"Big Dick Attitude"

[thirdlegmeat]

I've only heard the "big dick attitude" comment in the negative context. I've had women insinuate I was an asshole because of my large penis. I always assured them that I am an asshole because I am an asshole--the big dick just allows me to get by with it more. LOL

 

[deleted3782]

I've known four guys or so with big(-ish) dicks (up to 8.5"). Two have been straight, and two gay. None have any attitude per se. One is super intelligent and arguably has attitude through his acheivements. One is very sucessful, and maybe a bit 'tudy in that respect. of the gay guys, one has been a friend for some time, the other was bitter from a break-up, but still friendly. So I can't say that any attitude they might have is attributable to their big dicks. I haven't seen big dick attitude.

I have know guys who have unwarrented bad attitudes, but that is another topic...

 

[cjb76]

What most posts here seem to indicate is that there is somehow a "better than" attitude, that having this or that is better than others so I have confidence in it.... in the end it's a hollow confidence that can easily be shattered. The rare few people I've met that are confident... show none... they never think of themselves that way or feel it... in the end.. they just do what they have to do, act how they do and go from there... true confident people "just are". The question about "what's wrong with feeling good about haivng a big dick etc?" well in the end it's self-serving.

so those that give without asking for anything in return, those that just do what's right, the whole honesty, integrity, justice and just end up doing amazing things mostly out of survival or what they feel must be done is what I feel confidence is. Insecurity is just based in the fear that when a situation arises... "I won't be good enough or be able to handle the situation." Some people just do it and worry later.. those that think "I can please any woman, handle any situation, etc.".. big dick or not... is arrogance or attitude... there's a fine line between arrogance and confidence... and like I said... those that think they got something better .. it's arrogance... those that just go about life doing the best they can.... is confidence.

just me being philisopical on a Sat.

 

[bigeight_98]

Originally posted by HickBoy@Sep 19 2005, 05:12 PM
My ex-gf said I had it. I asked her what it consisted of and she said it was mostly about acting like I had nothing to prove to anybody.

I thanked her, but I still scratch my head about what it means to have "big dick attitude."

What does it mean?

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I would have taken that as a compliment. Think about how it would have made you feel if she said you always acted like you felt you had to prove yourself to everyone (i.e., always seeking everyone's approval).

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

Originally posted by viking+Sep 20 2005, 05:07 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(viking &#064; Sep 20 2005, 05:07 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by BruceSter@Sep 20 2005, 08:32 AM
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as I point out whenever anyone accuses me of it: it ain&#39;t arrogance when it&#39;s justified.

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being somewhat bigger down there changes your attitude towards things and can give you a confidence boost when I&#39;m one among several flirters for the same lady.

Bruce

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That sounds kind of like a pack of dogs Bruce. LOL...

That aside, How do you know that it&#39;s your big cock that&#39;s giving you confidence.
You&#39;ve never had a small cock, have you?

I think it&#39;s more of a total package thing. You&#39;re a stud, no doubt. Great bod.
Great looks. You seem well adjusted. Add the big schlong and you&#39;re golden.

I think confidence is built up over the years by successes in life.
You were probably praised by your parents. You were probably praised for being good at sports. And yes, you are probably praised for your big dick too.

As you should be&#33;&#33; ( justified arrogance is what the Dr. calls it I think)

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I tend to go 50/50 on this. I mean, I know what i&#39;ve got but I&#39;ll never be bragging unless someone really asks. But I don&#39;t use it for my own gains either, I like to consider myself more than capable of attaining whatever I need without benefit of my endowment

 

[Knight]

I used to think the "Big Dick Attitude" was fuck you I have a big cock and I can shag any woman I want and she&#39;ll love it.

Now maybe it isn&#39;t that

I&#39;m quietly confident now, especially when I see a tall guy or a tall black guy acting like a prick or being confident himself. Instead of looking away like I used to do I just keep looking straight forward, looking at him and then he&#39;s the one who ends up looking away

I usually smile when I walk past them. I&#39;m more confident around girls too, dunno if thats because of my penis. Although I did used to also believe the "Big Dick Attitude" (the mean, arrogant and &#39;fuck you&#39 one belonged to the really big guys, around 10"+ ie Jonah Falcon.

 

[BuffMusicIdol]

I had a best friend who is a little under 5&#39;9" tall. He was a little over 7.5 inches long. Because of his size he looked like he had a big dick. He worked out a lot. We were workout buddies. His attitude was based solely on his looks, and it wasn&#39;t confidence, it was arrogance. Superiority. We are no longer friends at all.

There is a difference between arrogance and confidence. The "nothing to prove" confidence is NOT arrogance, as far as I can see it. It means self secure, and able to interact and relate to others and feel good about it, and at the same time they also feel good about themselves while they are with you. That&#39;s also called charisma. Attracted to someone for a reason you almost can&#39;t quite pinpoint.

Big cock attitude can be a lot of things, but if it&#39;s the "nothing to prove" variety, I&#39;d say it&#39;s closer to being grounded, centered, knowing who you are, and opening yourself enough to let others in and help them feel safe and secure while they are with you.

Bragging, showing off, inuendo about size, etc, all fall in the category of insecurity and a need to be arrogant.

I wish I was grounded and centered enough to be more charismatic. Sometimes I fall into the braggin category. I have to catch myself. I&#39;m working on it.

 

[Wave]

"Am I like, the only one who thinks it&#39;s sad that some people get their confidence from cock size? Like, last I checked, there&#39;s so much more to a person than size, and I thought some of you here would understand that better? "


i am with the Surferboy...there are way more important things about a man to feel proud about than the size of his boner. think of all the famous heroes and leaders and all their statues and monuments and gravestones, none of which were privy to the size of their penises. and of course, dig &#39;em all up and that little tool of flesh and tissue has dissolved away...all we know of them is their skeletal art, left as a framework for the canvas that once walked around on their frames.

on the other hand, for guys who are shy or have been &#39;wounded&#39; somehow and need a boost, and if you know you&#39;re packing more than most guys, why not let it boost you? but there is really no reason to be arrogant about it.......one does not tell God ahead of time, "give me ten inches, please&#33;" if that were the case, all guys would have big ones and then they would not be big, would they?

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