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Yeah interesting thread. Crushes suck, for me, most of the time. And not in the good way ;) They usually end up as therapy-session fodder.......

But, good luck with yours. You have a way better chance with most guys & girls here.
 

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I am still a wall flower! LOL. Its confussing, one day I think "yea, I like men more" then the next day, I think "WOW pussy is awesome"! How do you deal with the confussion? How do you know what you want? Is this fair to a person that you might end up in a relationship with?
 

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You will just know eventually. But don't force yourself to try to understand. Be careful and safe, and do what feels good.

Being yourself is fair to the person you're with, and communicatnig is important. But you can never be sure you'll never hurt a person you're with at some point.


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To those of you that are bi, do you have to figh the desire to have pussy if your dating a dick or dick if your dating a pussy?
Nope...if I am dating a woman, then I am not going to cheat with a guy...same thing goes with a guy. I am into monogamy with my relationship or I wouldn't be in it!! Now if I am not committed...that might be another story!
 

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I have a few crushes on men in here and one girl, (Stacey) but I know its just a crush, but I gotta say, Monster, I would LOVE to be with a man like u!

I thought I was the only one who has accidently crushed an LPSG member due to my clumsiness and big build. To know that I am not the only crusher is great :smile:



EDIT: MoooOOooops I misread it :redface: Ignore this post
 

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To those of you that are bi, do you have to figh the desire to have pussy if your dating a dick or dick if your dating a pussy?
Landon, sometimes I think you'e the luckiest guy in the world. If we would've received the kind of love and advice that we've all given you when we were your age, one of us would probably be ruling the world right now. At the simplest, we've had a hot, healthy gay relationship that very few would be able to hold a candle to:biggrin1::biggrin1: Having a mentor for starting to live a life that is not completely heterosexual is good, really good. My attraction for both sexes is a level ground. I'm not overrun with desire to be with a man if I'm dating a woman & vice versa. I want to be with them both so there's never any jealousy or envy or cheater-ism running around in me.

I communite with everyone that I find interest in. They know what's up. I hate fuckin' cheaters. Dating is hard scene. You have to find somebody that you're attracted to (i.e. physical apprearance, intellilect, priorities, values, goals, flaws even), will accept you for who you are, you can trust, & will fuck the hell out of you whenever you both feel up to the game. I am almost got a "warm & fuzzy" right there:wink: thinking about that ideal one. Back to lecture at hand, I never feel wrong inside of myself for my desire of men or women with I'm with the other. You shouldn't either. You keep trying shit out and examining your feelings from the shit that you try. That experience will feed your brain in the right ways. You're gonna do so well. :cool:
 

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I am still a wall flower! LOL. Its confussing, one day I think "yea, I like men more" then the next day, I think "WOW pussy is awesome"! How do you deal with the confussion? How do you know what you want? Is this fair to a person that you might end up in a relationship with?

Two really good things to do:

1. Don't question how you know what you want, just go with whatever flavor of the day you want to lick. Otherwise it means you're trying to pigeonhole and categorize yourself. Don't do that because it only leads to misery.

2. You may find that the person you're with will be all you want. You really like steak and you really like shrimp but if you never have shrimp again, you won't be denied anything that makes you really happy. You may also find someone who is bisexual as well and open to your orientation. It's not nearly so rare as you might think. It's just done very quietly so you don't hear about it so much.

Whatever happens, don't sweat it. When you really fall in love, you'll know the answers intuitively and work them out together.
 

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Osiris, I had no idea, very cool!!!!!
Jason thanks for the advice, I am very type A and like to plan everything out and always worried that I would not be a good bf to a man or a woman if I always wanted what he/she did not have! LOL
Landon
 

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Osiris, I had no idea, very cool!!!!!
Jason thanks for the advice, I am very type A and like to plan everything out and always worried that I would not be a good bf to a man or a woman if I always wanted what he/she did not have! LOL
Landon


That's a very common worry but consider it from the standpoint of being straight. Just because a man is with one woman doesn't mean he's not attracted to other women. Maybe he's thinking about small boobs one week, huge boobs the next. Maybe he's been fantasizing about short or tall girls, maybe he's turned-on lately by blondes or brunettes, Asians or Hispanics. The attractions and desires for novelty don't go away based upon your sexuality.

What makes you a good boyfriend is your character as a person. If you are genuine, kind, fun, open, and above all honest, then you'll make anyone a great boyfriend.
 

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Developing a crush on someone's posted pictures is one of the exciting things in life. It adds spice to our otherwise regular routine. The next issue is what we do about the crush once we realize it?

Fixed that for ya!

I think it's great he started this thread :) It's very cool to be comfortable with yourself enough to express feelings. Guys tend to have trouble with that for some reason. Go figure...

You are a stud among studs dude. Fucking awesome!