In order to see continued signs of interest from him you have to give him your attention or you're not going to see those signs.Not always. I need to see some continued signs of interest from him.
it's just flirting.
lots of people flirt, even when they're not really interested.
it's meant to be fun and make everyone feel good.
i'm sure you must know married men who compliment and charm all the ladies but would never dream of cheating.
coming on to you would be far more intense and unmistakable.
Oh another thing, a woman is more likely to laugh at your jokes if she's interested in you...
Guys, if a woman is interested in you... you get her attention and usually all of it. What you do with it is up to you.
If a woman finds you attractive she will do something to get your attention indirectly. A flip of her hair, a tiny smile at you, moving around to stay in your line of sight, something.
After your initial come-on (not giving away my line) start paying attention and watch her reactions. The reactions will be subtle but simple. Things like leaning in closer, crossing her legs with to top leg in your direction, slow blinking, or maybe touching herself (not like that... nasty minds) touching her face or her neck or some other visible part of her skin, etc... Whatever it is, it will be small.
I was hoping that we could continue a lively debate on this.
well I make most women laugh my sence of humor is one of my strengths personality wise, tho I will say this one girl in particular seems to laugh just a little harder and more freely then the other ladies at my jokes in particular
she's married, so hopefully whether he likes her or not doesn't make any difference.Yes, when a girl laughs a little louder when you make jokes, then probably it's a good sign. Do you like her?
well I make most women laugh my sence of humor is one of my strengths personality wise
she's married, so hopefully whether he likes her or not doesn't make any difference.
my mistake. she has a bf, not a husband.Um, oh? I didn't catch that. I really didn't. Where in this thread did he say she was married? I am lost now.
what about turning around pointing to her butt and asking me if I don't pay attention to her underwear choices and corresponding lack of pantylines...
does anyone have a link (or even the name of a book) I could pick up that is a good guide to reading body language
especially female flirting type body language
my mistake. she has a bf, not a husband.
but IMO it's the same deal. you just shouldn't go there with someone who isn't free & single.
Yes, when a girl laughs a little louder when you make jokes, then probably it's a good sign. Do you like her?
she's married, so hopefully whether he likes her or not doesn't make any difference.
Not quite body language, but Emotions Revealed by Paul Ekman shows facial cues towards what someone's thinking. Lie to Me the show is based on his work.
Pupils dilate
They will get in your "space" eg right up next to you. May seem insignificant but its a big step. Every animal gives others space. The only times space is invaded is for aggression, 'bonding' or mating purposes.
They will touch you. Similar to above but one step beyond.
Playing with hair
Biting their lip
They'll ask you to buy them drinks. A LOT :tongue:
does anyone have a link (or even the name of a book) I could pick up that is a good guide to reading body language
especially female flirting type body language