Bobby Deitz

Thanks for this site. He kept IM me to get me to pay him $100 for his sex tape. Good thing I didn’t take the bait because of this site
As embarrassed as I am to admit this, I did fall for the bait.

He asks for your phone number so his “transactions” happen off of OnlyFans so there’s lack of moderation of accountability or what have you when he asks for $100 for a video. While he does send you a bunch of videos, most of them are just fuller versions of what’s on his OnlyFans if not his Twitter. Rarely any cumshots.

Genuinely so glad you were able to avoid that mess.
 
I follow this guy on X and sent him two paypal transfers a couple of days ago totaling $300. He was posting that he was gonna be out in the street and cold and starving. The multiple posts on X were pitiful and desperate and so was the sobbing voice message. It triggered me, reminding me of a time long ago when I was practically homeless, desperate for some small kindness. He asked what I wanted in return I said nothing really, he should take care of himself but he could send a couple of vids my way when he was in a better place. Then a day later came the messages. Repeated pleas for more money, and how dire his situation was. I told him I'd already sent and he asked when. I sent screen shots of the PayPal with his real name clearly shown as a recipient. So he counters that his bank was in the negative and the funds I sent barely covered the overdraft. Then he asked how I could possibly do this to him. That is when I got mad and told him as much. My bleeding heart gets me into trouble sometimes. Thought I can afford to forget the $300, I really hate being emotionally manipulated. I wish I'd seen this thread before.
 
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I follow this guy on X and sent him two paypal transfers a couple of days ago totaling $300. He was posting that he was gonna be out in the street and cold and starving. The multiple posts on X were pitiful and desperate and so was the sobbing voice message. It triggered me, reminding me of a time long ago when I was practically homeless, desperate for some small kindness. He asked what I wanted in return I said nothing really, he should take care of himself but he could send a couple of vids my way when he was in a better place. Then a day later came the messages. Repeated pleas for more money, and how dire his situation was. I told him I'd already sent and he asked when. I sent screen shots of the PayPal with his real name clearly shown as a recipient. So he counters that his bank was in the negative and the funds I sent barely covered the overdraft. Then he asked how I could possibly do this to him. That is when I got mad and told him as much. My bleeding heart gets me into trouble sometimes. Thought I can afford to forget the $300, I really hate being emotionally manipulated. I wish I'd seen this thread before.
I saw the posts and felt bad too. I was really considering sending but searched him up here and got the impression he was a scammer. Sorry that happened to you. Wanting to help someone who claims they are in fear of being houseless is a good trait. And some people really need the help. Please stay generous. Being taken advantage of doesn’t make you a bad person. In this instance - it’s the opposite.
 
I saw the posts and felt bad too. I was really considering sending but searched him up here and got the impression he was a scammer. Sorry that happened to you. Wanting to help someone who claims they are in fear of being houseless is a good trait. And some people really need the help. Please stay generous. Being taken advantage of doesn’t make you a bad person. In this instance - it’s the opposite.
Thank you. What sucks is now it is going to make me suspicious of some other decent person who genuinely could use a little assistance.
 
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I got in touch and spoke with him. The situation is genuine and he really does need help. He provided evidence and I personally believe him. If you’re able to, reach out and see what he needs. He’s a young guy just trying to survive.
 
I got in touch and spoke with him. The situation is genuine and he really does need help. He provided evidence and I personally believe him. If you’re able to, reach out and see what he needs. He’s a young guy just trying to survive.
Ok, however im pretty sure he mentioned to me that I "was the only one to help" out any
 
I follow this guy on X and sent him two paypal transfers a couple of days ago totaling $300. He was posting that he was gonna be out in the street and cold and starving. The multiple posts on X were pitiful and desperate and so was the sobbing voice message. It triggered me, reminding me of a time long ago when I was practically homeless, desperate for some small kindness. He asked what I wanted in return I said nothing really, he should take care of himself but he could send a couple of vids my way when he was in a better place. Then a day later came the messages. Repeated pleas for more money, and how dire his situation was. I told him I'd already sent and he asked when. I sent screen shots of the PayPal with his real name clearly shown as a recipient. So he counters that his bank was in the negative and the funds I sent barely covered the overdraft. Then he asked how I could possibly do this to him. That is when I got mad and told him as much. My bleeding heart gets me into trouble sometimes. Thought I can afford to forget the $300, I really hate being emotionally manipulated. I wish I'd seen this thread before.
Same happened to me, seems like it‘s his modus operandi or smth. Seemed so real, but afterwards he still posted about how no one sent anything.
 
Same happened to me, seems like it‘s his modus operandi or smth. Seemed so real, but afterwards he still posted about how no one sent anything.
Im thinking that it isn't a scam, but that hes in such a desperate place, or so in the hole, that not much can make a difference...
 
Im thinking that it isn't a scam, but that hes in such a desperate place, or so in the hole, that not much can make a difference...
Idk. The tweets will make it seem like it’s time sensitive but he’s been posting like this for at least a month. And the amount needed seems to change in inconsistent ways
 
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Idk. The tweets will make it seem like it’s time sensitive but he’s been posting like this for at least a month. And the amount needed seems to change in inconsistent ways
Yeah im back to thinking scam. I think i was trusring my heartstrings too much. I figured his low engagement on posts made it more likely he was actually in a tough spot. I scrolled back, and I noticed that his desperation tweets started at least on aug 31 this year, and they were infrequent by increased in frequency.

I'd also gone back and listened to voice messages he sent. They sound sniffly and sad on first listen, but on repeat it seems more like background noise to me.

I hope he isn't scamming with this story about a dead grandma (in a recent tweet). But I also hope he isn't actually as fucked as he seems/describes