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I knew of someone who was in a same-sex female marriage, but really missed the feeling of a real hard cock between her legs. She didn't seem to make it a secret that she was seeing the man who sold her her brand new tricked out Jeep. She gushed about "contactless delivery" when most everyone was out of work due to the pandemic. Then, he flirted with her by leaving little bath ducks on her big truck mirrors, and she let the World know that "she'd been ducked" on social media. It was more than that.
In the height of stay at home orders in April of 2020, there were only two trucks in the parking lot of the strip mall this lady worked at. I happened to notice since their vehicles stood out like a sore thumb as I was driving past having come from a nearly barren grocery store without being able to get TP or bottled water. As I parked my car, I could hear loud moans of pleasure coming from the closed store. She was getting railed by Mr. Jeep seller, and her wife would have no idea. He had some major stamina. I knew he was a hung stud since I'd seen him in the gym showers a time or two. He really had it going on everywhere. She later broke up with her wife, and I'm presuming that she gets "ducked" all the time these days.
In the height of stay at home orders in April of 2020, there were only two trucks in the parking lot of the strip mall this lady worked at. I happened to notice since their vehicles stood out like a sore thumb as I was driving past having come from a nearly barren grocery store without being able to get TP or bottled water. As I parked my car, I could hear loud moans of pleasure coming from the closed store. She was getting railed by Mr. Jeep seller, and her wife would have no idea. He had some major stamina. I knew he was a hung stud since I'd seen him in the gym showers a time or two. He really had it going on everywhere. She later broke up with her wife, and I'm presuming that she gets "ducked" all the time these days.
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About a year after my wife broke up with her high school boyfriend my wife's sister fucked him for a few months when my wife was at college.
Fast forward 12 years and my wife's sister is in a committed relationship with another woman. She came down to visit her parents one day and ran into my wife's exboyfriend and spent a few hours at his place. After that she would meet him a few times a year. When we found out about it she said he was the only man who had ever given her an orgasm, and there was nothing ever that felt like the feeling of his "huge cock just stretching her in every direction"
Fast forward 12 years and my wife's sister is in a committed relationship with another woman. She came down to visit her parents one day and ran into my wife's exboyfriend and spent a few hours at his place. After that she would meet him a few times a year. When we found out about it she said he was the only man who had ever given her an orgasm, and there was nothing ever that felt like the feeling of his "huge cock just stretching her in every direction"
Nothing juicy or amusing about betraying a partner's trust.
Cheating is shit.
People who do it may think they're being cute, or getting away with something. Hell some may even feel really fucking guilty (as they should).
There's no excuses. If you can't be honest with a partner, don't be in relationships.
People who do it may think they're being cute, or getting away with something. Hell some may even feel really fucking guilty (as they should).
There's no excuses. If you can't be honest with a partner, don't be in relationships.
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Lots of talk about cheaters being terrible and betraying trust, and for the most part that is true and not something people find sexy. But, in a less than serious relationship I had with a now ex girlfriend, she cheated on me regularly and got caught early on in the relationship. We had a talk about it one night after she had been caught out and we came to an agreement that I would turn a blind eye to her activities and give her space and time to see other men and we just act like normal and never mention it. We were together 4 more years after that
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Our species doesn't instinctually form exclusive lifetime pair bonds or even long term ones. If it did there would be no need for the taboo of death penalty for adultery, fornication or homosexual activity in world religions.
There are adaptive advantages for both sexes to "cheat." Most important is not to have all your eggs in one basket genetically.
There are adaptive advantages for pair bonds which last long enough to raise children to adulthood. Cheating doesn't always interfere with that.
Our biology isn't wrong or immoral. Our religions are. It's one more way religion poisons everything.
It never ceases to amaze me when members of a porn site moralize about cheating... especially when a pro-slavery religious figure like Jesus turned it into a thought crime.
There are adaptive advantages for both sexes to "cheat." Most important is not to have all your eggs in one basket genetically.
There are adaptive advantages for pair bonds which last long enough to raise children to adulthood. Cheating doesn't always interfere with that.
Our biology isn't wrong or immoral. Our religions are. It's one more way religion poisons everything.
It never ceases to amaze me when members of a porn site moralize about cheating... especially when a pro-slavery religious figure like Jesus turned it into a thought crime.
Exactly why we weren’t bothered about my girlfriend cheating. It wasn’t hurting anyone, so why wouldn’t we be okOur species doesn't instinctually form exclusive lifetime pair bonds or even long term ones. If it did there would be no need for the taboo of death penalty for adultery, fornication or homosexual activity in world religions.
