Cleverly disguised manipulation...

[Tattooed Goddess]

Cleverly disguised manipulation to get you to provide fap material for a guy. I used to fall for this constantly because I wouldn't dream of doing it to someone else so I never presumed people were doing it to me. I often keep my LPSG inbox 100% full so people can't send me private messages because a majority of them are just ways to get me to provide fetishy material for them to jack off to. I also don't accept private messages in the chatroom because it inevitably turns into this. It never fails that a guy who is simply "seeking relationship advice" is really just wanting reassurance that his penis turns women on, turns you on and you must tell him all about it so it can turn him on.

The most elaborate scheme I've experienced more than once is the guy who wants your permission to write erotica based on your persona only to expect you "fill in the story line" for him so he can stroke his cock.

It doesn't sound like that big of a deal but when you have these situations arise frequently, it makes one want to close all options to be privately contacted. I don't like being manipulated and I don't like having my time wasted simply because someone thinks I should be responsible for HIS orgasm.

 

[Hand_Solo]

Funny you should mention that. I have these fill-in-the-blank stories called Mademoiselle Libs (Mad Libs for short) and I was wondering if you'd fill some of them out for me for uh, research purposes.

 

[SilverTrain]

Cleverly disguised manipulation to get you to provide fap material for a guy. I used to fall for this constantly because I wouldn't dream of doing it to someone else so I never presumed people were doing it to me. I often keep my LPSG inbox 100% full so people can't send me private messages because a majority of them are just ways to get me to provide fetishy material for them to jack off to. I also don't accept private messages in the chatroom because it inevitably turns into this. It never fails that a guy who is simply "seeking relationship advice" is really just wanting reassurance that his penis turns women on, turns you on and you must tell him all about it so it can turn him on.

The most elaborate scheme I've experienced more than once is the guy who wants your permission to write erotica based on your persona only to expect you "fill in the story line" for him so he can stroke his cock.

It doesn't sound like that big of a deal but when you have these situations arise frequently, it makes one want to close all options to be privately contacted. I don't like being manipulated and I don't like having my time wasted simply because someone thinks I should be responsible for HIS orgasm.

It's the burden of being a hellacious sexpot. :tongue:

Speaking as someone who's wanked to your pics and your chat-cam numerous times!!!

But seriously, I imagine it would really suck being hit up for fodder all the time. I will send anti-FodderFool vibes out into the ether.

 

[Daisy]

Funny you should mention that. I have these fill-in-the-blank stories called Mademoiselle Libs (Mad Libs for short) and I was wondering if you'd fill some of them out for me for uh, research purposes.

OMG dude you kill me~!:tongue:

 

[petite]

Funny you should mention that. I have these fill-in-the-blank stories called Mademoiselle Libs (Mad Libs for short) and I was wondering if you'd fill some of them out for me for uh, research purposes.

Now I really want that.

 

[petite]

I also don't accept private messages in the chatroom because it inevitably turns into this. It never fails that a guy who is simply "seeking relationship advice" is really just wanting reassurance that his penis turns women on, turns you on and you must tell him all about it so it can turn him on.

This has happened to me a lot, both in the chat room and via PM. When I was new, I was more patient about it, but I have to admit, I just hit delete now. I don't even bother to respond. Sometimes I keep the message so I can remember who that person was, which is a really inefficient method of record keeping that has contributed to the clogging up of my inbox.* I really ought to develop another method.


*Not a metaphor for my vajajay

 

[Enid]

This happened to me, too. Some guy sent me a half-finished erotic story inspired by me so he says, asking me to finish it for him. Clever, indeed. Nearly fell for it, but then I was still naive here. Thankfully I wised up. I delete delete delete now.

 

[LaFemme]

I've been sent erotic stories on occasion. Only on one occasion did it work - it led to a year and a half relationship with a real person. It was a really good story! And I still miss him.

As to the other ones? Poorly written, grammatically incorrect & boring. Delete, delete, delete. In addition to the poorly written prose, I could tell the story was probably the only one the guy had and he had probably circulated it to several other women. Yup - really made me feel special.

 

[EllieP]

Wow, my life is boring! I only get called upon in my professional capacity of penile categorization.

But I would so want a copy of MR Libs!!!

 

[rob_just_rob]

I never even considered this, probably because I'm pretty sure I write better porn than you lot do.:biggrin1:

 

[1kmb1]

seems like a lot of work just to get your rocks off...

 

[B_Bjen2848]

don't these guys realize that if they use the same effort that they use to creep on a couple random lpsg profiles as they did to actually making themselves presentable to real women in the real world, they would get laid?

 

[willow78]

As to the other ones? Poorly written, grammatically incorrect & boring.

