Any story involving one of your straight best friends

[bidudeDL]

I think a lot of us "mostly straight" bi dude can confirm that it is a big fantasy that never really dies. For us that are not out, although we tend to feel alone in this, it's nearly impossible that we really are right ? I'm looking for stories and experiences that could give us some hope that this might not be only a fantasy.

How did you get to experiment with friends in your close circle ?

What were the signals and discussions you had which confirmed their interest ?

What is your hot story of experimenting with them the first time and did you continue after ?

Are you guys still good friends ?

 

[ronin72]

Here you go

Ture story - Me and my best friend

 

[bigboaster]

I think a lot of us "mostly straight" bi dude can confirm that it is a big fantasy that never really dies. For us that are not out, although we tend to feel alone in this, it's nearly impossible that we really are right ? I'm looking for stories and experiences that could give us some hope that this might not be only a fantasy.

How did you get to experiment with friends in your close circle ?

What were the signals and discussions you had which confirmed their interest ?

What is your hot story of experimenting with them the first time and did you continue after ?

Are you guys still good friends ?

This is absolutely not the case for me. I have rarely had attractions to my straight mates or friends growing up. I think once I form a "brotherly" bond with a guy my mind doesn't go to that sexual place, even if he is decently attractive.

If I ever have crushes on a guy it is usually a stranger or very loose acquaintance. Him being straight would be incidental and not something I sought out

 

[deleted19462351]

Nah, my straight friends have always been kinda ugly not to mention their personal hygiene wasn't great either.

How did you get to experiment with friends in your close circle ?
I wouldn't call him a friend but I did experiment with an old boss of mine, he shot his shot and somehow got lucky.
I was however, very interested in a friend of mine some years ago.

What were the signals and discussions you had which confirmed their interest ?
With my friend just the whole vibe, or the way he said stuff, or how much we flirted, we were very touchy with each other, I caught him many times staring at me and he caught me staring too so...

What is your hot story of experimenting with them the first time and did you continue after ?
He was too far inside the closet back then to do anything and I was extremely depressed and anxious but I would have love to have a private 1 on 1 cause my dude played soccer and that ass was just mouth watering, he was also very handsome.

Are you guys still good friends ?
Sadly no, after I moved cities we went for a long period of time not talking to each other, he later came out as bi but I was too bitter about what didn't worked out to show any reaction to it (and he seemed to be expecting it) I tried to reconnect but the spark seemed to be gone not to mention he seems to have other things to worry about so I decided to quietly disappear from his life.

 

[latinluva]

My roommate was a close friend back in the 90's. I caught him jerkin off, asked if I could help. He got kinda mad, told him all he had to do was cum in my mouth, no touching. He did, was grossed out. We stopped being friends and moved out.

 

[johnweek1]

Best friends? No. Friends, only two straight friends ever. This was back when I was younger for both, like 1999 for the first, and 2002 for the second. Fond memories of both.

 

[90dayfiance]

@Mtlbidude do you have any story?

 

[bi_ron]

I haven’t connected with a close friend but have met 2 coworkers after discovering them on a personals ad. One of them was married but he is obviously enjoyed exploring his secret bi curiosity. I don’t work with them anymore but still keep in touch with one of them.

 

[deleted11768931]

This is absolutely not the case for me. I have rarely had attractions to my straight mates or friends growing up. I think once I form a "brotherly" bond with a guy my mind doesn't go to that sexual place, even if he is decently attractive.

If I ever have crushes on a guy it is usually a stranger or very loose acquaintance. Him being straight would be incidental and not something I sought out

Same. I know one of my best friends is objectively very attractive and I've suspected for years that he may be bi/gay himself, but my mind simply won't go there. Just the thought of him in a sexual context is enough to make me lose a boner.

Another one of my friends is gay, also good-looking, and a little bit of a self-admitted himbo, so I know every last detail of his sex life, as dirty as it gets. But same thing, I simply can't imagine myself in such a context with him.