Being fingered...hmmmm

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Honestly arse-play is something I tend to steer clear of... but I hear people constantly go on and on about how great it is.

Well a little while ago I was with a guy and I noticed he started to put his finger in the general area. I was nervous, but just thought I'd let it happen. So lube was involved and I was quite relaxed... and it was quite slow... it went in easy... but I didn't experience anything ... amazing...

Almost the opposite.

It was uncomfortable... and I felt a distinct burning impression... nothing pleasurable... anything anyone could suggest?

I feel like I'm missing something.
 
Not everyone is ready for everything at the right time. For some it only works with the right timing and the right person. I think it is cool that you exploring your own taste and physique. Blend it with jacking off and together you should feel an extreme orgasm. The burning...maybe the type of lube (?) Others might know. Go slow...enjoy...like a massage and treat for your physique.
 
ass play, being finger fucked while finger fucking it's the best, it's double please if blow jobs, 69 and mutual masturbation are also going on, I can edge all night it these situations and when I blow, to quote Sam Shepard, "I cum like a river."
 
I've tried on numerous occasions, but never really gotten much out of having something up my butt.

However, I've been with men who, when we started making out and grinding against each other with our clothes still on, wanted to feel the bulge of my erection against their ass region. It just turned them on that much.

I've been told, "your big cock just feels so good inside me," by both men and women. I can't imagine saying that myself, but I love hearing it said to me. So it takes both kinds to have a good time, huh? :smile::cool:
 
CUBE said:
Not everyone is ready for everything at the right time. For some it only works with the right timing and the right person. I think it is cool that you exploring your own taste and physique. Blend it with jacking off and together you should feel an extreme orgasm. The burning...maybe the type of lube (?) Others might know. Go slow...enjoy...like a massage and treat for your physique.
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A couple of weeks ago I fingered my buddy's ass and got it in so I could massage the prostate as I stroked his cock with my other hand. His orgasm was so intense I thought he was going to have a heart attack the way he doubled over and moaned in pleasure/pain.
 
I think it all depends on your mood, your horniness, how relaxed you are, etc. If all these things don't come together, then it's easy to feel nothing and not be bothered with it. If you let yourself get into it though, it can feel great.
 
Well first off you need to relax when that's happening, otherwise your tension is only going to null out the feeling. Secondly, was he even doing anything with his finger? I'm sure you would have enjoyed it if he started massaging your prostate.
 
Perhaps the burning was because he tore you. Was it a numbing lube? I would never use a numbing lube for anal play. If there is pain, a tear, you want to feel it and stop or you will have issues.

Not everyone likes anal play, maybe you are just one of those people.
 
I have to say that I have never liked my ass played with.

Here's some straight talk from a gay man: For some guys, no matter how lubed you are, no matter how relaxed you are, anal sex will still be uncomfortable and in some cases painful.

You can still enjoy being rimmed but the moment anything penetrates it stops feeling good. For all of those who say keep trying it, I say don't. If you don't like it, if it feels uncomfortable and, most importantly, if it's painful, just don't do it.

Keep having oral sex or just be a top.

Sklar
 
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