Questions!!
I bought this chastity belt this week. I like the feeling of someone putting me in a cage and deciding everything. I like to obey.
When I am soft (first photo) I have the impression that the size is good, no pain. When I'm hard (second and third photo) she moves a little and wearing her at night I had pain in the testicles since I have the impression that she compresses them. Finally, I manage to get my penis out through the pubic section (see video) I imagine that the ring must be tighter but it doesn't make me want to given the pain in the testicles when I'm hard at night.
Can someone help me? Is it normal? Should I change size, if so which size on my current cage you think is not the right one. Also I want to test the flat cage, should I wait or should I try soon?
Thanks
First off, congrats!
Second, I think I have that same device. I bought mine on Amazon and it came with several base rings of various sizes. For me the fit was good but the angle of the cage was pointing down and too long so the pee hole never lined up. I wasn't able to urinate in it without making a mess. It was fun to wear for a few hours but I couldn't wear it long term.
When you say "pain in the testicles" do you mean actually in your testicles or does it feel like a burning sensation just behind your scrotum?
If the latter then that means the ring is too small. Find out the size of whatever ring you have an order another one slightly bigger. For me I am about a 48mm base ring size. Most the junk on Amazon is 45 or 50mm. 50 was too comfortable and I'd easily slip out of it and 45 felt like a vice and my balls started burning.
If your experiencing shooting pain actually in your testicles then something else is wrong. Did you have a vasectomy by chance with the titanium caps? I do and sometimes they get squished in there when I'm wearing causing pain in my scrotum. I usually have to discreetly adjust things and that pain goes away.
What happens when you experience and erection when wearing one of these devices is your penis tries to stick out and since it's attached to the base ring by the lock mechanism then it brings the base ring with it. The base ring then squishes against your scrotum and can be uncomfortable. For most guys the discomfort is enough to involuntarily stop getting the erection and then things settle down quickly.
There are different sizes and shapes of the base ring you might need to experiment with. They have oval, circle and oblong shaped rings that conform to the natural curve of your body. You need to find the one that's right for you. Buying the cheap devices on Amazon is a good way to experiment before investing in a more expensive unit.
Regarding the escape: yeah, unless you get a PA piercing and a device that is secured with that then you will be able to escape if you want to by pulling your penis all the way out back into your body. The closest non-piercing solution I've found is from a company called Cherry Keeper. They make a 3D printed cage that has a unique design they call a "head lock" feature. The tip of the cage where your glans goes then has a slight indentation immediately after securing the head of your penis preventing pull-out. It's still possible to pull out past it if you want but I like this "head lock" feature because it holds my shaft in place and makes the cage opening line up with my urethra opening; so I can pee standing up in a urinal without a mess. The Cherry Keeper models are more expensive but also they are overseas so shipping is usually $40-ish and take a couple weeks for delivery. Also, they make base rings that are wider and this was a game changer for me. A thinner base ring dug into my skin behind my scrotum but the wider one didn't. This eliminated the ball burning problem for me. Other companies also have wider rings.
I ended up going with the Cherry Keeper:
Ring: G2 - 48mm Double
Cage: Standard with TouchStop with medium Head Lock
I feel I could wear this indefinitely if I wanted to--If only I could get my wife on board.
You mentioned the flat cages, yeah they look neat but are very advanced. If your new to this hold off and find a non-flat cage that you can wear indefinitely before going for the more advanced stuff. If you ever wanted to wear it for more than a few hours you have to get one with the urethral tube so you can urinate. There are certain dangers involved in that regarding UTI's. So just get used to a more normal cage and see how that goes.
Just keep trying a few of the cheaper ones on Amazon and dial in what ring shape and size works best for you. You can buy them for less than $20 now. Take note of the shape and size of each one. Wear it for a while and find out what you like or don't like about it. Then find another cage or ring that seems to have something better and try that. It took me about 4 cages and ring sizes to really understand what works for me and every guy is different.
Final thoughts: It will be uncomfortable at times to wear. Some guys say there is a break-in period of your body learning to adjust to being restricted when before it wasn't. It might take a few days or weeks to get used to it. One method is to wear it for short terms, like a few hours, at a time. Then take it off. Then the next day put it on again for a bit longer and eventually repeat that until you get more comfortable. It should never be painful, if it is then something is wrong and you could cause permanent damage with long term pain. It will be weird and uncomfortable at times. You'll know you have arrived when you forget your wearing it and go grocery shopping. Good luck and keep us posted!
