Asexuality is having little or no sexual attraction, so it can still be there. Sex just isn't a top priority for them. I'm this way. Still a total virgin in my mid-thirties. My sex drive doesn't push me to do it. I view porn but it's more an emotional experience for me than anything. Not sure how it is for others.
I'm not all about this 150 Genders and other sexual orientation, I'm quite simple. Drop your pants and get to it.
I really don't understand the need to explain anything when it's about sticking it up the one hole or taking it in very same hole. What's the different? It's not like there are different ways that a pan sexual would have different sex than a normal gay or non-gender conforming.
But I would say your description fit Pan Sexual more? The kind of Sexual Casually Laid Back and enjoy everything?
What I'm trying to say is, I was roommate with an Hetero but Asexual guy for 4 yrs. Yes, he was obviously sexually frustrated because I was able to coerced him to give me bj and then bottom for me. I'm quite comfortable with my body so I always walk around naked and I could tell he was adjusting himself here & there, that's how it started after one drunken night and bit of urging.
But... he was never truly hard, not once in 4yrs. Though he would produce pre-cum when I pound him hard enough but he doesn't jerk off and he never cums, at least not in front of me. When I'm done with him, he'd just fall asleep, he never tried to finish himself and from what i know, he doesn't watch porn, like at all.
We still hook up from time to time whenever he's in town and he would complains to me about not being able to keep relationship with girls because he doesn't like kissing or foreplay, no v-eating & stuff and he almost have zero urge to fuck his girlfriends. And when he does, he often lost erection half way through. He said the best sex ever had was from me fucking him because all he do was just relax and let me do all the works. Technically when I was fucking him, he wasn't think about sex at all. He was just merely enjoying the sensation that his body gives him. He said to him, it was just like taking a nap under a cold breeze of the evening.
Then he thoughts he was gay, but he admittedly doesn't attract to any guys but instead only attracts to girls or Nice Girls. But after they showed him their nasty/slutty side during sex, he just lost interest completely. Currently, he's been single for almost 5yrs now. Every relation he tried didn't last more than a month.
Him being Asexual, I could understand because I see it at first hand on how uninterested he was when it comes to sex. You can give him blow job for 2hrs and he wouldn't get hard and he would even fall asleep. And when we fuck, he really doesn't want to do anything except moaning & sweating like crazy but most of time it's like fucking a sex doll with heat/sweaty-function with moaning in speakers and that's it. He was a lifeless body most of the time. And despite we have a great time, he never once initiate, it was always me who started it if I want to drill him.
I swear, most of the time it looked he was trying to sleep in middle of me pounding him. I would have lost interest too if wasn't for his moaning and his sweating. He was always soaking wet after first 2-3mins in. And the idea of him being straight was what really riled me up.
Maybe there is a spectrum for Asexual. But then again I really don't understand the labels.
I mean it's sex! There are different positions, role playing & such... but there really is just ONE WAY to do it.
Not matter what you like, it's all about stimulating your Penis or Vagina or Prostate. It's the SAME ONE CLASSIC & TRADITIONAL ACT.
It's kind of like, there are a thousand type of Teas and we're might like it a bit different from each other but there really is just "One Way" to drink it and it's through your mouth & down to our throat and that's it. ONE WAY. It's not like you can drink tea with your eyes or your ears or your nose, your ass....
