Controversial Sexual Opinions

[halcyondays]

Not gross per se, but definitely concerning and prone to abuses and victimization.
Sexually liberated adults whose liberation expresses itself in such a manner is worthy of concern

Meaning what? What such manners do you consider worthy of concern?

You continue:

even if many are content to rest upon the haunches of legality.

Are you suggesting that adults cannot freely express their attraction for one another? Flirt? Ask for dates? Invite to bed? That free speech isn't legal?

Are you suggesting that teen adults aren't capable of consenting to or rejecting other adults?

 

[pecsnass]

I agree. Also middle aged men listing after teens (18 & 19) is totally gross

What about being 30 years old and love seeing middle aged/old men with 18/19 year olds / young men (I loved it ever since I started watching porn in my teens actually)? Gay porn needs more of it's version of Oldje and Ron Jeremy.

 

[Sagittarius84]

Meaning what? What such manners do you consider worthy of concern?

The fact that I have children, and thus is something that could be affecting me personally in a few yrs, not too mention the consistent power/privilege disparity that tends to exist is all manners of may/december relationships, particularly in cases where one party, though a legal adult, is a fucking teenager.

Are you suggesting that adults cannot freely express their attraction for one another? Flirt? Ask for dates? Invite to bed? That free speech isn't legal?

Are you suggesting that teen adults aren't capable of consenting to or rejecting other adults?

I think youre grasping at strawmen. Yes Im pretty sure you can anecdotally point to teen adult/adult adult relationships that have turned out externally just fine, I could probably point to just as many bosses that non predatorily dated and then married their subordinates; it doesnt eliminate them from being a fertile breeding ground for abuses and thus worthy of more caution and restraint than usual.
Its not really the attraction though, that I find issue with, I get that is largely an involuntary thing, and ok to be indulged upon for self pleasure/masturbatory purposes, but I think you'll be hard pressed to find it put in real world action in a non predatory or non self deprecating manner for either party involved specifically when one party is a teenager and the other is an adult. Somebody is taking advantage of the other or is compensating for something by facilitating the other to take advantage.

Relax...nobodys passing out torches to the townfolk...just understand if you happen to be one of these aged individuals that is inexplicably drawn to teenaged adults for their relationship and sexual needs the scrutiny you're prone to face from that child's support system may change your mind.

 

[halcyondays]

The fact that I have children, and thus is something that could be affecting me personally in a few yrs, not too mention the consistent power/privilege disparity that tends to exist is all manners of may/december relationships, particularly in cases where one party, though a legal adult, is a fucking teenager.

What egregious ageism!

lol.. looks like you're the one who needs to relax

I'll wager you fear for your teen adult children because you remember what you were like when you were one!

 

[Sagittarius84]

I'll wager you fear for your teen adult children because you remember what you were like when you were one!

Gullible, unaccustomed to the world, seeking validation and security, or feeling entitled to privilege and means beyond the reach of myself or my like aged peers?
You are absolutely correct in my assessment of teen adults being either prone to putting themselves in situations where they are either victims or victimizers, and it behooving adults to to not pursue such relationships.

 

[Sagittarius84]

A more modern controversial sexual opinion: I do not care at all for the LGBT-shipping of heterosexual fictional characters. I don't really complain about it all that often because I do recognize it comes from a lack of LGBT characters present in media, so it makes sense those whom identify as such would create representation where there is none...
But I think it stigmatizes(and fetishizes) healthy hetero behaviors, particularly male friendships and emotional vulnerabilities as homoerotic in nature, instead of allowing them to be healthy representations of positive heterosexuality; examples to be followed.

 

[witoutit]

I hate fake boobs and condoms.

 

[HorseHung40's]

I believe that Don.*ld Tr*.mp never brought any of his wives to an orgasm.

 

[9038421]

I believe that Don.*ld Tr*.mp never brought any of his wives to an orgasm.

With those hand movements and that vicious tongue he made their legs tremble and scream, oh that was in disgust not orgasm. Yes you’re correct!

 

[Edgemaster]

Gay porn is so boring compared to straight porn. I think straight porn caters to a much wider variety of fetishes and ages, whereas gay porn is basically just jocks or twinks doing something with a giant cock.

 

[deleted817718]

Gay porn is so boring compared to straight porn. I think straight porn caters to a much wider variety of fetishes and ages, whereas gay porn is basically just jocks or twinks doing something with a giant cock.

Gay porn does have one major advantage over straight porn, it has gay sex! Which is always hot to watch

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Do you know anyone who marries or vows to be monogamous for a specific period of time after which the couple can/will split? A decade? Two? Three? I don't.

