Dick size

[VisibleMan7]

Question for you all. I can see from the posts here that a big cock is a prized thing gay and straight. I have an average sized dick and generally speaking I’m fine with that. Not much I can do to change it even if I wanted to. But I am self conscious about it around gay guys. Generally speaking gay guys are into huge pricks and anything less is not acceptable. In my experience bi guys are more forgiving and don’t mind an average prick size.

Basically, what I’m saying is I’m self conscious about my size around gay guys but not around bi guys.

Thoughts, opinions, experiences?

 

[5inchAussie]

Question for you all. I can see from the posts here that a big cock is a prized thing gay and straight. I have an average sized dick and generally speaking I’m fine with that. Not much I can do to change it even if I wanted to. But I am self conscious about it around gay guys. Generally speaking gay guys are into huge pricks and anything less is not acceptable. In my experience bi guys are more forgiving and don’t mind an average prick size.

Basically, what I’m saying is I’m self conscious about my size around gay guys but not around bi guys.

Thoughts, opinions, experiences?

Even straight guys judge on size. I'm 5" x 5.5" and I often get "short and thick" comments (which I'm fine with). I don't hide my size.

 

[VisibleMan7]

That’s a very nice prick. I’d def play with that. Here is mine.

 

[5inchAussie]

Thank you. I’m trying to cultivate that attitude after being made to feel inadequate by so many

There's nothing inadequate about your cock. A bonus of your average girth is that it makes you look longer. I'm shorter at 5" and it does the job. Here's mine next to a 7 incher.

 

[Blockos]

People say I am 9 or monster or whatever terms they use BUT I am only 8.5 when extremely horny

 

[Talstar]

I was super self conscious of my size before I spent some time on here. There is such a variety compared to what porn tells us.

Pic of mine

 

[chrisrobin]

Question for you all. I can see from the posts here that a big cock is a prized thing gay and straight. I have an average sized dick and generally speaking I’m fine with that. Not much I can do to change it even if I wanted to. But I am self conscious about it around gay guys. Generally speaking gay guys are into huge pricks and anything less is not acceptable. In my experience bi guys are more forgiving and don’t mind an average prick size.

Basically, what I’m saying is I’m self conscious about my size around gay guys but not around bi guys.

Thoughts, opinions, experiences?

Cock size is perceived to be the right thing to have between your legs whatever your orientation. However, when push comes to shove there's a lot of boasting about how big a cock is and how big you can take, the reality is that a big cock doesn't always perform, hold its hardness and certainly doesn't shoot more spunk. Those that claim they like being pounded with a monster the thicker the better are often in the realms of fantasy.
At the end of the day it is guy I go for, his looks, character and personality not the size of his appendage. I've been split by a big cock and its not a good thing, I've been fucked by small cocks and enjoyed every second.
So its not what you've got that counts, it's the way you perform with what you've been born with.

 

[Latham]

Question for you all. I can see from the posts here that a big cock is a prized thing gay and straight. I have an average sized dick and generally speaking I’m fine with that. Not much I can do to change it even if I wanted to. But I am self conscious about it around gay guys. Generally speaking gay guys are into huge pricks and anything less is not acceptable. In my experience bi guys are more forgiving and don’t mind an average prick size.

Basically, what I’m saying is I’m self conscious about my size around gay guys but not around bi guys.

Thoughts, opinions, experiences?

Mate doesn't matter about the size it's what you do with it.
You'll find most gays are size queens.
I'm a 7 only ever seen one big one that being 9" they are few and far between.
As long as you can get a hard on and can fuck with it and shoot a load be grateful a dick is God's gift to us guys so enjoy yours mate

 

[chrisrobin]

I’m

totally with you. I’ve encountered men with huge cocks and although they were impressive to behold, they were not fun to swallow and certainly no funteying to take it up the arse. A more modest appendage, in the other hand, was a pleasure to play with. I’m glad I raised this issue here. I was self conscious initially. But this talking is giving me more back bone about my modest size. Thanks.

I once got picked up at work by a young guy who flashed the biggest tool I'd seen - yes I was tempted, but yes I thought I'd top him. It was a donkey dick, two hands but no matter how hard I sucked rubbed and treased I couldn't ever get it above a semi, over a few visits I tried but failed and I never even topped him more got him to have an orgasm. One of my best fucks was with a radio officer on a cruise liner. Skinny runt but massive smile and personality and sexy as hell. But in the cock department he was below average, a pencil dick but oh how he knew how to use it - every time he hit the spot, fucked like a jackrabbit and had amazing stamina and the ability to rest for five minutes and be ready to again. He was such an amazing fucker that I never even tried to shag him, being shagged was so good every time.
Taking it up the arse is an art, it's no good approaching it with a sledgehammer which is how the big dick brigade seems to think it's done.

