Bisexuality Confession

[D_Parker_House_Rolle]

you said exactly what i said i im what i am and what i am is straight i know this. i am 24 years old i may not be as old as you guys but i think by this age a person knows whether or not they are bi gay straight. saying that people need to confess isnt an opinion it forcing your beliefs on them. you act as if ive never met a gay person if i was attracted to men i would know. you may have found out late in life that you are bi but that is you and everyone is not like you so you cannot apply the same rules.

dude what even made you open this? If you were not the least bit interested you would not even felt the need to reply.

 

[Hatt_101]

I opened it because it was in the ask men section an the title of the thread didn't have a question so I wanted to see what you were talking about and after I read I responded to it because I know it's not tire for me and probably many other men. I'm younger than the majority of the people here so if o know what I am by now every other guy that is here that is older and says they are 100% straight I'm pretty sure they know themselves as well.

dude what even made you open this? If you were not the least bit interested you would not even felt the need to reply.

 

[MisterSlave]

I heard a good one once: I assume Labels but I do not let them define me. My self concept is not in the hands of other people. Most of my family was supportive of me, when I came out. Although I like masculine men. . Some masculine men think that (gay) things are immasculative . . that couldn't be contrary. I have had some wonderful connective sex (as well as kinky hardcore wild sex). . with some great guys.

Live your life and don't be afraid of what people think, because . . do their opinions matter if they can't be supportive.

Anyway. . that's just a bit of my ramblings on this subject.

Misterslave.

 

[Popyuu]

I have a theory, that sometimes we are attracted to ourselves, which means that when you recignize yourself in another person you may be attracted to him. Havent you ever noticed that gay couples alot of times look exactly alike. I think theres something to it.

Very interesting theory. One that would support the notion that theres a rise in narcissism in our society. It would also give support to the idea that being gay or bisexual (and other ___sexuals) doesn't actually exist. That its just another form of self love brought to an extreme. I do see where you're going with it though. And it would explain why couples (not only gay couples) look alike sometimes. Wonder if thats more of a effect of living in close proximity for a good span of time too.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Very interesting theory. One that would support the notion that theres a rise in narcissism in our society. It would also give support to the idea that being gay or bisexual (and other ___sexuals) doesn't actually exist. That its just another form of self love brought to an extreme. I do see where you're going with it though. And it would explain why couples (not only gay couples) look alike sometimes. Wonder if thats more of a effect of living in close proximity for a good span of time too.

I agree:151:

 

[Hatt_101]

while i could say that im a bit narcissistic hence uploading my pictures i dont look for girls that look like me. long straight red hair and blue eyes are my favourite features a girl can have for me and seeing as i am a black guy i dont have any of these features. i havent looked like and doubt i will look like any futures GFs. not that i dont like black girls i just feel that all ethnicity should mingle among each other

Very interesting theory. One that would support the notion that theres a rise in narcissism in our society. It would also give support to the idea that being gay or bisexual (and other ___sexuals) doesn't actually exist. That its just another form of self love brought to an extreme. I do see where you're going with it though. And it would explain why couples (not only gay couples) look alike sometimes. Wonder if thats more of a effect of living in close proximity for a good span of time too.

 

[Hatt_101]

this is what the op said in a pm before he conveniently disabled his account





if you are saying it like that then people have the potential to be fully straight as well saying people have the potential for everything means that they can be fully straight as well. how can you criticize someone elses life when you are around the exact same age in my life ive seen many things and from all experiences i know that im not bi sexual to say that people have the potential for it is fine but the same would apply for bi people as they would have the potential to be straight as well the same for gay people.

if you are just saying people have the potential for anything thats fine but anything includes being straight and if not you dont know the meaning of the word anything. you cannot judge anyones life off of your own experiences especially if you are only 23. you can only speak for yourself and also what you just described wasnt being bi i was someone forced into a bisexual act which are two completely different things. if my lif depended on it i would try every possible option to get out of it because i dont like men. if you are bi thats fine i dont care but to say that it is impossible to be fully straight is what makes no sense b/c it is simply not true at least for me.

by you logic i can easily make a thread called murder confession and say that everyone has the potential to be a killer but no one is 100% not a murder. see how ridiculous that sounds.

people do have the potential for anything but anything includes being 100% straight or 100% gay/lesbian

also you sent the same PM twice

You obviously didn't read the entire post for content- usually most people take a fragment of a piece of literature and then twist it to rebuttal if it doesn't match their own belief. I basically am saying we have the potential to be bisexual, but no one has the potential to be fully straight..if so prove it. For you to take an asinine approach to what is written and highlight points that agree and shed a negative light on the ones you don't agree with is ridiculous in itself. I never said anyone had to confess anything. I based my entire thread on my own experiences as learning about society from the mindset of being unbiased to everything. At the end of the day, regardless of if you want to believe it or not. IF your life was on the line, or you was held at gunpoint and someone would say to you suck my dick or die, you wouldn't chose death. No human being would, unless they wanted to die, and even if, they would probably force you to do it. This is an extreme example as I hope you don't experience that, but the basis of what I am saying is that you have the potential to be. Anyone has the potential to be anything except something that can be challenged, sexuality can be challenged. As for the superior race reference, that's complete bullshit to compare this to that, for more than one reason which I don't feel like going into. Bottom line everyone has the potential to be bisexual, doesn't mean they are, or need to claim it, but it's a fact. Just like everyone must breathe to stay alive, your experiences in your life thus far shape who you are. Which to me you seem like a very strong-minded, closed off, opinionated, individual. I came on this site as a networking tool, and also to give advice, in your 24 years, you probably haven't seen the world for what's beyond what you have been taught. I'm 23 and have a keen perspective of the world in which I live in. I don't need to show off to the world my dick, or my negative opinions about anything. It takes understanding before assuming, because when one person assumes you make and ass out of u and me.