Really? I thought my "Mrs Fingers' Prison For Naughty Ladies" was Pulitzer-worthy.

Oh well - at least it's still Pullhimself-worthy.....

:tongue: :biggrin1: :smile:

 

[LaFemme]

Really? I thought my "Mrs Fingers' Prison For Naughty Ladies" was Pulitzer-worthy.

Oh well - at least it's still Pullhimself-worthy.....

:tongue: :biggrin1: :smile:

You is funny! :rofl:

 

[NC_BBC]

seems like a lot of work just to get your rocks off...

Dude...most men (gay or straight) put forth more effort in the quest for sexual gratification than they would for water in a desert.

*Insert reference to the "monkey and the orgasm button" experiment

 

[NC_BBC]

Cleverly disguised manipulation to get you to provide fap material for a guy. I used to fall for this constantly because I wouldn't dream of doing it to someone else so I never presumed people were doing it to me. I often keep my LPSG inbox 100% full so people can't send me private messages because a majority of them are just ways to get me to provide fetishy material for them to jack off to. I also don't accept private messages in the chatroom because it inevitably turns into this. It never fails that a guy who is simply "seeking relationship advice" is really just wanting reassurance that his penis turns women on, turns you on and you must tell him all about it so it can turn him on.

The most elaborate scheme I've experienced more than once is the guy who wants your permission to write erotica based on your persona only to expect you "fill in the story line" for him so he can stroke his cock.

It doesn't sound like that big of a deal but when you have these situations arise frequently, it makes one want to close all options to be privately contacted. I don't like being manipulated and I don't like having my time wasted simply because someone thinks I should be responsible for HIS orgasm.

Sounds like total bullshit, I know, but I apologize on behalf of my gender.

:rant: I ALWAYS feel the need to do this because ASSHOLES like this are running rampant and completely turning women off to men all together. I know that's a little blown out of proportion but still, you get what I'm saying. Wish I possessed Micky Lee's ability to map out the fall of the human race from this...but alas I lack Mickey's talent.

Literally, like 70% of the lesbians I know, when asked, tell me they became lesbians because they were just tired of dealing with guys and their bullshit.

And I know online it's magnified to ridiculous proportions because the barrier the internet puts up gives normal, everyday, shy assholes the gall/balls to be outwardly spoken pricks. Which leads women to pretty much "retreat" into hiding...which leads to (http://www.lpsg.org/301628-lpsg-only-a-gay-forum.html). Ughhh!! It's fucking frustrating.

And I'm not gonna pretend like I have to deal with it or anything, I'm just saying...it's aggravating to watch or hear about!

 

[LisaMarie]

The thing that sucks is that because of a few pushy, overly -aggressive men, I feel limited in how much I can participate here.

I'm afraid to add friends (haven't added anyone yet) because I'm not sure what that means? Like if you will get stuck in private chat hell or something? Kind of a bummer. Makes me feel sort of anti-social or stuck up for lack of a better word.

I'm not all that eager to post my pics to be honest. I'm afraid once I do, the aggressive pushy guys will get aggressive and pushy...

Kinda sucks. Wasn't really sure what to do tho?

 

[NC_BBC]

The thing that sucks is that because of a few pushy, overly -aggressive men, I feel limited in how much I can participate here.

I'm afraid to add friends (haven't added anyone yet) because I'm not sure what that means? Like if you will get stuck in private chat hell or something? Kind of a bummer. Makes me feel sort of anti-social or stuck up for lack of a better word.

I'm not all that eager to post my pics to be honest. I'm afraid once I do, the aggressive pushy guys will get aggressive and pushy...

Kinda sucks. Wasn't really sure what to do tho?

EXXXXXACTLY!!!

And it's usually all the pushy idiots ass'ing up the forum with ":thinking:Where's all the women" threads.

 

[B_Bjen2848]

just ignore em

 

[molotovmuffin]

The thing that sucks is that because of a few pushy, overly -aggressive men, I feel limited in how much I can participate here.

I'm afraid to add friends (haven't added anyone yet) because I'm not sure what that means? Like if you will get stuck in private chat hell or something? Kind of a bummer. Makes me feel sort of anti-social or stuck up for lack of a better word.

I'm not all that eager to post my pics to be honest. I'm afraid once I do, the aggressive pushy guys will get aggressive and pushy...

Kinda sucks. Wasn't really sure what to do tho?

Just because you friend someone doesn't mean you have to keep them as friends. If an asshat makes their way on your list, just delete them.

Your gut instinct will lead you well...just pay attention and don't be afraid to report anything that is uncomfortable to you and just so you know, the ignore feature is a wonderful tool.