David archuleta

He mentioned in his comments that he still identifies with both the "bi" and "asexual" labels. I can definitely relate myself, considering myself both gay and also somewhere on the ace spectrum.

I guess on some level, it's hard to quantify how his bi identity translates to three failed engagements with women due to a lack of attraction. But ultimately, that's not anyone's business except his.
 
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I think at times asexual gets lumped in and conflated with repression and I don't think that will last forever for him. But who knows.

I mean, you can definitely experience all sorts of other types of attractions (romantic, sensual, etc.) and still never have the explicit desire for sex with another person.

But I think with David, time will tell. He's still in the beginning stages of self-acceptance regarding his orientation, so there's certainly a chance you could be right.
 
He hasn’t said anything recent about being bi that I’ve seen. Everything I’ve heard him say lately is that he has no attraction to the opposite sex..
 
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I still think he's Gay but he's slowly accepting who he is as a queer person baby steps give it time maybe he just hasn't found the right person
Agreed. I think he is gay, he is just slowly becoming more and more comfortable with the idea. Honestly, given his faith, if he was genuinely bi, he would probably just repressed his "sinful" feelings and went for relationships with women.
 
Gurl, don't you have any bougie GF's? They love wearing that stupidly overpriced shit. LOL
Lol, nah. I'm quite reclusive. And all the girls in my life are extremely conservative.
 
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I still think he's Gay but he's slowly accepting who he is as a queer person baby steps give it time maybe he just hasn't found the right person
If he says he’s gay, then he’s gay. If he says he’s bi, then he’s bi. I know that LPSG loves to invalidate anyone who doesn’t take on the full-on “gay” label. It’s not my, nor your, job to tell him that that the feelings he has opened up to us about are not true, just because it doesn’t perfectly fit your fantasies. End of discussion.
 
Labels can be daunting, as they mean different things to different people. "Gay" to one ear means innocently finding the same sex appealing, while to another it signifies predatory sexual deviance; David—sensitive as he is—shared this frustration in interviews. Selecting a label for oneself reflects the innate desire to be understood. Unfortunately, we as humans often listen not to understand, but to reply. We get so stuck on our own experiential knowledge that we disregard that of others. Every life is fluid and complex.

I'm just glad to see that sweet boy's infectious smile,
Knowing that he opted out of taking his own life. :heart:
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