This just happened yesterday - I've been chatting with a guy on Grindr. 38 year old white guy, very handsome, great pictures, nice photos although two were in uniforms. I asked about them and he said they both happened to be for parties. Ok, I accepted that.
We planned on dinner last weekend but I cancelled because I hit a deer coming home from work that day. He was involved all week in some big project at work so we agreed to get in touch over this weekend.
I sent him a SMS asking what he was up to and he replied he was working on something for a presentation today but said come over. "you'll be glad you did" I said "oh?

" He wrote back that he was going to bend me over his knee and spank me with a tight leather glove while he was in uniform. I wrote back "what? are you serious?" He said yeah. I then replied that I thought there was a compatibility issue and declined the offer to go over.
He then wrote and apologized for being too aggressive. I didn't reply.
Not that I'm vanilla but uniforms and spanking is just not me. I don't get off being spanked and the uniform thing, to me, is just funny.
How would you react to something like this?