Complaints for being too big.

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Has anyone ever complained/rejected penetration from you because you were too big? If so, how big are you and what percentage of the time?

Giving examples of this welcome too.
 
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More frequent for me is 'i'm getting sore', and hearing that we need to stop about halfway through.

Also had a few blowjobs that were either too much teeth, or more of a hand job with lip support.

But once, i was greeted with a wide eyed jump back to the other side of the couch and 'that's not normal'
 
In this scene:

Straight studs butthole gets violated by the Gay Mafia in the paint shop

Hayden the self-sucker saw me stroking my erection in preparation for penetration and said: "That thing is not going inside of me!"

Here he is holding onto my massiveness.

On the positive side, Connor McGuire saw me working it up for a fuck during what is probably one of my last porn scenes now that the industry has fled California for condom-free Nevada and said "Damn, that's one big fucking dick!"

Always gratifying to out-class the porn stars on set in the large penis department.
 
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yes, several years ago a very big hairy muscular guy hit on me, very much wanted to hook up. How big I was, etc- lots of pawing, panting, he couldn't wait to get fucked (one big turn off, when you go to get a condom and the other person says "I don't care..." (shudder).

So I get greased up, this man is VERY hot, sweating, grunting...sexy as hell, Begging for it....furry muscular ass up in the air winking and hungry. I line up, ease the head in and start to nudge...next thing I know he turns into a blubbering 3 year old "Stop! Stop! it hurts! No more! no more! crying...major turn off, to the point I lost my erection, I pulled off the condom, got dressed and left. Ugh. (yes he was good looking but he was the one that came onto me...etc...etc...) ugh
 
I just got a complaint sort of the other day! The girl I was talking to somehow had brought up an 8 inch dildo her friend had just gotten. Her exact words were "8 inches seems like WAY too big though... how does that even fit?" and I replied deflecting the comment because I don't go around yelling that I'm 8 inches and I simply said oh really. She replied "TOO much." haha Maybe I'll end up having sex with her or maybe it really will be too much for her.
 
Well many moons ago, I had a few bleeding virgins who couldn't take it anymore. But that's as close as I get. Today they probably would say, "Hmmm, I thought it was bigger than that." LOL
 
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Has anyone ever complained/rejected penetration from you because you were too big?
Giving examples of this welcome too.

It happened last night.

I was cruising on Clapham Common and a very good looking young guy came over as I stood next to bicycle under a tree.
I waited until he got really close and pulled out a big semi, his jaw slackened and he held out his hand.
I let him hold it and lift it up to have a better look hoping he would drop to his knees, but he just held it in his hand and said 'What could I do with that ?' and before I could reply added, 'I'm sorry mate but it's too big for me.' letting go of it and walking off.
The next guy had a different approach.

It doesn't happen to me very often, fortunately.
 
It happened last night.

I was cruising on Clapham Common and a very good looking young guy came over as I stood next to bicycle under a tree.
I waited until he got really close and pulled out a big semi, his jaw slackened and he held out his hand.
I let him hold it and lift it up to have a better look hoping he would drop to his knees, but he just held it in his hand and said 'What could I do with that ?' and before I could reply added, 'I'm sorry mate but it's too big for me.' letting go of it and walking off.
The next guy had a different approach.

It doesn't happen to me very often, fortunately.

What a fool! "What am I supposed to do with that?!" What WOULDN'T I do with that!:biggrin1:
 
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two asian girls last year. one after she saw ti jsut said no it's way too big. and we are just friends now. the toher one jsut wanted to suck it but when i put it in ,the second i went past halfway, she said it was way too much for her and went back to fooling arounbd.. asian girls are so small
 
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Only a very few complaints. Mostly those were from women/girls who were professionals. As I got undressed, they objected. A couple actually refused. My explanation is that pros don't get as physically aroused, and some girls who are small to begin with don't want the exertion of stretching themselves. The sensations are less important than an easier trick.

I had a few size problems when I was younger, helping my friends (girls) lose their virginity, and being with a lot of less experienced girls. Mostly that had to do with having to use a latex condom. When I am bare, or with a natural skin condom, my foreskin helps ease the stretching of the vagina, and eliminates most soreness.

Over my life, I have heard, "wow, I don't know if I can take that," quite a bit at first, but we get past that to all the pleasure it gives.
 
Wed night, I went on a date.
She decided I'd be much better, both age-wise, and size-wise dating her (recently single) mother.

Sadly, bar we were supposed to have been meeting at was closed since beginning of month, and 40 below is just too damned cold to wait outside :(

7.5+ girth tends to be much too much to get blowjobs, penetration seems near-impossible except for women who've had kids, and are aroused.
 
never a refusal....just a "be gentle" which I try to be.
I seem to be lucky the girls I am with seems to like my cock.
 
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In a sense, I was rejected twice in the last few weeks because of the girth of my dick. One guy who was really excited about the size of my dick, had to stop fucking after about one minute because it was too painful. More recently another guy really struggled to take it. He was on top and, therefore, in control but after 5 minutes he also had to quit it because of pain. Both of these guys had been around the block quite a few times, so being fucked was nothing new to them. So, yeah, a big dick can be a problem. I suspect a vagina can take a fat dick more easily than an anus/rectum can.
 
Yes, one of my best friends, in fact. We're both pretty free sexually and were getting hot and heavy, but she would not go for it with me because she thought I was too big and it wouldn't feel good, according to her. I was actually pretty hurt by that for a while, but I respected her opinion and it didn't really affect our relationship. Still, I am kind of upset about it even years later!
 
Almost all women are too scared to try anal with me. Women who think they have small pussies tend to say there's no way they will be able to take my cock, but want to try. In those cases, it takes some work and practice, but they can almost always learn to take it just fine with time.