Every marriage vow I've ever heard is till death do us part.

Those who eschew traditional vows to write their own and leave out its duration have not chosen a time. Are they avoiding the question? Leaving it wide open? Kicking the can down the road? Expecting it to last a lifetime without communicating it?

Would you chose to live in a committed relationship with that uncertainty? Or would you, like many, walk up the aisle with a list of reasons you'll divorce in your mind before speaking a lifetime vow already knowing the conditions under which you'll violate your vow and bail?

death do you part is Xtian.
While the assumption is that a couple, even in polygamous cultures, will remain married, it isn’t always in the vows.
In both Islam and Judaism, the emphasis is on a contract.
In the original, traditional Judaism, the only recitation that isn’t a blessing/prayer is “behold, you are consecrated to me by this ring according to the laws of Moses and Israel.”

In Islam, there are no required vows, only the contract, although it can preclude the man from taking additional wives, and when the bride is young, give an age at which the marriage may be consummated.

 

[seventiesdemon]

death do you part is Xtian.
While the assumption is that a couple, even in polygamous cultures, will remain married, it isn’t always in the vows.
In both Islam and Judaism, the emphasis is on a contract.
In the original, traditional Judaism, the only recitation that isn’t a blessing/prayer is “behold, you are consecrated to me by this ring according to the laws of Moses and Israel.”

In Islam, there are no required vows, only the contract, although it can preclude the man from taking additional wives, and when the bride is young, give an age at which the marriage may be consummated.

Wow, I'm 63. I've been told several times I'm not an old soul, I'm ancient.

I made it a point of not reading books on history from my school years. It's really crap when you feel like Willy Wonka....

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Wow, I'm 63. I've been told several times I'm not an old soul, I'm ancient.

I made it a point of not reading books on history from my school years. It's really crap when you feel like Willy Wonka....

Can you explain what you are saying?

 

[Smallteaplant]

A more modern controversial sexual opinion: I do not care at all for the LGBT-shipping of heterosexual fictional characters. I don't really complain about it all that often because I do recognize it comes from a lack of LGBT characters present in media, so it makes sense those whom identify as such would create representation where there is none...
But I think it stigmatizes(and fetishizes) healthy hetero behaviors, particularly male friendships and emotional vulnerabilities as homoerotic in nature, instead of allowing them to be healthy representations of positive heterosexuality; examples to be followed.

It’s not the gay community that does the LGBT shipping, it’s mostly straight women. Same with boys love/yaoi media, it’s for straight women, not gay men. It’s gotten to the point that actually gay male novels are mostly written for women by women. To get a decent novel to read, I have to go back to the 2000s. So don’t pinned that on the gays. It’s the women folk.
Controversial Opinion:
Straight women want to be dominated but they’re afraid to admit because of feminism. Read yaoi to see how women view the ideal relationship.

 

[Sagittarius84]

A lot of sexually abusive behaviors and attitudes are only readily identified as such when they are perpetrated and held by straight men.

 

[cooldude101]

Straight guy.
- Prefer no condom, so, I like fucking my wife, no need for condoms.
- Would use condom with women who's not my wife
- Blowjobs are better without condoms
- Love licking pussies, love it when done right, they squirm and contract/convulse, but only with wife (safety) and a couple of GF's that I know well.
- Never tried Anal, have no desire
- Have been rimmed but didn't enjoy it.
- I always try to notify or pull out from her mouth before I come. If she consents and allow come in mouth, great, otherwise, I have too much respect for them to intentionally come in their mouth without their consent.
- I've been in nude massages done by men who went ahead and massage my dick, but just doesn't get any hard on at all, opposite with women when I usually go full hard on, so I know I'm not gay or even on the spectrum.
- But I have the urge to bath in communal baths nude with other men (tho with caveat - not with friends or people I know). Did that a few times, felt normal, didn't get a hard-on, felt comfortable.

 

[deleted8340051]

Big is not better.

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

A lot of sexually abusive behaviors and attitudes are only readily identified as such when they are perpetrated and held by straight men.

Like what?

 

[MrTMT]

For me, I'm just not into small tits or flatted chest type on a women. So far, I've only been with those with nice boobs, all natural.
I enjoy looking at those tits bouncing when I fuck.
As for condoms, they're there for reasons that needed, either prevent STD or pregnancy. I did enjoyed using variations types with my wife as a birth control method.
My favor one is the lambskin type, because it's made of natural skin, so that feels natural when I got it on. Negatives are they're expensive and the smell.