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just show it off bro its a part of you that wont change much now that you are almost full grown. Plus there are many out there who will look and go about their business...i dont care if they look but then again i am pretty comfortable with myself
 

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track14 from what I've seen in your gallery you are very attractive and have a very nice body. If I saw you in a changing room, I'd for sure look at your hot ass. I wouldn't stare mind you because staring makes me uncomfortable myself. I am comfortable with my own body, although I wish I were a little taller, and I don't mind people looking at me when I'm changing or showering, but I don't like it when people stare/gawk at me.

mister_y, the only thing wrong with your theory of looking back at them is sometimes this leads to a misunderstanding, a false sense of approval if you will, by the party that initiated the exchange of stares.
 

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Being checked out at the gym is just a normal thing. Guys are curious about how that stack up to other guys. I grew up thinking my body was something to be proud of and men could change in a lockerroom and walk to a shower at the gym naked because it was normal for men to do that at the gym together. I think the problem is that some gay men have become more forward while checking other males out at the gym and some have used the lockerroom as a place to try to pick up other men. The gym I go to now has made it a requirement to wear at least underpants in the sauna because one male made it a point to compliment another guys flaccid size while they were in the sauna together. It is common knowledge that if you see another male checking you out in the lockerroom and you make extended eye contact then you are approveing of what he is doing. If you don't like it then be sure you don't look back. Just ignore him. He may just be comparing or he may be trying to figure out if you are aproachable.
 

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Hi, You'll get used to it. Don't be embarressed. Although a lot older than you i keep pretty fit and often get looked at in the locker room by young guys and older ones. The worst was when a young lad about 10 years old said to his dad in quite a loud voice 'dad why is that man so much bigger than you' very embarressing.
 

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I usually don't mind somebody taking a glance, but a couple of weeks ago I finished my workout and decided to swim. I was just rinsing off when one of the guys from a grade 12 swim meet that was taking place at the gym came in. I wear N2N swimwear, so I know it is fairly revealing, but he did not stop staring the whole time. I would look over at him and he just kept looking.

He followed me out of the showers and went to his locker, which as it turned out was close to mine. I grabbed shampoo and went back to the shower hoping that he would be gone by the time I returned, but he followed me again! I was weirded out that anybody could be so intent on looking . In the end I figured that he was just curious so I decided to strip thinking that it would satisfy his curiosity and he would stop. It didn't work. It was honestly the most uncomfortable I have been in a locker room and the most freakish that I have felt. I felt like I was in a circus sideshow. I was tempted to say something, but I did not even know what to say. I dried off quickly and changed and got out as quick as I could.

I have got to a point in my life where I still will not walk around nude for hours on end and am still a little uncomfortable with guys looking even in the shower, but I am more accepting of it and every now and then almost enjoy a little (short lived) attention.

My advice to you is to get used to it if you are nude in the locker room. Guys will look, usually though, it is a glance and not a 5 minute thing.
 

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My advice to you is to get used to it if you are nude in the locker room. Guys will look, usually though, it is a glance and not a 5 minute thing.
It is true that glances in the lockerroom are part of the territory, and Track's short lived gallery explained exactly why, but it is also true that most guys (and gays, too) know to what degree that is acceptable and when it is intrusive.

You are such a good guy, Dolf, and one who has come further in his attitudes about this sort of thing than almost anyone I can imagine, but it really is an irritation when someone just goes too far. Sorry you had to experience that.
 

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Thanks FF; I am still a little disturbed, but I am sure that I will cope; I may avoid swimming if I know there is going to be a swim meet though. He was in grade 12 which means that he would be 16 to 18 and it may be that he was gay (in which case he was very comfortable in his orientation for such a young fellow) or he was young and curious (though I figured that being on a swim team he would have been over that by now.) Either way I remember thinking that when I was that age I was not anywhere near so bold. In one way, good for him being so comfortable. On the other hand, as you said, most guys know where to draw the line and most draw fairly close to one another: where this guy drew the line was at leas 50 paces further than others.
 
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I'm in change room alot, as I'm a competitive swimmer. It seems like 90% of guys will check out your cock, well you are naked. I know that I do it too. I have been given the gift of a very nice large cock, and there isn't a time in the showers or getting changed where there hasn't been a guy checking me out. And when I'm in the changeroom I automatically stare at guys cocks. It's just human nature to compare, now I'm more familar with my team so they don't stare as much now that we have actually compared, but when meeting someone its only natural to check out their cock
 

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people stare at me all the time, but im used to it... i dont even have to be naked.

ive got a nice face, 32" waist, decent abs, 44" ass( bubble butt ) and hang 6.5-7" soft.. so what ever they are satring at is up to them, but ive got a lot to show off...
 
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If a guy stares too long, just say "How's it going?". I've done that before and either they stammer "uh, ok" and turn away or we get into a decent conversation. Once you start talking, they pretty much have to look at your face. I don't mind getting checked out in the locker room or shower. In fact, I kind of like it. I guess I have some exhibitionist tendencies in me. If someone is looking at me I take it as a compliment that they like what they see. I'm a pretty fit 40 year old. Most people tell me I don't look my age (I look about 30). I went through a period after university where I put on a lot of weight and looked like crap. I didn't even like looking at myself in the mirror. Since then I have busted my butt to try to get back some of the physique I had in my glory days (young 20's) when I got compliments on my physique all of the time from buddies and women. While I know I will never look that good again, I feel inspired by the progress I have made. When I was carrying that weight NOBODY was checking me out - guys or girls. When you get to my age you are happy that anyone (males and/or females) is checking you out whether you are gay or straight - trust me on this one. It reaffirms that you have made progress and look good. I'll start to worry when nobody is checking me out again. It means I need to work harder in the gym.
 
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Proof, heh heh. :biggrin1:


I'm flattered. Sorry dude, you're going to have to take my word for it. I don't want to post pics because I enjoy the anonymity. I think a lot of people not believing I'm 40 comes from my attitude as well as my looks. I don't take myself too seriously, and I like to have fun. :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: Life is too short to be uptight and angry which seems to be a plague in our rush rush society nowadays. I can never understand why there are so many people that want to go through life angry. I always say that life is as stressful and as complicated as people make it. I think I'm much better off for my attitude. I swear that most of my friends and colleagues are going to drop dead from stress by the time they are 50 or sooner.
Cheers! :cool:
 

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This is the wisest post I have EVER read on this site!

...I think a lot of people not believing I'm 40 comes from my attitude as well as my looks. I don't take myself too seriously, and I like to have fun. :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: Life is too short to be uptight and angry which seems to be a plague in our rush rush society nowadays. I can never understand why there are so many people that want to go through life angry. I always say that life is as stressful and as complicated as people make it. I think I'm much better off for my attitude. I swear that most of my friends and colleagues are going to drop dead from stress by the time they are 50 or sooner.
Cheers! :cool:
 
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This is the wisest post I have EVER read on this site!

Thanks dude. Appreciate it. I heard an expression once that I always try to keep in mind: Don't take life too seriously, no one gets out alive! :smile:
Cheers! :cool: