Confused, What Do Think!

So we keep trading nudes! Anyway jsut asked if he liked getting nudes from everyone or people he liked. He said people in common then he said more from people he liked.
I asked if i was common
He said liek top 3. 1 is gf then 2 is school mate but we are tied top 2.
I said ill take top 3, then said reckon i can knock off gf, just kidding.
He said yeah maybe, ya just never know.

Thats where he last was active.
I replied lol so am high is your advice but he hasnt seen it.

I sent 1 or 2 nudes on messenger
Then asked should i stop sending,
Maybe on messenger yes but snap, no sir! I asked does he like em amd he said sure do.

Love people commenting and giving their thoughtz. Total new territory for me so any advice is welcome.
 
Well side on and he sent a side on of it.

Things kinda a bit weird. I called him out for alwasy saying something then not doing it and it pisses me off. Then had a bit of bit used amd im trying really hard in the friendship but he takes for granted.
He asked is he not sending after nudes and shoukd he send more. I just said its not about the nudes about the effort i guess.
He says he wants to work harder for the friendship to be more than just messenger chatting and seeing at footy. Also said he needs me alot more than i think. A lot more than i think.
So many mixed messages, he says he wants the nudes amd he likes them amd wants them, then saying doesnt bother him.
Im just gonna not send nudes and just chat normal
 
He might have been even confused himself and doesn't know what's good to say.
Maybe just trying to cover the fact that he's very much into the nude photos between you guys. Don't stop it - he told you he likes/needs you more than you think, that means a lot already.
Show him a full view of your ass and see how he reacts.
 
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Okay so i sent a pic of shower amd said shower time.
He said what a site it is and making me keen.
I said for what shower or dodgy(nude)
He said both.
I said well havent sent any dodgys
He said all good
I siad well you never said if you wanted em haha
He said im not fussed but some will be heading your way way tonight x
I pushed the answer and said well you either do or you dont want them haha
He said well i dont want to sound needy thats all.
I siad haha you dont, if you want them just say yes and ill send.
He then said well about to shower amd somethine about been disturbed.
I said haha you never said yes or no if you wanted dodgys from me. Winky tongue out emoji.
He sent thumbs up emoji and said yes.

Then sent about 4 different nudes.

Like fuck its so confusing haha. On saturday we were talking about bdays and he said i beat i sent a nice paragraph. Which all he sent was happy bday legend. So he said fuck thats shit and bad, im gonna send you a proper one so he sent such a sweet message saying i mean more to him than he knows and love you heaps man. Which is more friends like lol
 
I'd just let him take the lead on this one. Trading photos might be as far as he wants to go. On the other hand he might want something real once you guys can meet up. I'd just limit my expectations if I were you, just so you don't get hurt. And then in the meantime just enjoy the situation for what it is! Wish I'd had a straight friend that sent me nudes!
 
I pretended to be annoyed, and he apologised again and again.

I'd suggest you not to do this anymore.

This whole story reminds me of mine. But without nudes involved.
And here we are... He has a gf and I am after so many years still heartbroken...

But I hope that you are more lucky and that two will end up together. :heart:
 
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Am I the only one waiting to see the pictures you're reading???
 
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I'd suggest you not to do this anymore.

This whole story reminds me of mine. But without nudes involved.
And here we are... He has a gf and I am after so many years still heartbroken...

But I hope that you are more lucky and that two will end up together. :heart:

Oh, the thing is we are at a point if im truly upset ill tel, him whats bothering me amd him likewise. It was a once of joke
 
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Showers are like normal, you get naked u shower, have some banter and drink piss. Guys are alright. Never gotten a boner in there but it doenst habe that energy if ya get what i mean. Obvs hot guys to see naked but like i said never gotten a boner from it haha

Plus this one wants to keep trading nudes so cant complain haha
 
This is thread is better than any Netflix show Im watching lol So my take on it is that you are both young, exploring shit, testing the waters. You are sorta falling for the guy because obviously he is a good guy, fun, good to talk to etc..but there is the attraction so its the classic friend vs more argument.

The great thing man is that you don't have to rush it, just let it play out and see what happens. You dont need an answer right now or right away. He has a GF but we all know how that goes when you are young..you date, you fight, you break up you get back together. Just dont push too much, see it through....take his cues on where to go with the pics, the vids etc. Basically dude he will dictate what you should be doing. Speaking from experience...if it moves on to something more..thats fcking awesome. But if it doesnt...what is his friendship worth to you? If its all just been some fun cool experimenting on his part...will you be cool with just being friends and teammates? With teammates especially, there is always one you feel connected to more than others, with chats, with nudity, secrets etc. Thats part of it all

Sending nudes and dick pics are part turn on, but also part ego...for both sides. I mean gay or bi or straight..if you send a pic of your bod or your dick and the other person is liking it...then that feeds our ego.

My longed winded meaning? Just go with the flow man, take his cues...but dont lose the friendship over it.

and keep us updated because its fucking an awesome thread lol
 
Yeah, though it kinda went out window haha.

So all day was a bit of a fight about things we got back to normal. We then went for a run at 3 together. I did a little strip and singing of song vid and sent as a saved vid on snap. He sent one back. We did the run and were sitting talking when two other footy blokes show up. He wasnt wearing undies,, he doesnt when running so could see his dick outline clearly. When sittimg could see up shorts and see his balls. I started throwing shit down shorts. He noticed and said can u see. I saod yea but nothing havent seen he laughed amd said yeah. We went for a walk across oval but two others were talking to him. I started to walk off amd he said bye to them so could catch up.
I went behind the shed to chuck a piss but made sure i faced his way, he saw looked away amd walked away but came back and looked while i was finisheing off. Then climbed the scoreboard where i was very drunk and had a fun day last year. We remincised. He was standing on bottom. I got my dick out a few times for a laugh. He laughed. Then walked back across the oval. Other people rocking up so talked to them for a while before they started their run. Then went to leave amd chatted more in carpark. I whipped out the dick again amd said real life dodgy. He said how long u standing with that out and then got his dick out to show. Then as leaving showed dick again and he whipped his out again.

Went home and had a shower he sent a saved vid of him stripping and dancing to all star. I saved it to camera amd he didnt say anything. Sent some more shower nudes. I sent a cumming vid but like an aerial with whole body amd cummingg face. He said he loved it lol and even reviewed it when i jokingly asked. We then have been send little 30 second vids most of the night, 19 vids in total just talking but always ending with a dick shot. He sent one of him naked in bed going over his sore spots as he was completely naked so very good view of dick.

So all in all a lot of nudes been sent but also a lot of sharing stories which he loves, the nuff.