Chastity beginner

some photos in flat cage chastity:

Nice pics man! Looking to at some point get a flat cage. How do you find peeing? Erections at night? Does yours have a catheter or is it just hope to god the urethras lined up to the hole?
Thank you ... I don't wear it for long periods so I don't have any of those concerns.
 
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Very interesting ….. glad to know there are others, straight and gay, who are curious about this …. and have acted on their curiosity. I am a straight guy in a long-distance relationship. My gf would certainly not understand or play along with the whole idea of having or wearing a chastity cage. She’d say it was “weird”. I know that because she’s previously taken that perspective regarding cock rings and ball stretchers. When I suggested that she think of them as sex toys that enhance pleasure, like her beloved vibrators, she simply says she’s not into all “that bondage stuff”. …..

In the case of the chastity cage I can understand and see her point. But I am a bit like NYSlutboy (above); I think about it as an adornment; an affectation. Certainly the idea of self-denial or “ruined” orgasms are NOT what I’m looking for! It’s more like “this will hold the beast back until it is released”!

I admit that I am inclined toward hotwife (girlfriend) and watching/sharing scenarios but I, personally can’t relate to the humiliation or stay at home while wife/girlfriend goes out on a date …. not my cup of tea.

Recently, I have seen more of these “caged hubby” scenes and images which intrigue me. The caged husband visual seems to further the notion of the wife in charge angle. The fact that almost always the husband is shaved smooth further demonstrates his submissiveness and that she and her pleasure are primary.

Anyway, I am awaiting the arrival of the cage I just bought for myself (photo attached). I’m looking forward trying it on and experiencing the look and feel. Of course, I’ll be sure to shave myself completely smooth to enhance the moment. I thought about adding a 2” chrome ball stretcher to the scene, too. We’ll see. Long story short, if I like it, I’ll keep it. If I don’t, I’ll chalk it up to an experiment & toss it.
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One thing is for sure; I won’t be able to share any of this with my gf as she would never understand or go along …… fortunately for me, she won’t question me being shaved & smooth as she made it clear from the start that this is the way she “prefers” me and I have accepted that and even learned to “prefer” that look too ……

Hmmm ….. you think SHE may have had this all in mind from the start ….. …..
So, my latest experiment arrived and after some difficulty (baby oil is your friend!) I was able to get it on …… it’s a curious feeling. It has the weight and feel of some of the ball stretchers and cock rings I’ve worn which is stimulating but also prevents me from holding or stroking myself, something like a self-tease or denial, I suppose ….. and as in many of the images I’ve seen (which led me to want to try this out) it is an “on switch” for the pre-cum faucet!

I didn‘t buy this to add to my relationship as my gf would never participate (not that I’d even want a “key holder”) or approve. I was simply curious about the look and sensation. I certainly am not looking to decrease my size or regulate my orgasms. I may wear this for a brief time as I go about my day, or from time to time, but I know I’ll end up removing it and busting a pent-up nut! I don’t see this as a lifestyle, for me …. I wonder if I’m bold enough to wear this at the nude beach?

Anyway, that’s my review …… if you’re curious, why not try it?

PS; I haven’t seen the gf for a while but I will be shaved & smooth when I do …..
 

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Seems a shame to lock that sexy, cute smooth penis up like that. I’d much prefer it free and …. accessible!

Btw, I misspoke; I meant the lower RIGHT!

Seems a shame to lock that sexy, cute smooth penis up like that. I’d much prefer it free and …. accessible!

Btw, I misspoke; I meant the lower RIGHT!
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Hi everyone,
I need advices. I've bought a cage. My boyfriend is the key holder. It turns me so on, I think about sex all day long.
At first, the cage hurt my ball sack and cock. It's getting better now.
Last night was the first night my bf left the cage on me. I had a bad night. Mind full of fantasies.
I got hard a few times and when I woke up, I was hard, cock inside the cage but balls went out I don't know how.
I believe that means the ring is too big.
Also the entrance of the cage is a bit small for my cock.. the skin stays outside and I have to grab the foreskin through the cage to pull the base of my cock's skin in.
(Sorry if my English is not good.. I'm french..)
My cage is the one in attached pics.
I think I could handle a 45 mm ring but 40 is too small.
Would you please give me advices to choose another one ? I find it very complicated.. But the feeling of the cage on me is so so good.
 

