I couldn't find this after a quick search, and wasn't quite sure which forum to post this in, but anyone have recommendations about dating sites, either pay/free (do not post links you get revenue from--you'd probably get banned), and fling/serious dating sites? I don't mean just ones for larger guys, but any at all. Personally I'd be looking for flings, free, and either UK or USA (UK I'd use now, USA I'd use when I got back to the states). So, personally, there was a new one called abitbigger.com for bigger guys, but it's fairly rubbish as not enough people and doesn't use location information enough so hard to sort through to find local people. As for swingers sites (if you'd be into joining in with couples), fabswingers.com and local-swingers.co.uk are both good sites for those in the UK where you get a lot without paying, and SDC.com another good swinging site and probably not just for the UK, but it's a pay-per-month thing. But really, I don't know of any even half-decent non-swinging sites, pay or free (though I wouldn't pay for any of these sites), so anyone have any suggestions?