Very interesting ….. glad to know there are others, straight and gay, who are curious about this …. and have acted on their curiosity. I am a straight guy in a long-distance relationship. My gf would certainly not understand or play along with the whole idea of having or wearing a chastity cage. She’d say it was “weird”. I know that because she’s previously taken that perspective regarding cock rings and ball stretchers. When I suggested that she think of them as sex toys that enhance pleasure, like her beloved vibrators, she simply says she’s not into all “that bondage stuff”. …..
In the case of the chastity cage I can understand and see her point. But I am a bit like NYSlutboy (above); I think about it as an adornment; an affectation. Certainly the idea of self-denial or “ruined” orgasms are NOT what I’m looking for! It’s more like “this will hold the beast back until it is released”!
I admit that I am inclined toward hotwife (girlfriend) and watching/sharing scenarios but I, personally can’t relate to the humiliation or stay at home while wife/girlfriend goes out on a date …. not my cup of tea.
Recently, I have seen more of these “caged hubby” scenes and images which intrigue me. The caged husband visual seems to further the notion of the wife in charge angle. The fact that almost always the husband is shaved smooth further demonstrates his submissiveness and that she and her pleasure are primary.
Anyway, I am awaiting the arrival of the cage I just bought for myself (photo attached). I’m looking forward trying it on and experiencing the look and feel. Of course, I’ll be sure to shave myself completely smooth to enhance the moment. I thought about adding a 2” chrome ball stretcher to the scene, too. We’ll see. Long story short, if I like it, I’ll keep it. If I don’t, I’ll chalk it up to an experiment & toss it.
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One thing is for sure; I won’t be able to share any of this with my gf as she would never understand or go along …… fortunately for me, she won’t question me being shaved & smooth as she made it clear from the start that this is the way she “prefers” me and I have accepted that and even learned to “prefer” that look too ……
Hmmm ….. you think SHE may have had this all in mind from the start ….. …..