No.
I can be gentle, I understand the need to be gentle, but if I am going to express my sexuality and experience that expression, I will not be being mindful of being gentle.
I can love someone, I can have good sex with someone, but at some point I want to express my sexuality, I want to channel my lust and desire into abandoned wild sex. If that isn't possible then I won't be truly satisfied.
It has taken me a long time to realise this and in so doing I think I understand women size queens better. You can put other people's needs first for so long, you can think that this makes you a good lover, and it probably does, but it won't make you wholly satisfied.
Any other guys feel like this? Or size queens for that matter?
PS - yes, I was with someone at the weekend who asked me to be gentle during the latter stages of our lovemaking. I was of course, but it ruined it for me as it has in the past. And yes, it probably ruined it for her as well. So, sadly, not compatible sexually.
I am not normally this polarised on things.
I can be gentle, I understand the need to be gentle, but if I am going to express my sexuality and experience that expression, I will not be being mindful of being gentle.
I can love someone, I can have good sex with someone, but at some point I want to express my sexuality, I want to channel my lust and desire into abandoned wild sex. If that isn't possible then I won't be truly satisfied.
It has taken me a long time to realise this and in so doing I think I understand women size queens better. You can put other people's needs first for so long, you can think that this makes you a good lover, and it probably does, but it won't make you wholly satisfied.
Any other guys feel like this? Or size queens for that matter?
PS - yes, I was with someone at the weekend who asked me to be gentle during the latter stages of our lovemaking. I was of course, but it ruined it for me as it has in the past. And yes, it probably ruined it for her as well. So, sadly, not compatible sexually.
I am not normally this polarised on things.