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Yes it's a pretty big bust size hunni, I'm currently a UK J cup and well aware of big boobie issues XView attachment 1476486 is this considered as a big bra size?
That poor woman is is going to have back issues, plus those straps are too narrow for good comfort.
Indeed they do!!I saw those too! I can feel them digging in! Her shoulders must look like sheer hell in the evening.
@LaFemme @EllieP ,
For every day wear for my health not just my comfort I always go for a wide band and wide straps, I can't cope with having all the weight hanging from the straps I need a good band and design that supports from underneath.
Often when I've worn a more attractive bra to go with a dress or particular top when I'm out somewhere I've ended up pulling a pair of strap cushions out my bag before the day's out, I don't like having to use them but after a while it doesn't take long to start getting pressure sores on the shoulders
It always seems so difficult to get the perfect combination of something attractive and sexy that has good support and decent width straps that actually fits well also. I think the closest I've found to the perfect combo is the superbra from Panache X
I eventually had to cry uncle when even the pads wouldn't help. The doctor said that damage to my neck is permanent. Fortunately, I can work around it, but the immense relief from downsizing the girls is the real payoff for me. I put up with that for far too long, unfortunately.
Every so often my neck will "catch," and it'll be a reminder of how it was. I still feel thankful that I had the nerve to pull the trigger. And I would recommend that to anyone suffering - find a good plastic surgeon. Work with them to get your insurance provider to understand the health risk. My insurance company had no problem complying. That's when I felt stupid for not doing it earlier.
But still, even though I've dropped a few cup sizes, there is no other relief like unhooking the booby girdle when I get home in the evening!
So sorry to hear you have permanent neck damage hunni but so pleased that you're a lot better now and have some relief
I truly believe that people have no clue what it's like carrying so much weight around all the time, I'm in the UK and surgery wouldn't be an issue here whether I did it privately or thru the state which is always a comfort. I think I'm pretty lucky as I've never really suffered with my neck or back badly, if anything it's my upper back between the shoulders that gives a reminding twinge occasionally but on the whole I've been lucky so far. I guess I probably put up with a lot more than I admit to myself tho, it may be an avenue I'll have to go down as the girls slowly keep migrating South!
It doesn't help that my weight is always up and down (I've never been skinny but I gain easily) it always goes mostly on my bust, hips and bottom. With my last increase in weight I've even shocked myself now having to wear a J/JJ cup in one an L!!! And that's UK sizes
I'm a big woman anyway but I take up more than half the damn bed which is crazy, I think deep down I'm also a little scared of surgery tbh. How did you feel pre op hunni, were you anxious, nervous or worried about anything? X
I wear a 38g. They are quite large to the rest of my body proportions I was definitely blessed in the breast Department. But when they were handing out asses I was too busy playing with my boobs to get in line.