaculations, where it's probably most common due to sexual etiquette.
A guy saying he is cumming can be great dirty talk during sex, but i much rather work it out for myself by his moans, groans, grunts and twitches :tongue:
Lee M. - good point. Very few times have I had the presence of mind to matter-of-factly state, "I'm cumming." Since I wait until the point of no return but before I start ejaculating, I'm in such ecstasy that invariably the announcement is preceded by a moan that sounds something like, "Uhhhhhhhhhh." That coupled with what the show, The League, coined as "vinegar strokes," where a guy's face contorts during orgasm (like he sniffed pure vinegar), and I've given ladies a trifecta of signals: the literal announcement, the moan, and the vinegar strokes (or what I always called my "cum face.")
To qualify my post from 4/27, a mere handful of times I matter-of-factly announced without moaning or any other outward signs of orgasm, and such an approach has always been met with the woman giggling if not outright laughter. Mostly I did it that way just to be funny. But I do remember one time I was with a very prude girl, Alex. We had gone out several times and by the 4th date or so she decided to go all the way ... and give me a hand job! So that time I did it out of respect because I knew my dick was going to go crazy when I finally nutted with this girl. She was topless at the time and had a pair of those hanging, yet not altogether sagging, tits with big reddish brown aureolas. Just nice, big breasts. The kind you think of when you hear the term "big titties." The way she was jerking me off, my load was set to land straight on those big breasts of hers, but since she seemed so prude, and it might have been a real favor for her to give me a hand job, I politely as I could said, "I'm about ready to ejaculate," so that she would have a chance to aim my dick on my own chest.
Very un-prudely, Alex said, "Oh, you're cumming? I haven't heard 'ejaculate' since sex ed." Quickening her stroke, she kept my dick aimed at her titties and lovingly accepted jet after jet of my semen on her ample bosom.
Very un-prudely, Alex said, "Oh, you're cumming? I haven't heard 'ejaculate' since sex ed." Quickening her stroke, she kept my dick aimed at her titties and lovingly accepted jet after jet of my semen on her ample bosom.
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sometimes, when what he's doing feels amazing, i say something like "baby I'm gonna cum" so he keeps doing it. The only time he ever tells me he's going to cum is if I'm going down on him, and he's close. I don't particularly enjoy the taste of his seed, so he lets me know in case I want to stop. Sometimes, I don't 