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Hi everyone,
I need advices. I've bought a cage. My boyfriend is the key holder. It turns me so on, I think about sex all day long.
At first, the cage hurt my ball sack and cock. It's getting better now.
Last night was the first night my bf left the cage on me. I had a bad night. Mind full of fantasies.
I got hard a few times and when I woke up, I was hard, cock inside the cage but balls went out I don't know how.
I believe that means the ring is too big.
Also the entrance of the cage is a bit small for my cock.. the skin stays outside and I have to grab the foreskin through the cage to pull the base of my cock's skin in.
(Sorry if my English is not good.. I'm french..)
My cage is the one in attached pics.
I think I could handle a 45 mm ring but 40 is too small.
Would you please give me advices to choose another one ? I find it very complicated.. But the feeling of the cage on me is so so good.
See this video for getting you penis into it cage.
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I use a thin stocking (like panty hose) instead of a plastic bag. Which ring are you using now? The ring may not be to be anyway. The gap between the ring is quire large though. If yo reduce the gap between the ring and the cage your balls will not be able to slip through. You look hot in your cage. Have fun locked up!
 
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J'utilise un bas fin (comme un collant) au lieu d'un sac en plastique. Quelle bague utilisez-vous maintenant ? La bague ne sera peut-être pas de toute façon. L'écart entre les anneaux est cependant assez grand. Si vous réduisez l'écart entre l'anneau et la cage, vos balles ne pourront pas passer à travers. Tu as l'air sexy dans ta cage. Amusez-vous bien enfermé !
Hello and thank you very much for your answer. By now, I'm using the fourth ring, 47,6 cm.
the only one I got. I had to choose when I ordered. I will reduce the space between ring and cage. I didn't understand what was the use of the small plastic tube that was provided with it. Now I do !
do you think that I have the good cage for me ?
best regards
 
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Hello and thank you very much for your answer. By now, I'm using the fourth ring, 47,6 cm.
the only one I got. I had to choose when I ordered. I will reduce the space between ring and cage. I didn't understand what was the use of the small plastic tube that was provided with it. Now I do !
do you think that I have the good cage for me ?
best regards
It is difficult for me to say what is a good cage for you because I do not know what you and your boyfriend like. For play time, your cage should work pretty good. For extended wear, you might like a chastity device with a smaller penis tube that keeps your penis closer to your body. I like a Cobra style device. 1698748439317.png
a Holy trainer type might work well also. 1698748524272.png
I also have a couple of metal cages which are quite comfortable. 1698748599381.png
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These are low cost options available on sites like Aliexpress. Look at my gallery to see some other cages. Have fun!
 
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It is difficult for me to say what is a good cage for you because I do not know what you and your boyfriend like. For play time, your cage should work pretty good. For extended wear, you might like a chastity device with a smaller penis tube that keeps your penis closer to your body. I like a Cobra style device. View attachment 111682281 a Holy trainer type might work well also. View attachment 111682331 I also have a couple of metal cages which are quite comfortable. View attachment 111682341 View attachment 111682721

These are low cost options available on sites like Aliexpress. Look at my gallery to see some other cages. Have fun!
Hello and thank you for your answer :)
Can we use small cage wether the cock is long, short, big or small ?
The website where I bought mine explained how I had to measure my cock to be sure I chose the right cage for the size of my cock..
If it doesn't matter, can you explain why it's better to choose a small one to where it everyday ?
 
Some guys fit a large penis into a really small cage. Here are some pics of a guy who goes by KinkCaged on twitter. KC is nicely endowed and compresses his manhood into a tiny cage.
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Larger cages are more bulky under clothes so I find the smaller ones to be more comfortable. You know that getting you penis comfortably positioned in the cage can be tough. Your penis can sometimes move around in a larger cage. A smaller cage allows less movement so it may be more comfortable for you. This is why I like a smaller cage. Your preferences may be different. These are pics of me:
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Some guys fit a large penis into a really small cage. Here are some pics of a guy who goes by KinkCaged on twitter. KC is nicely endowed and compresses his manhood into a tiny cage.
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Larger cages are more bulky under clothes so I find the smaller ones to be more comfortable. You know that getting you penis comfortably positioned in the cage can be tough. Your penis can sometimes move around in a larger cage. A smaller cage allows less movement so it may be more comfortable for you. This is why I like a smaller cage. Your preferences may be different. These are pics of me:
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Oh ok, so does that mean I can choose any cage of any dimensions ? Or should I should I pay attention to the diameter at least ?
tHanks for the awesome pics
 
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Oh ok, so does that mean I can choose any cage of any dimensions ? Or should I should I pay attention to the diameter at least ?
tHanks for the awesome pics
good question. Diameter probably does matter. Most of mine are similar diameters. It may be time for you to get some cheap cages to experiment with.
 