There are adaptive advantages for both sexes to "cheat." Most important is not to have all your eggs in one basket genetically.
There are adaptive advantages for pair bonds which last long enough to raise children to adulthood. Cheating doesn't always interfere with that.
Our biology isn't wrong or immoral. Our religions are. It's one more way religion poisons everything.
It never ceases to amaze me when members of a porn site moralize about cheating... especially when a pro-slavery religious figure like Jesus turned it into a thought crime.
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Yes, but did you know about her infidelity? If you know and approve of her actions it isn't really cheating is it?
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To start with no. And when I did and we talked about it we agreed that she would continue and I wouldn’t do anything about it. She called it cheating and I still saw it as cheating
You're very understanding.
My guy has cheated on me in the past, we moved on and I couldn't be happier. So my original post comes off very black and white, but it's not. I do think people who cheat and lie should just not be in monogamous relationships, but I also realize that isn't the way things are or will likely ever be.
This is why my guy and I regularly touch base about this. We know that there may come a point where monogamy doesn't work anymore for one or both of us, so we communicate about it and understand that if things do change it doesn't take away the love we have for one another. If that's the case, it's not cheating. For us, cheating is anything you wouldn't tell your partner about being with someone else. Even if it's just a flirtatious relationship with no physical contact, we tell each other.
I have been hurt by cheating before though, to share a different perspective.
I can't get pregnant. When he cheated, she got pregnant. I wasn't just "jealous", it broke me because it was so much more than sex. Another human being exists because of his lie. I still forgave him, but it didn't "hurt no one". I'm still devastated about the fact that she has his baby and I can't. Ever.
That and there's the potential for cheaters to spread STI's to their unknowing partner. So, it can and does hurt people sometimes.
It never ceases to amaze me when members of a porn site moralize about cheating... especially when a pro-slavery religious figure like Jesus turned it into a thought crime.
I don't think non-monogamy is "wrong". Lying is.
I'm as atheist as you will ever find. My "morals" don't come from fuckin Jesus. Mkay?
Have a day.
Yeah, wanna hear a funny story? LOL! I got married when I was 18. Got pregnant on my honeymoon. I wasn't 19 before I was a mother. And he was a motherf.... He didn't sleep with me again until after the baby was born. He said he was afraid it would hurt the baby or some bullshit like that.
There's no horny like pregnant horny. But I was a good girl. I shouldn't have worried about him going without sex because he didn't. Nope. At least he waited till the second trimester, I think it was.
He finally left when the baby was almost two.
And here's the funniest part: my friends knew about this and thought I did too! Haha! How's that for juicy? Or stupidity? I dunno. Yeah, I needed new friends anyway.
There's no horny like pregnant horny. But I was a good girl. I shouldn't have worried about him going without sex because he didn't. Nope. At least he waited till the second trimester, I think it was.
He finally left when the baby was almost two.
And here's the funniest part: my friends knew about this and thought I did too! Haha! How's that for juicy? Or stupidity? I dunno. Yeah, I needed new friends anyway.
It can definitely be painful and hurt a lot, especially if you really love the person that is cheating on you. I’m sorry to hear you were hurt like this.
I was lucky that my girlfriend and me were more good friends than in love, and although we had a good time as a couple we never had a tight bond between us, and I don’t really get jealous, which she knew. The only issue we had was if she caught something and passed it on to me, but that was easily sorted when the day offer we discussed it she gave me a box of condoms that she had gift wrapped for me
The problem is, in almost every case, somebody gets hurt.
The reasons can be different, but the betrayal is universal , even in an "open" relationship.
Just wait the thread is young.
The reasons can be different, but the betrayal is universal , even in an "open" relationship.
Just wait the thread is young.
My only justifications for cheating are, my ex cheated on me 1st...and the girl I ended up cheating on her with, we'll be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary this year. So cheating...but with noble purpose I guess...lol
2 wrongs don't make a "right".
Noble my fucking ass. Especially after the way you talk about her in other areas of the site.
"Boo hoo I don't get as much sex as I want so I cheat on my partner then act like it's justified because I'm too much of a piece of literal shit to just be honest about my needs... Everyone please feel sorry for me!"
Nah. I don't feel bad for anyone who can't just control themselves or break up with someone who isn't satisfying their needs.
Get over yourself.
Nah. I don't feel bad for anyone who can't just control themselves or break up with someone who isn't satisfying their needs.
Get over yourself.
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