Dolfette great post. Everything you are saying is exactly right. I care for her so much that I feel like she is missing that closure at the end of a great sex session. You also pointed out how I am startin to act. She has told me on several occasions to just enjoy it as she does. I might be creating a problem that's just no there for her. I can give her orgasms with my tongue and hands although it takes some work, I don't mind, and a vibrator can finish the job in less than 5 minutes, that's why I feel like I'm failing in the intercourse dept. Does she just require that intense clitoral stimulation? Thanks everyone for your input.
you're welcome. love.
she cums. and you sound like you have a wonderful sex life.
i would hate to see you ruin that.
cherish what you have!
i personally would never orgasm without clitoral stimulation...it's just the way i'm wired. five minutes buzz will get me there.
Do you even listen to yourself? Imagine you're dating a guy and no matter what you try in the bedroom he stays limp but insists that it's ok and really it's fine. And as you experiment to try different things to get him hard he gets mad at you because you just don't listen and kicks your ass to the curb.
I'm sure you'd understand.
y're an idiot.
she's not impotent. she's having normal sex. she's not
broken.
she's just not having orgasms through penetration.
and LOTS of women don't.
yes, i've had relationships with men who couldn't orgasm with someone else there. i was perfectly ok with that. the sex we had was pleasurable to them and the intimacy was good.
and i've been with men who just take forever to cum.
if that's what they want, as long as i'm not getting sore, then it's worth working on.
of course if you would rather turn it into an issue and end up with her faking just to get it over with...