3 days of being caged. Made love two times with my bf, two without cumming and I'm already getting crazy. I'm getting more sensitive, more adventurous. I think about sex a lot. My excitement as increased so much. I almost beg for sex and I get so obsessed with my bf's cock.
Is it getting more and more like that ? Please, share your experience.
 
Hello,
A beginner here, i receive one cage from my boyfriend, i am planning of buying the blue/green one, what do you think of them and what advice can you give for a medium thin cock?
My reasons for useing chastity cages are as follows:
1. To increase the bulge for self confidence
2. For curiosity and sexdrive stimulation
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I started to wear it this weekend for short periods, i am planning to sleep with it tonight.

Thank you in advance for your advices!
 

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Hello,
A beginner here, i receive one cage from my boyfriend, i am planning of buying the blue/green one, what do you think of them and what advice can you give for a medium thin cock?
My reasons for useing chastity cages are as follows:
1. To increase the bulge for self confidence
2. For curiosity and sexdrive stimulation
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I started to wear it this weekend for short periods, i am planning to sleep with it tonight.

Thank you in advance for your advices!

View media item 2689441For comparison this is my cock
 
Hi everyone,
I need advices. I've bought a cage. My boyfriend is the key holder. It turns me so on, I think about sex all day long.
At first, the cage hurt my ball sack and cock. It's getting better now.
Last night was the first night my bf left the cage on me. I had a bad night. Mind full of fantasies.
I got hard a few times and when I woke up, I was hard, cock inside the cage but balls went out I don't know how.
I believe that means the ring is too big.
Also the entrance of the cage is a bit small for my cock.. the skin stays outside and I have to grab the foreskin through the cage to pull the base of my cock's skin in.
(Sorry if my English is not good.. I'm french..)
My cage is the one in attached pics.
I think I could handle a 45 mm ring but 40 is too small.
Would you please give me advices to choose another one ? I find it very complicated.. But the feeling of the cage on me is so so good.
Hello
Mon problème n'est pas la cage, j'en ai de tailles différentes et je les supporte très bien, l'inconfort, voire la douleur vient de l'anneau qui entoure le sexe et les testicules, j'utilise le plus grand diamètre pourtant (50).
 
Hello guys,
I have a problem with my cage. That's me and my cage on the pic^^
Sometimes when I'm wearing it and my boyfriend uses me, I get really excited and my cock tries to get hard.
In those cases, because of the pressure one of my balls slips out of the ring, then the second follows and I'm not caged anymore. That is highly frustrating..
I tried the different size of rings but it changes nothing. Actually it's worse because smaller rings folds my ball's skin and it get really painful.
Please, if you have some advices, that would help a lot.

(Sorry if my English isn't so good..)
 

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Hello guys,
I have a problem with my cage. That's me and my cage on the pic^^
Sometimes when I'm wearing it and my boyfriend uses me, I get really excited and my cock tries to get hard.
In those cases, because of the pressure one of my balls slips out of the ring, then the second follows and I'm not caged anymore. That is highly frustrating..
I tried the different size of rings but it changes nothing. Actually it's worse because smaller rings folds my ball's skin and it get really painful.
Please, if you have some advices, that would help a lot.

(Sorry if my English isn't so good..)
As-tu pensé essayer de mettre un anneau supplémentaire (du bon diamètre) entre la cage et ton ventre ?
 
Hello guys,
I have a problem with my cage. That's me and my cage on the pic^^
Sometimes when I'm wearing it and my boyfriend uses me, I get really excited and my cock tries to get hard.
In those cases, because of the pressure one of my balls slips out of the ring, then the second follows and I'm not caged anymore. That is highly frustrating..
I tried the different size of rings but it changes nothing. Actually it's worse because smaller rings folds my ball's skin and it get really painful.
Please, if you have some advices, that would help a lot.

(Sorry if my English isn't so good..)
I would never have expected that a guy with nice big balls, like yours, to have this problem. Maybe you could wear a cock ring in addition to your cage.