Did your father ever talk to you about? (18+ only)

My parents sat me down for the "sex talk." Concerning masturbation, they recommended it as a release. Told me not to rush it, take as long as humanly possible. A half hour or more preferable, to prepare me for satisfying women with long sessions.

One oddity: they disapproved of wasting the "fluids" in a kleenex, and insisted I consume my output of cum. This resulted in a lifelong taste for it... Jim
And your parents recommended you eat your own cum?! How in the world did they not get nominated for a "Parents of the Year" award?!
 
And your parents recommended you eat your own cum?! How in the world did they not get nominated for a "Parents of the Year" award?!
This was the late 60s, and they may have had some hippie in them. They explained a man's semen contained a sample of his "essence", not to be wasted.

(Definition: Essence is whatever most sums up the heart and soul of something, its truest most indispensable qualities...)

They felt consuming a man's semen made a person stronger... I can't disagree! Jim
 
All dads should shower with their sons?! In your world, a demonstration is necessary rather than a simple explanation?! The notion that it is "what all american [sic] dads should do" is as absurd as it is perverse.

I had a demonstration. No big deal.
 
I caught my dad jerking off. It was a naked house ( he lived alone) so the nudity wasn’t surprising. He was cool about it. Asked me if I had any questions about what he was doing. I had been playing with cock at that point but I did so by humping my bed. It never occurred to me to wrap my hand around it. I also thought I was the only person in the world who did it so I was surprised that all men played with their penises. When he told me that women did it too, my mind was blown lol! I’m grateful that it wasn’t a moment of shame. And I was happy to learn how to jerk off like a man.
That’s so great that you got to see the real deal from your dad. Nothing shameful about a grown man enjoying his cock. I bet that was such a healthy way to enter into touching yourself. Seems like you had a great dad.
 
Wasn't talked to about masturbation or even given "the talk" by my dad. Not sure why, it just never happened. Not sure if he did it with my brothers. Pretty much had to figure everything out on my own, didn't even have friends to talk to about it. It was a situation where I had to look something up on the Internet and had the "oh that's what masturbating is". I mainly didn't know the term for it.
 
My parents sat me down for the "sex talk." Concerning masturbation, they recommended it as a release. Told me not to rush it, take as long as humanly possible. A half hour or more preferable, to prepare me for satisfying women with long sessions.

One oddity: they disapproved of wasting the "fluids" in a kleenex, and insisted I consume my output of cum. This resulted in a lifelong taste for it... Jim
Well that’s awesome. I always ate my loads from as long as I can remember. As my house wasn’t very open minded and quite prudish I was worried someone would find my cum socks lol. I also great quite the appetite for a warm salty load. 😋💦
 
Yes. He gave me a full talk with diagrams and stuff about masturbation. Prepared me well
As every parent, legal guardian, older sibling, etc should. That's their job in making sure that when the time comes, their offspring [or anyone that they take care of] should know about where babies come from, how to protect themselves from STD's and unwanted pregnancies, etc.
I've ALWAYS hated when a parent doesn't do this part of the job (speaking from experience in regards to my Dad & stepmom; glad that they at least learn their lesson when the time came when their kids became of age). Met a few over the years, fricking pisses me off.
 
Met a few over the years, fricking pisses me off. One of my old friends from back then was WAY too sheltered. His mom was one of those religious, anti-sex, homophobic, sexist, over-protective, smothering, alcoholic parents who did everything in her power to make sure her son was never going to be exposed to sex, drugs, violence, guns, etc.......by not talking about it to him. You can't protect him from anything if you don't teach him how to protect himself from these types of things form happening to him. What an idiot.

Big shock, it happened to him. And he had no idea at all what they were doing until after the fact. All he knew that whatever they were doing he wanted more of it. Luckily, the chick who took his virginity didn't get pregnant. Last I heard, she was still taking his cock & cum once she got on birth control. And dear old mom was non the wiser that her cute, young, babyface, skinny, hung son was on the path of becoming a cocksman thanks to his new girlfriend.
 
I was very lucky that sex was a pretty open topic in our house. He talked to me about masturbation and let me know that was a normal thing for guys to do - even him. He even bought me some lotion that he said was the best to use for jerking off. He bought me condoms too and encouraged me to practice putting them on and jerking off with them to get a sense of how they work and feel.

When I came out to him he just laughed and said “yeah I always knew”. Apparently even as a teen he’d catch me checking out naked guys in locker rooms. He also told me he discovered my porn browsing internet history. He also heard me messing around with buddies a few times but always waited for me to bring it up. I’m lucky he was always so cool.
 
I was very lucky that sex was a pretty open topic in our house. He talked to me about masturbation and let me know that was a normal thing for guys to do - even him. He even bought me some lotion that he said was the best to use for jerking off. He bought me condoms too and encouraged me to practice putting them on and jerking off with them to get a sense of how they work and feel.

When I came out to him he just laughed and said “yeah I always knew”. Apparently even as a teen he’d catch me checking out naked guys in locker rooms. He also told me he discovered my porn browsing internet history. He also heard me messing around with buddies a few times but always waited for me to bring it up. I’m lucky he was always so cool.
Your dad is so cool. Why can't more parents be like that?
 
I was very lucky that sex was a pretty open topic in our house. He talked to me about masturbation and let me know that was a normal thing for guys to do - even him. He even bought me some lotion that he said was the best to use for jerking off. He bought me condoms too and encouraged me to practice putting them on and jerking off with them to get a sense of how they work and feel.

When I came out to him he just laughed and said “yeah I always knew”. Apparently even as a teen he’d catch me checking out naked guys in locker rooms. He also told me he discovered my porn browsing internet history. He also heard me messing around with buddies a few times but always waited for me to bring it up. I’m lucky he was always so cool.
What a beautiful story. You got lucky with such a loving and understanding father.
 
Masturbation?
Yeah we have a very open bro like bond so nothing is off limits to talk about.

When he realized i started watching porn he gave me his DVDs/magazines and it became a thing between me him and my older bro that we shared what we liked amongst each other. If my dad was getting lube, condoms, etc. he’d get them for us / vice versa

we didn’t jerk together that wasn’t a thing really. Now when he showed me how to use a condom I followed along with my own , we both busted our load and he showed me the way to unroll it. It was more educational/instructional than it sounds. If that makes sense.

And then, if one of us was in the den watching porn and jerking .. of course you may see the screen , stroke a bit, and move on but it was never a thing to actually masturbate with my dad. Which is ironic because with my bros, dad, and uncles we have some filthy experiences with women when we have our guy trips

I think there’s just a level of comfort and trust that I have with my dad. I can go to him for anything and it doesn’t feel abnormal or weird