Cold Clammy Hands?

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  1. earllogjam

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    I find them a turn off. What say you?

    I'm wondering if it's a temporary condition of if you have them you've always had them.
     
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    My mother has always said, "Cold hands - warm heart". Personally, I just rub my hands together.
     
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    Cold is a turn on to me, as is warm. The temp difference excites me.

    Clammy or sweaty hands gets a "oh god he's sick!" and me going into mothering mode. Sweaty has me saying "eew. hes probably nervous, i will discreetely wipe the sweat off"

    My grandmother always said that as well, MoT! You have ta imagine it with a Lousianna accent though:smile:
     
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    Someone with constantly cold hands won't likely have clammy hands too. That's from nerves. Nerves are temporary.
     
  5. earllogjam

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    MoT?

    Nothing worse than the feel of two cold clammy hands gripping your shaft. It has all the sexual charge of being medically examined by Richard Simmons in rubber gloves.

    I had a massage therapist once with cold clammy hands and after 5 minutes I just told her that it wasn't working out, sorry, and I got dressed and left in disgust. Why would you decide to become a massage therapist if you were unfortunate to be born with cold clammy hands?
     
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    One of my teacher used to say the same thing about clammy hands and what not.

    As for me, I do have clammy, cold hands.

    I always have. I mean they aren't like that ALL the time, just most of the time. It's because the blood circulation to my hands is kind shitty and I have an anxiety issue, so that attributes too.

    If sex is involved I have no problem warming my hands up before the fun starts.

    BTW, this is something a lot of people can't help, and it's such a normal factor in their life they forget sometimes. Is that really a reason to be disgusted?

    She was stupid maybe... but disgusting?

    That makes me feel like you think I'm gross because my hands are cold.
     
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  7. earllogjam

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    I suppose as the sex gets underway the circulation improves and those hands become hot little fuckers. There is always sweat during sex for me so the wetness is not a problem.
     
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    Hehe, that's usually the case.

    Some people aren't into foreplay though. >.>

    Go figure.
     
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    My hands are usually very warm, and dry. I put my palms together, and rest them between my thighs sometimes when I sit. If my hands are moist, oily, or scratchy, I warn the person I am about to touch. I need to remember to hold beverages in my left hand. It seems it is inevitable that if I hold a drink, I will have to shake someone's hand.
     
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    A very good friend of mine suffered from this in school... I think it was social anxiety. He grew out of it. Eek a massage therapist with cold clammy hands that skeeves me even thinking about it.
     
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    That's me, just so you know. ManofThunder. :smile:
     
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    I either don't know the meaning of 'clammy' or I had no idea hands could be cold and clammy at the same time! Thought clamminess came from being hot and sweaty?
     
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    I thought clammy was cold and sweaty? There is definitely moisture involved, I know that much. :tongue:
     
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    I normally have warm, damp'ish palms. It's not from anxiety or anything like it... just the way I have always been.

    It can make me self-conscious at times though, which kind of sucks :squint:
     
  15. earllogjam

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    I'm into foreplay so no problem here.:wink:

    Ah, MoT, Man of Thunder, I get it.

    Not the sharpest tool in the shed here. :redface:
     
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    Oh, don't be silly. You are definitely with the sharper tools. I didn't even know what they were talking about at first - when I was first called 'MoT', I was more than a little confused. :smile:
     
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    Yeah I just didn't know you could get moist hands from anything other than sweat, which I only get when hot.
     
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    Haven't you ever woken up in a cold-sweat after a nightmare? You feel cold, but you are sticky. I know what you mean, though. Nightmare-wise, it's usually the case that you're warm but feel cold - much like when you're ill.
     
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    My hands are almost always ice cold and sweaty as hell.

    Definition of Clamminess:

    Disagreeably moist, sticky, and cold to the touch: a clammy handshake. 2. Damp and unpleasant: clammy weather.
     
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    Yep, lots of sharp hoes here. :tongue:
     
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