 

[pwrdick]

I'm gay and have a larger cock. However, what turns many guys on when I am fucking them is playfully teasing them right at entrance of their ass (after opening them up carefully, of course) and then slightly farther in when I hit and massage their prostate with the head of my penis. Neither of these erotic spots requires a big dick, and both feel great on my cock. As others have mentioned, it is not necessarily the size of the penis, but how you use it to give yourself and your partner pleasure that makes a bigger difference. BTW I also prefer more modest even smaller cocks if I am sucking. There's no way would even try to give a decent blowjob to anyone as hung as me. And, finally, as a top, the bottom's dick size is inconsequential. Yes, it might be fun to watch their dick as I fuck them, but my focus is on the guy's ass, not his dick. Hope this helps put things into perspective.

 

[sminty2000]

Bro, these sizes are absurd, I’m barely 6 inches w/ a bit of girth, literally every person I’ve been with complimented my size & I’ve been around. You got 5 inches length, 4.5 inches girth you’re more than good to go, even smaller too, believe me brother!

 

[LilJock]

Even straight guys judge on size. I'm 5" x 5.5" and I often get "short and thick" comments (which I'm fine with). I don't hide my size.

Question: Under what circumstances do you get comments like "short and thick" from straight guys? That's something I don't normally hear much at the gym. Maybe they're not that straight. Frankly, don't hear that from gays, either.

 

[Steezin]

Thanks. Let’s see yours

 

[Richierhoo]

I’m gay and bro I find small dicks just as hot as massive cocks.

One ex is 11”, the biggest I have ever had but he wasn’t the best by far.

When I’m soft my dick is only 2 or 3” max but grows to a decent size.

I would suck and be fucked by it at any size

 

[5inchAussie]

@VisibleMan7 Definitely not small. A decent size.

 

[VisibleMan7]

I'm gay and have a larger cock. However, what turns many guys on when I am fucking them is playfully teasing them right at entrance of their ass (after opening them up carefully, of course) and then slightly farther in when I hit and massage their prostate with the head of my penis. Neither of these erotic spots requires a big dick, and both feel great on my cock. As others have mentioned, it is not necessarily the size of the penis, but how you use it to give yourself and your partner pleasure that makes a bigger difference. BTW I also prefer more modest even smaller cocks if I am sucking. There's no way would even try to give a decent blowjob to anyone as hung as me. And, finally, as a top, the bottom's dick size is inconsequential. Yes, it might be fun to watch their dick as I fuck them, but my focus is on the guy's ass, not his dick. Hope this helps put things into perspective.

Glad I started this conversation. I’m starting to see that there isn’t one way of looking at this. Every man has a different perspective and experience and maybe it was wrong of me to accuse gay men across the board of being size queens. Maybe I need to adjust my attitude too

 

[678wsb]

Even straight guys judge on size. I'm 5" x 5.5" and I often get "short and thick" comments (which I'm fine with). I don't hide my size.
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You weren't kidding about being thick! Gorgeous cock.

Nothing wrong with average size at all. Anything bigger than say 8" is too big to me.
Like with females, anything bigger than a "C" cup to me is too big. I like "B"s & "C"s best and HATE drooping tits. They have to be firm.

Mate doesn't matter about the size it's what you do with it.
You'll find most gays are size queens.
I'm a 7 only ever seen one big one that being 9" they are few and far between.
As long as you can get a hard on and can fuck with it and shoot a load be grateful a dick is God's gift to us guys so enjoy yours mate

Do people think 7" and 8" are considered average? Those are big.

 

[Hardfunlongrides]

I had a bottom friend of mine so turned on by our making out, he asked if he could top me - he’s average small, curved and hard as a rock when Im deep inside him- a bit surprised , I said sure! He said he hadn’t topped in years, making apologetic noises ahead of positioning himself. I took control, pulled my thighs back, and said, “Fuck your daddy, fuck me like you want me to fuck you, you hard horny fucker! ” He pushed in and fucked me so good, I never knew 4.5” could hit me right, but feeling his intensity and lust (and that curve!) had me cumming in no time, and he unloaded hard, and colapsed on me and smiled like he was drunk as we kissed and dozed.
So size matters to some, its their thing, but for many if not most, desire lust passion and intensity and even sexual tension make fucking and love making exciting.

 

[BelchersSpatula]

Nothing wrong with average size at all. Anything bigger than say 8" is too big to me.
Like with females, anything bigger than a "C" cup to me is too big. I like "B"s & "C"s best and HATE drooping tits. They have to be firm.

 

[Latham]

There's nothing inadequate about your cock. A bonus of your average girth is that it makes you look longer. I'm shorter at 5" and it does the job. Here's mine next to a 7 incher.
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Love this

People say I am 9 or monster or whatever terms they use BUT I am only 8.5 when extremely horny

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